Puerto Rican (Dr. P) Need some advice. Sex won't blind me.

[ThunderMaverick]

The reason I'm asking you, doc, is because from what I gather from your post, you're a man all for monogomy. And so am I. I'm 23 and I'm not where I want to be in my life yet, so I think a relationship is out of the question for now. I can't invest my time in someone or take care of them when I haven't invested all I can in myself. (I have a hard time taking care of myself as it is.)

So I lose my virginity to this chick a month ago. (Yes this site and David D are miracle workers) and basically she's really into me. I've told her that I'm not looking for a relationship and that I could either be her friend or her lover. NOT both. She said she understood and was fine with it, but you know how females can be. (think of a man and take away all reason and accountability!) I go to her house to bang her and afterwards she's showing me her baby pictures and letting me read her poetry, etc. I think she's trying to get me to be closer to her, but I'm not having it.

I mean, the sex is good, but I'm not letting that cloud my judgement. I got with her a week after she broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years. (I was very flirty with her even before she broke up with her boyfriend) In the back of my mind I'm saying "maybe I could have a relationship with this chick" but then there are other factors as well. She's bi-sexual so (i know, this'll be a shocker to say) for me it's kind of a turn off.

Dr. P, I'm perfectly capable of leaving this girl and move on without batting an eye. Considering all of the factors I've mentioned above, should I? Hell, would you?

Would anyone else here? I really don't want to hurt this chick if she's getting attatched. She's...nice.

Advice you guys. Pleeese!

 

[Create Reality]

Well I would say don't get emotionally attached in the first place, but since you already have, what else can you do? I would ask myself what I want out of my life, and look at my current situation objectively as possible. Do I want to invest into a relationship with this girl or not? It's all about what you want.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Hahaha, "Bi-sexual" - you picked a winner bud!!!

No wonder she didn't care if you were a friend or lover - in fact you are neither to her - you are just her play thing for the moment!

Don't get this Ho, errrrr,, Homo,, errrr, hell I don't even know what to call her!!!

Don't get her pregnant, or get a disease, nor be emorionally attached to her and don't let her control things!!!

Nothing surprises or shocks me anymore, I must be getting old!!

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Oh yeah, your monogamy question - she is obviously not monogamous as a bi-sexual/homo/hor so why are you??

Why such the moral stand of monogamy when you are dealing with a hor/homo ? Oh yeah, you don't want a disease - well guess what? Your chances are high here of getting one - good luck!!!

 

[Pimp-sicle]

This girl is a wack job, plain and simple!!! She's into girls and guys, she just got out of a LTR and she's already showing you her baby pictures!!! WTF!! Is the red flag going off in your head or are you color blind!! These chicks are masters and playing off of you, don't be fooled because she will hook you good and then hang you up on her wall with the rest of the chumps that preceeded you.


PIMP

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Yeah Pimsicle, she is a homo and a hor - "whacked" is a nice way of describing her mental state!!

When you play with fire you get burned - just don't be surprised of the cause when you cry out in pain!!

 

[Don Juanabbe]

I wonder if she's just one of these young girls who say they are 'bi-sexual' just because it's the in thing right now.

Either way, you are her rebound toy, she jumped from her ex boyfriends jock straight onto yours, and she's really young.

My idea is that you shouldn't even be concerned with even considering this girl as potential long term material, because she isn't.

She sounds like just another f*cked up hor.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Guys, you don't understand something.
I'm not looking for a long term relationship with her.

I'M IN CONTROL OF THE SITUATION. She's not in control of anything.

I talked to her about it last night. She went to idaho and asked if I missed her because she missed me. I told her no and she seemed surprised. LOL I kinda meant it as a joke. But here's the thing. I told her that I'm not into having a LTR, that I am perfectly happy being her lover or her friend. I won't be both. She said she would "wait" for me as long as she could. O_O;; I told her that's a pretty insecure thing to say and she said "well there's no one else to wait for at the moment" LOL that was cute.

This isn't about me getting my feelings hurt. It's about me hurting her feelings. And yes, she jumped from one guy to the next, but I mean, come on guys! We're DJ's! (somewhat) We have knowledge that most modern guys don't! We know how to talk to women in that "code". We can see it all, like when neo saw the matrix. We have that sight. So automatically I went straight to the heart. I actually moved too fast, not her.

