Hey, new to the board. Recently single after 3 year LTR- I am back to hustling. Thought i should try and keep a field report going. Critique / Wing man welcome.
I work mostly during the week. mon-thurs mid afternoon is ideal. I generally spend my time walking around Chicago's downtown area. I frequent coffee shops / stores / anything I pass walking from place to place. I brush teeth, wear a nice suit coat- have hair immaculately done, and apply a small amount of cologne before going out.
Day 1:
- Approach HB7 waiting for subway. Use typical line "Good afternoon- my name is Ryan. I had to introduce myself, because I think that you are cute. I would like to get drinks- maybe coffee sometime with you. You should give me your number. It worked really well. Girl lit up like a christmas tree- big smile and blush. She thanked me, but said she had a BF. Next!
- Approach HB7 in coffee shop. Sit down across from her and give standard line (read above). Girl smiles, but again has a BF. Next!
-Approach HB8 While walking in street. Get her to take headphones out. Use standard line. She smiles, and tells me wow- its really cool that you would ask someone that. Then she pulled off her mitten- and a ring was there. She said sorry, gave me a hug and we parted ways. Next!
Rough first day. I am not sure if I am handling everything as well as I could be. I don't think that trying to pursue anything with someone that straight up tells you they are in a relationship is a good idea. personally I take it as a sign of LI- and its not worth trying to pursue. Am i wrong?
Day 2
Before going out- I worked on my approach a bit more. It has been awhile since I have been out trying to pull. So i slowed down my my opening line. I was getting more comfortable after being out of the game so long- but i think that I have a ways to go.
- Approach HB7 In coffee shop. Use standard line (read above) get a nice smile, and while i am asking about Coffee / drinks- she actually says "I should give you my number" and pulls out her phone. The rest was easy. Will give her a call in 5 or so days. She is a college student studying for finals- so a nice coffee date should be a perfect distraction for her.
- Approach HB7 on street. I have never had any luck while trying to pull a girl walking down the street (yet i do it anyway). I at least got her to stop this time. But after my rap- she said sorry im not available. Next! (What am I missing for the street pull? I have such a hard time getting anything off the street. Its borderline impossible for me.) Next!
-Approach HB8 She doesn't stop walking, looks right at me and keeps going. Next!
- Approach HB7 in Coffee shop. Say line, and get a super positive response. She would have given me her number. However she was just visiting from out of town (lives in Ohio). I wasn't interested, and terminated the conversation. Next!
- Approach HB8 On street. Got her to stop, but again- after getting her name, throwing the rap she hits me with "I'm not available" and keeps walking. Next!
That is what I have so far fellas. Let me know if you see anything I can do to improve the hustle.
I work mostly during the week. mon-thurs mid afternoon is ideal. I generally spend my time walking around Chicago's downtown area. I frequent coffee shops / stores / anything I pass walking from place to place. I brush teeth, wear a nice suit coat- have hair immaculately done, and apply a small amount of cologne before going out.
Day 1:
- Approach HB7 waiting for subway. Use typical line "Good afternoon- my name is Ryan. I had to introduce myself, because I think that you are cute. I would like to get drinks- maybe coffee sometime with you. You should give me your number. It worked really well. Girl lit up like a christmas tree- big smile and blush. She thanked me, but said she had a BF. Next!
- Approach HB7 in coffee shop. Sit down across from her and give standard line (read above). Girl smiles, but again has a BF. Next!
-Approach HB8 While walking in street. Get her to take headphones out. Use standard line. She smiles, and tells me wow- its really cool that you would ask someone that. Then she pulled off her mitten- and a ring was there. She said sorry, gave me a hug and we parted ways. Next!
Rough first day. I am not sure if I am handling everything as well as I could be. I don't think that trying to pursue anything with someone that straight up tells you they are in a relationship is a good idea. personally I take it as a sign of LI- and its not worth trying to pursue. Am i wrong?
Day 2
Before going out- I worked on my approach a bit more. It has been awhile since I have been out trying to pull. So i slowed down my my opening line. I was getting more comfortable after being out of the game so long- but i think that I have a ways to go.
- Approach HB7 In coffee shop. Use standard line (read above) get a nice smile, and while i am asking about Coffee / drinks- she actually says "I should give you my number" and pulls out her phone. The rest was easy. Will give her a call in 5 or so days. She is a college student studying for finals- so a nice coffee date should be a perfect distraction for her.
- Approach HB7 on street. I have never had any luck while trying to pull a girl walking down the street (yet i do it anyway). I at least got her to stop this time. But after my rap- she said sorry im not available. Next! (What am I missing for the street pull? I have such a hard time getting anything off the street. Its borderline impossible for me.) Next!
-Approach HB8 She doesn't stop walking, looks right at me and keeps going. Next!
- Approach HB7 in Coffee shop. Say line, and get a super positive response. She would have given me her number. However she was just visiting from out of town (lives in Ohio). I wasn't interested, and terminated the conversation. Next!
- Approach HB8 On street. Got her to stop, but again- after getting her name, throwing the rap she hits me with "I'm not available" and keeps walking. Next!
That is what I have so far fellas. Let me know if you see anything I can do to improve the hustle.
