Alright... this is a bit complicated but...
I work a tour guide-type job for international tourists that come to the area to learn more about American culture, English language, blah blah blah.
So I meet this one girl from the group (who is very, very fyne) who speaks the best english and is the same age as I am. After doing the normal tour guide-ish duties, I offer to take her and her friends into the downtown area of the city for fun and they, not knowing anyone from the U.S. at this point, accept. I take them out, and I have a good repoire with all four of the girls I went with (I think one of them is interested in me). Anywho, I offer to go out with them again sometime, which they accept, and we did this past Monday. Upon going home, the Japanese girl I'm trying to go for (who happens to be the only one with a boyfriend back home) was doing some kino on my arm (which, from my experience from natives from Japan, is incredibly rare culturally after only knowing someone for a few days, muchless a lifetime).
Around 9ish as I'm escorting her and her 3 friends home she asks me if I'm tired. I say no, she makes a comment that it's because 'my legs are long.' I play around with her comment, making her laugh, which she responds with "are you hungry?" I say yes, and ask her likewise, she says yes, I ask her if she wants to go eat somewhere later, and she says she wants to go home first so a friend of hers (whom she implied was female) could join us.
We show up at the building and she tells me to come with her to discuss with her friend where we should eat. I tell her I can't come in because visitors aren't allowed inside after certain hours (in actuality I said this because I've had past problems with the law in this building... the cops told security to have me arrested on-sight if I am ever spotted inside again... long story lol).
When I said that, she said we'll have to do it some other time then.
I think this definitely hurt my chances, but she's going to be here for 4 more weeks before going back to Japan, so I've got plenty of time to make a more significant move. Keeping in mind that I can't EVER be seen inside this girl's building (I'm 100% confident I'll be arrested since my being 'banned' from this building was drug-related), that her English is good-yet-far from ideal, and that she has a boyfriend waiting back home... what should be my next move?
(Sidenote: Kinda hard to suggest we go back to my place either... I don't have a car)
I work a tour guide-type job for international tourists that come to the area to learn more about American culture, English language, blah blah blah.
So I meet this one girl from the group (who is very, very fyne) who speaks the best english and is the same age as I am. After doing the normal tour guide-ish duties, I offer to take her and her friends into the downtown area of the city for fun and they, not knowing anyone from the U.S. at this point, accept. I take them out, and I have a good repoire with all four of the girls I went with (I think one of them is interested in me). Anywho, I offer to go out with them again sometime, which they accept, and we did this past Monday. Upon going home, the Japanese girl I'm trying to go for (who happens to be the only one with a boyfriend back home) was doing some kino on my arm (which, from my experience from natives from Japan, is incredibly rare culturally after only knowing someone for a few days, muchless a lifetime).
Around 9ish as I'm escorting her and her 3 friends home she asks me if I'm tired. I say no, she makes a comment that it's because 'my legs are long.' I play around with her comment, making her laugh, which she responds with "are you hungry?" I say yes, and ask her likewise, she says yes, I ask her if she wants to go eat somewhere later, and she says she wants to go home first so a friend of hers (whom she implied was female) could join us.
We show up at the building and she tells me to come with her to discuss with her friend where we should eat. I tell her I can't come in because visitors aren't allowed inside after certain hours (in actuality I said this because I've had past problems with the law in this building... the cops told security to have me arrested on-sight if I am ever spotted inside again... long story lol).
When I said that, she said we'll have to do it some other time then.
I think this definitely hurt my chances, but she's going to be here for 4 more weeks before going back to Japan, so I've got plenty of time to make a more significant move. Keeping in mind that I can't EVER be seen inside this girl's building (I'm 100% confident I'll be arrested since my being 'banned' from this building was drug-related), that her English is good-yet-far from ideal, and that she has a boyfriend waiting back home... what should be my next move?
(Sidenote: Kinda hard to suggest we go back to my place either... I don't have a car)