I was aggressive, and she got a kick out of that. She said her last boyfriend was a wuss. Writing poetry and ****. Crying on her shoulder. He was not a man. Dr. P has a name for guys like these, but I can't think of it right now. I was a man. I was confident and strong. She LOVED that. She even said her boyfriend wasn't aggressive in bed. Believe you me, I beat that shit up! I sunk my fuckin' teeth into it.
Bit into it whole...sweet juices squirting out the corner of my mouth..

*salivates*

Eh, anyways. I don't think she's a whore (Dr, I don't think you have evidence for this, I'm sorry. EDIT: No, you do have evidence. She slept with me 2 months after really talking to her. I knew her for about 6 months? Hm. I dunno) because she's been in a 2 year relationship. And the GUY fucked it up by not being a man, not her. (I remember Doc P, you saying that a guy chooses if a girl cheats on him, not her, in another post.)

So. She said she was fine with the current situation. I told her if I was going to sleep with anyone else that I would tell her out of safety and respect. She agreed to do the same.

Ya think this'll get messy?

 

[Rockadeimis]

It's already messy my friend...

Just become an item and get it over with. That's the only road you two can go down at this point. She is looking at you as LTR material, you've jumped from the 'lover' to the 'boyfriend' category in her eyes. That's why she's willing to wait for your ass.

 

[Lost In Translation]

An Australian Street Pimp's Perspective :

she said "well there's no one else to wait for at the moment" LOL that was cute

does not bode well

you told her you are not LTR material

she will now seek out and find someone else

she will keep you at the moment until she finds someone who is LTR material

her above quote says it all

She's bi-sexual so (i know, this'll be a shocker to say) for me it's kind of a turn off

bi-sexual chicks turn me off too. i f*cking hate them.

WHY I HATE BI-SEXUAL DIRTY A$$ WH0RES

me and a wingman of mine were out with these two chicks. we were hooking up with them. my wingman started arguing with his chick. my chick started getting JEALOUS, madly insanley jealous. then somehow in her jealous rage it comes out that these 2 chicks stuck a vibrator in each other the night before using the batteries from the tv remote becaue the other batteries had gone flat.

YOU DON'T F*CK YOUR FRIENDS

why does society think it's normal or natural for two women to hook up ? why don't men realise it's the same as if they ****ed their male friends up the a$$. there is no difference. just because they don't have d*cks it's ok ? IT"S AN ABOMINATION to me either way

as soon as i heard the JEALOUS bi-sexual chick i was like

get the f*ck away from me h0 !

another story :

2 weeks ago i am at my friends house for a 2 on 2 match up with these chicks. it's his deal i just am helping him out i am not interested in either of these h0es. i am the wingman so i am trying to cover my chick and give him the backup to score with his chick. i am not interested in the other chick but i get along with her. my friend starts making some ground with his chick who he has been after for awhile. and then.....

my chick professes to be a bi-sexual. reminds his chick that they HOOKED UP when she was drunk last week. ok.... the bi-sexual starts getting jealous and C0CK BLOCKS my friend

not c0ck block like a normal chick tries to stop you. she tries to STEAL his chick. with all sorts of low and dirty tactics ( including offers for drugs ). i am sitting there in disbelief. she even tries to SHAME the chick my friend is after. " ashley i just wanna say you got the most gorgeous t*ts i have ever seen and i should know cause i f*cked you "

my mate takes his game up a level. i am like YEAH MAN show this bi-sexual h0 you Tony Danza

WHO'S THE BOSS

so the the bi-sexual h0 pulls out some speed ( really ice but these idiots think its speed ) and offers it to his chick. she takes it and goes and snorts it in his bathroom. i am starting to want to eject from this set. i don't chill with junkie b*tches.

chick comes back my friend picks up the ball and runs with it. bi-sexual chick is going mental she knows she has lost so she says I AM GOING HOME. if you staying at my house Ashley you must come home now too. so they leave. probably the drugs will kick in by the time they reach her house which is why the bi-sexual chick gave her the drugs and they can have sex again. cause they are best friends.

and it's ok to f*ck your best friends when you are a chick and society labels it as normal

f*ck 2005 i am living in Sodom and Gommorah

as PR_L would say " SAY NO TO BI-SEXUAL H0ES "


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

LIT - that is some surreal shyt!!! No shame left - we (our society)are done!!! No more shame or shock over anything!!

Get a new circle of companions. I know - you are working on it.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I share your beliefs, guys. I really do. I would have liked to have gotten to know this girl better before I fucked her, but I was so excited using my new powers that I didn't hesiate. I guess I did it because...it seemed like she couldn't do better than me. That's a...horrendous thing to say. I'm at the stage in my life where I get girls like THAT. It dosen't make her less of a human being, it's just that her lifestyle is different from the ideal lifestyle I desire.

