PUAs who act like getting rejected makes you a better person

latino158

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PUA aspies are the biggest copers known to man. Rejection is a situation of where the girl is making YOU realise that your looks, money, status is lower than hers, and your not attractive enough to get inbetween her wet *****. its all about pre-selection, they either want you or they don't.

PUA scammers will spew out any nonsense to sell their useless seduction advice, and one of them is, that "rejection will make you a better person". Of course pretty much all people get rejected (even the slayers), but when you rejected all the time, it has an effect on you, and let's not sugar coat this, it's not a positive one.

The PUAs and society will say that you "shouldn't take rejection personally", but who they are trying to kid?, rejection hurts, and anyone who says that they don't take rejection personally, is a liar, sure rejection will not be as painful to a Chad/or Slayer who knows that even if he does get rejected (albeit sometimes), he knows that a yes is just around the corner. It's entirely a different ball game, if you are an ugly hard core incel who has experienced nothing but rejection from women his entire life.

never ending rejection from your opposite sex can have a devastating effect on your self esteem/self confidence, and can lead to some nasty stuff like depression. In some cases, long or life time incel can lead to suicide, and I know of several men who took their own lives, because they had no luck with women.

If the scumbag PUAs had any sense of ethics and decency (yeah, I know, don't hold your breath on that one), what they should be teaching men is self-improving themselves so that they can increase their chances with women, but this is common sense men should know anyway. The PUAs instructing men to cold approach women in bars, clubs and in public (ie. day game), is awful advice and will only lead men down a black hole of despair and frustration.

The PUAs will always argue that picking up women is a skill that once learned, can be replicated again, but this is ridiculous as picking up women is NOT a skill, it never has been and never will be. A real skill eg. learning how to drive a car is a true skill, because assuming the car you are driving is both safe and serviceable, the car will do what you command it do eg. if you turn the steering wheel left, the car will go left, if you turn the wheel right, the car will go right etc, etc. You see the car is a neutral object, and it doesn't give a ****, who you are, and whether or not you succeed in learning how to drive. A woman, on the other hand is a human being with a mind of it's own, that can work with you, or against you regardless of how well you present yourself to her. The bottom line is, WOMEN PRESELECT YOU (based on your looks and race), and irrespective how well you present yourself to a woman in terms of your confidence, social skills etc, you have NO control over the outcome, she is either into you, or she isn't.

end of rant.
 

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latino158 said:
PUA aspies are the biggest copers known to man. Rejection is a situation of where the girl is making YOU realise that your looks, money, status is lower than hers, and your not attractive enough to get inbetween her wet *****. its all about pre-selection, they either want you or they don't.

PUA scammers will spew out any nonsense to sell their useless seduction advice, and one of them is, that "rejection will make you a better person". Of course pretty much all people get rejected (even the slayers), but when you rejected all the time, it has an effect on you, and let's not sugar coat this, it's not a positive one.

The PUAs and society will say that you "shouldn't take rejection personally", but who they are trying to kid?, rejection hurts, and anyone who says that they don't take rejection personally, is a liar, sure rejection will not be as painful to a Chad/or Slayer who knows that even if he does get rejected (albeit sometimes), he knows that a yes is just around the corner. It's entirely a different ball game, if you are an ugly hard core incel who has experienced nothing but rejection from women his entire life.

never ending rejection from your opposite sex can have a devastating effect on your self esteem/self confidence, and can lead to some nasty stuff like depression. In some cases, long or life time incel can lead to suicide, and I know of several men who took their own lives, because they had no luck with women.

If the scumbag PUAs had any sense of ethics and decency (yeah, I know, don't hold your breath on that one), what they should be teaching men is self-improving themselves so that they can increase their chances with women, but this is common sense men should know anyway. The PUAs instructing men to cold approach women in bars, clubs and in public (ie. day game), is awful advice and will only lead men down a black hole of despair and frustration.

The PUAs will always argue that picking up women is a skill that once learned, can be replicated again, but this is ridiculous as picking up women is NOT a skill, it never has been and never will be. A real skill eg. learning how to drive a car is a true skill, because assuming the car you are driving is both safe and serviceable, the car will do what you command it do eg. if you turn the steering wheel left, the car will go left, if you turn the wheel right, the car will go right etc, etc. You see the car is a neutral object, and it doesn't give a ****, who you are, and whether or not you succeed in learning how to drive. A woman, on the other hand is a human being with a mind of it's own, that can work with you, or against you regardless of how well you present yourself to her. The bottom line is, WOMEN PRESELECT YOU (based on your looks and race), and irrespective how well you present yourself to a woman in terms of your confidence, social skills etc, you have NO control over the outcome, she is either into you, or she isn't.

end of rant.
Why waste your time paying attention to PUA scammers if you already know they're full of it? How is that improving yourself sitting around worried about that garbage?

