well I do basically agree, but it's kind of a different discussion.
I mean, even though i'm giving that moron john Anthony (jmulv) a hard time, i'd also concede that it's not as if there's anyone out there who could do much better than him if they morphed into his body.
As you say, it's really about meeting her level of physical attraction, and then more or less it's just flirting and escalating in a calibrated way and not f***ing up too bad. It's not that hard. I always felt that people gave themselves WAY too much credit when they pull a girl lol. PUA purists don't like hearing that 'game' is basically flirting (because obviously a girl doesn't want a guy who she's not remotely attracted too flirting with her lol). The problem has always been that the 'attraction material'/aspect of game is so weak. ''She tells you she's not interetsed? She's not attracted. That means you need to do more 'attraction material'. More negs. Hit her with a pushpull line. Tell a story about the time you beat up a bear. etc etc''. It's just not fit for purpose lol. Them lines can't compete with a guy who she looks at and is instantly attracted. Genuine Attraction doesn't come from that stuff. At best you can display confidence. And of course the main idea behind 'game' is that confidence is super attractive to girls, but it's only half of the story
yeah , what people do not want to understand that technique is important , but not more important than other things
just to give you an example , I am a tier 2 white guy , because I am east European ( basically everything Easter than Germany is tier 2 ) . If I tell this too fast , then I see how most women start to turn cold ,because my nationality is not considered good from a social point of view
if I say this after a while , when she gets to know me a bit , then she will not really care , and say how must guys from Eastern Europe are a bunch of peasants ( which is mostly true by the way ) , and then continue how I am not like that and that she never met anyone like me Bla bla bla
so , according to pua this should not be an issue at all , but in reality it is
as an example , at some point I was casual dating this Spanish woman and she told me not to tell her friends that I am from X country , because her friends will make fun of her
Pua tehnique is good to have , and it has a lot of good things , but alone is worthless , as who delivers it is very important
same thing in the business world , you will always put a higher price on someone that worked for a big corporation or graduated from a top university , even if most likely that guy is as good as someone that does not have This bling blings . And as jobs are limited , the guys with the bling bling will have priority