I want more than a "whore", but I can't afford one right now.

You want to know what else is sick? Even If I met someone who was perfect for me...I wouldn't go for it.

I'm not looking for someone to have a LTR with at this time in my life. I can't even take care of myself.

Any alternatives besides jacking off? Dr. P, what would YOU do in my situation?

"Whore" or not, I'm not in the bussiness of hurting people.

 

[NewMan]

Dude why are you overcomplicating this?

Have you lied to her? nope.

Have you misguided her about where you are and your feelings?

Nope.

So you are not doing anything wrong here.

As long as you are honest and up front - then there is no problem. if you are manipulating her - and beign deceitful, then perhaps I can understand your thoughts.

Bottom line is, your both having fun. So continue to do that if you want - but continue to be honest and tell her you do not want a relationship.

Now go forth and enjoy young DJ.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by ThunderMaverick
I told her if I was going to sleep with anyone else that I would tell her out of safety and respect. She agreed to do the same.

Ya think this'll get messy?

I tell you what gets messy – EATING THE VAGINA OF A HOR/HOMO!!!!!!!

For goodness sakes man, let go of the pvssy and get a hold of yourself.

In this day of rampant disease why are you eating a woman’s vagina?? It is an internal organ!! Why not eat her liver while you are at it, for crying out loud!!

You young bastards have a ravenous appetite for the dirty!!

Thunderman, I imagine you “ate her out” as if you were at a hot dog eating contest and after you finished you raised your hands up in victory as if you won a grand prize!

You guys wont eat off of a spoon at a restaurant because it has a speckle of dust on it but you readily indulge in that which is covered infinitely worse in germs, disease, and sperm!!!

QUIT EATING PVSSY!!!!!

Use your penis to please a woman and not your tongue, this is not natural nor healthy - her perverted homo partner uses her tongue since she cannot please here by any natural means!!! You, as a man don't need to do this, nor should you!!!

Pvssy-Eater, change your name!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dude, you asked a lesbian to be loyal to you? Did you read Lost In Translation’s post? Are you so naïve to believe that this hor/homo combo (hey that rhymes) is going to be faithful to your wishes?

Wake up!! The Matrix has you!!

Follow the Puerto Rican rabbit!!

Why do you want her exclusively – oh yeah, you said you are in a situation at the moment that doesn’t allow you to be in a LTR.

Well, my stand would be to wait until someone more mentally stable and for one who had scruples comes along….

But I know that you are lonely so you will do what you have to do but please don’t eat her dirty hole man, let her lesbo pervert partner do that and you only do what men do!!!

"Out of safety and respect"...... When you are dealing with a hor there is NO safety or respect!!!

QUIT EATING PVSSY!!!!!

 

[DJDamage]

You guys wont eat off of a spoon at a restaurant because it has a speckle of dust on it but you readily indulge in that which is covered infinitely worse in germs, disease, and sperm!!! Quit eating pvssy!!!!

Pvssy-Eater, change your name!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Classic PRL

 

[Centaurion]

why society accepts thatr two chicks stick a vibrtator in eachopther?

BECAUSE ITS ****ING HOT!!!!

 

[ThunderMaverick]

P, she taste really good.


I don't know what kind of bad experiences you had with eating pussy but I can confirm that she taste like sweet wine. She's very clean. Don't hate because you've had your head neck deep in some toxic fishmarket. heh.

We both were tested and we both were clean. I got tested way before I started getting with her. So it's a clean homo pussy.


Plus since I'm new to the whole sex scene, I don't have a clue as to how to make her cum by just penetration. Since you're a fan of just stickin' Doc, gimme some advice.

Please don't skim on the details.

 

[Lost In Translation]

Quote - ThunderMaverick
Don't hate because you've had your head neck deep in some toxic fishmarket

ROFL !!!


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[NewMan]

Use your penis to please a woman and not your tongue, this is not natural nor healthy

PRL - you are to damn funny.


And I suppose you would never get a blow job either right?

No wonder you only like Virgins....

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Dr. P, I think you're good at giving relationship advice.


But I sure as hell don't see you as a master "lover". I don't know how the hell you could please a woman with your current attitude. It seems to me that you're just out to please yourself and not her also.

If that's the case, then I feel sorry for your virgin girlfriend.