Hit the gym, groom and dress your absolute best in an up to date edgy style that suits you, be socially free and open, do your best at school or at work and improve in all aspects of your life to the best of ability for yourself. Always remember even if you improve in all areas doesn't mean everyone is still required to be interested. That's life for everyone "slayer" or not. True story.
 

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So you got this post from some hate site? PUA might be dodgy but there is no need for hate. Totally Dispicable.
 

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rejection is part of the game, there's no way around it...i know a girl who thinks channing tatum is ugly but thinks her ex, overweight, 44 year old (she is 23) is good looking.
 

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NEVER go into any job that would require you to sell anything.

You will completely and totally fail because you cannot handle rejection.

Rejection is not only part of game, it is part of life.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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latino158 said:
The bottom line is, WOMEN PRESELECT YOU (based on your looks and race), and irrespective how well you present yourself to a woman in terms of your confidence, social skills etc, you have NO control over the outcome, she is either into you, or she isn't.
So, are you trying to say that you tried to learn "PUA" but it didn't work for you because it just doesn't work for anyone? And also that you are confident and your social skills are top notch, but none of this really matters because the reason the women have rejected you has nothing to with your personality or social skills or confidence but it's all because of factors outside of anything you can control? And therefore the reason women aren't attracted to you has nothing to do with you, because other than your 'looks' and 'race' you're perfect? So therefore you're just a victim of this evil cruel world and destined to a life of self-pity, anger and never meeting a girl?
 

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I think I understand what OP is trying to say.

It is as simple as this:

you go out and approach 10 women in a month. You meet 2 in a b-day party, 2 online, 3 in the gym, 2 more in a club, and 1 at your job...and all of them reject you for one reason or another (some have a bf, others dont find you attractive enough, another one doesnt click with you, and the last one just isn't in the mood), it makes you 'sad' and hurts your self-esteem. And if you repeat this cycle a few times with other women, you may just end up sleeping with one...of course it is frustrating!

Yep, we have to improve ourselves to increase our SMV, but just think about how much effort (clothes, working out, being social, cold approaching...) an average guy has to put to get a woman he likes, it is crazy/absurd.

Besides, women have some many options nowadays that you cannot really compete with them. An average girl has dozens of guys wanting to take her out, bang her, buy her stuff, drive her wherever she wants. They like her pics, they text her on fb, on whatsapp...

It is stupid to think that an AVERAGE guy can get the same number of options than the average woman. It is like an fly fighting a frog. Yes the fly can 'learn' to fly faster, can get stronger, can be smarter...but the frog has all the advantage.

This is why the MGTOW movement originated, because if you want to get ***** (from a girl you find attractive of course...) you have to employ a lot of energy, and even if you succeed, it can end at anytime cause women have all the advantage. See this, for a regular woman getting laid, or getting a bf etc, is not a big deal. If they really wanted to they could get a bf they like in a couple of months, whereas a regular guy struggles to get a date from a woman he likes.

Also, PUAS want to sell you the idea that picking up chicks is a skill like driving a car, and it is not. Yes, there are several things you should do, and several other things you shouldnt do when picking up chicks, but besides this...there is not much you can do except talking to dozens of women...


Good luck...
 

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Tictac said:
NEVER go into any job that would require you to sell anything.

You will completely and totally fail because you cannot handle rejection.

Rejection is not only part of game, it is part of life.
I agree.

I used to be rejected all around a few years ago. Then my first step was learning how to take rejection and building on top of it. Now I'm indifferent to rejection, since I know what to do, when rejected and have an abundance mentality.

Getting rejected will only make you better if you make yourself better.

I also believe gaming women is a skill. That skill is actually just being smooth and knowing when to escalate, initiate kino, be playful, get her number/date, and even seal the deal.
 

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Be the best person you can be. Have the attitude that you will be better tomorrow than you are today.

Then put forth some effort to get what you want, and be disciplined enough to do what you know is the right thing.

If its women, career, athletics, heck anything in life this is the formula for success.

Women... believe it or not, is actually the easiest part, because if everything in your life is on track then you won't have to look for them, they will find you. You just have to have realistic expectations as to who you can get with. The best way to determine this is to try... get rejected, but only spend time going after women who like you.
 
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