Punishing or blowing off sh*t tests?

[WanderingMan]

In my experience girls that were really interested in me did not sh-it test me, ever.
(cancelling one date because she feels sick is not a sh-it test. Creating a bit of drama after 12 dates...no biggie.)

However, all the other slvts I've met with whom I've had from 1 to 6 or 7 dates, who had medium to low interest had sh-it test me one way or another. It also applies to girls that believed they were the 8th world wonder.

So as many guys here have preached, in general, girls that are into you AND are not fvcked up in the head, do not sh-it test you.

There are different times and different reasons why or when a woman will **** test you.

To add on to what PK said, when a woman feels YOU losing interest - drifting away - she will **** test you to try to reel you back in. Examples: try to make you jealous, bring up past faults or indiscretions you've committed, or even break up with you. These **** tests are not because she is losing interest, they are because she feels her power waning, and she wants to regain that power.

 

[Poon King]

In my experience girls that were really interested in me did not sh-it test me, ever.
(cancelling one date because she feels sick is not a sh-it test. Creating a bit of drama after 12 dates...no biggie.)

However, all the other slvts I've met with whom I've had from 1 to 6 or 7 dates, who had medium to low interest had sh-it test me one way or another. It also applies to girls that believed they were the 8th world wonder.

So as many guys here have preached, in general, girls that are into you AND are not fvcked up in the head, do not sh-it test you.

All the women you dated sh!t tested you. Whether you noticed it or not is a different story.

Generally.. the less you are trying to "impress" a woman or pander to her interests.. the less you will notice a sh!t test. These tests are most obvious when you are hyper-focused on ONE woman and analyzing every move she makes like a typical desperate beta b!tch.

 

[G_Govan]

There are some real gems in this post, I hope most are taking notes.

I'm trying to help out a brother-in-law but I can't throw everything at him all at once. I may just copy and paste some of this stuff. The explanations are very clear, concise and on point.

When you hold the frame (truly confident in yourself) sh-t tests become quite funny to observe as stated. You don't think of them in terms of "passing," that's just a form of placing them on a pedestal.

Your kids test you but you don't say to yourself "Yes!! I passed my kids sh-t test!!! It's more like "shut up and do what I told you," or "lol, ok little man I won't spank you this time, stop crying." Of course the dynamic is a little different with the chick you're with but it's very, very similar. They are very much like children at times even the smart, "mature" ones.

 

[Drummer93]

I don't think you understand what shít tests are. A shít test is a woman testing a man's ability to lead or his frame. What you listed was just frankly disrespectful behavior.

BINGO.

Punishing is all ego talk, the woman is not your child so why punish her? Absence is much stronger then trying to pick a fight. Demonstrate your frame, stayed centered and move forward. You've got a train and you're heading somewhere, it's up to them if they want to jump on or not, if they don't then oh well.

 

[WanderingMan]

BINGO.

Punishing is all ego talk, the woman is not your child so why punish her? Absence is much stronger then trying to pick a fight. Demonstrate your frame, stayed centered and move forward. You've got a train and you're heading somewhere, it's up to them if they want to jump on or not, if they don't then oh well.

Absence is punishment.

 

[RangerMIke]

Woman are attracted to honesty. Men that are congruent are honest. What we call tests are the best way she can determine if you are who you appear to be. High status confident men are not bothered by this sort of thing.

The best way to respond is to not react to it at all. Positive or negative. Don't take it personal... all women do this, there isn't a man on this planet that is in or has been in a relationship with a woman that has NOT been tested. Often times they don't even realize what they are doing.

I think the most common, and one that I have to deal with all the time is a woman NOT getting back with me. You call or leave a message and she waits to contact you..... She's trying to see if you are going to turn into a needy b!tch.

The ONLY way to deal with this is to never call her until she calls you. The worst thing you can do is to keep trying to contact her when she doesn't return your call.

You make the effort, if she doesn't reciprocate then just move on. If she likes you, she will reach out to you.... just be patient.

 

[WanderingMan]

For THEM not me. When I'm spinning plates and have a handful of women to entertain, I will naturally deprive them of my time and attention without even necessarily trying or being conscious of it because my focus and energy and thoughts are on other women (or just on other things). They will have to reenter MY frame.

Added a little bit, in red. But yes, I couldn't agree more.

 

[Suspens]

When she is giving you **** tests, she is throwing all of her toxic negativity at you. You just kick the hoe out of plate rotation and move on.


These chicks are experts at game since they have been gamed and overgamed by pro alphas. So they know all the rules and tricks. You don't put up with this nonsense and spend your time on a decent chick who won't entrap you inside a maze which may or may not lead into her stinking pvssy.

 

[amazingswayze]

Pass them with flying colors.

Give her whatever she deserves.

Every situation is different.

 

[Poon King]

decent chick who won't entrap you inside a maze which may or may not lead into her stinking pvssy.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Funniest post I've read in a while. Cracking up.

This "decent chick" is an illusion though. The reality is ALL women who want a relationship will sh!t test. They will sh!t test both before the relationship is established and after it is established.

This is why all couples have "fights" at some point. Men generally try to get along with women and avoid drama. Most fights occur because of.. or resulting from, a sh!t test.

You experience it less when spinning plates because those women know they have competition and a sh!t test can send you running into the arms of her competition. YET.. many women will do it anyway because they believe it will give them MORE of your attention. Remember that women are not rational. Which is why sh!t testing doesn't make sense to most rational men.

Sh!t tests are here to say. But they should not bother you unless you're extremely outcome dependent.

 

[PoonGod]

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Funniest post I've read in a while. Cracking up.

This "decent chick" is an illusion though. The reality is ALL women who want a relationship will sh!t test. They will sh!t test both before the relationship is established and after it is established.

This is why all couples have "fights" at some point. Men generally try to get along with women and avoid drama. Most fights occur because of.. or resulting from, a sh!t test.

You experience it less when spinning plates because those women know they have competition and a sh!t test can send you running into the arms of her competition. YET.. many women will do it anyway because they believe it will give them MORE of your attention. Remember that women are not rational. Which is why sh!t testing doesn't make sense to most rational men.

Sh!t tests are here to say. But they should not bother you unless you're extremely outcome dependent.

Anything that isn't a complete agreement in life with anyone or anything can be seen as a 'sh1t test' to a sociopath.

Methinks the only 'sh1t tests' you prefer are taking it in your bum from other g@y men then 'blowing those sh1t tests off' by partaking in ATM. :crackup: