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Psychopath Or Pickup Artist Warning

COD

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There's a fine line between between the two, Sociopathics tend to do quite well at seducing women (think Ted bundy, Charles Manson, etc). Being able to spot these types early on can save you time, effort, money, emotional stability, and quite possibly YOUR LIFE. DO NOTE: they are not always men, sometimes, though less frequently the female "black widow" makes an appearance. The internet has drawn them out, in recent history the old tale of a chic who met her online date, only to be brutally killed later that day, stills exists.

Disturbed people (psychopaths/sociopath) tend to be good at concealing deception. When we here that term, most jump to the conclusion of a person who blatantly evokes violence. We often neglect (less harmful but equally destructive) garden variety sociopath, that infuse our neighborhoods, infect our web surfing, and appear at your local bar. They blend in to their environment almost effortlessly, so spotting one right away will be like a WHERE'S WALDO POSTER.

These types are on quite a different level than most. For the most part, they are self serving, meaning they do things that benefit themselves, regardless of rules, feelings of others. They have little or no conscience and basically do and say whatever they desire. Their quest does not always circumscribe around violence. But make no mistake about it, exposure to these types will eventually deplete your bank account savings, wreck havoc with your emotional stability or may even deprive you from your loved ones.

They think of deception like a game. To them, fooling investigators feeds their ego. If they can get away WITHOUT anyone ever suspecting them, that’s the ultimate goal. It’s usually when they become bored and sometimes take bigger risks that leakage begins. When confronted, taunting, challenging authority validates their motivation.

They often appear smug, confident, fearless, sincere, charming, intelligent and trustworthy. They are calculated, patient, observant and creatures of habit. They also tend to prey on the weak and can make you believe they see a side of you that few ever see. They exude instant rapport, you almost feel you have known them your whole life. Keep in mind, the best deceptions appear genuine and are often intertwined with some truths.

Experts indicate that these disturbed individuals may have had some trauma in their past. Their ethical, moral signals are skewed differently. Facial ques often get switched when they view pictures, situations, etc. Specifically, revulsion and arousal, they tend to get excited by things that make normal people sick to their stomachs.

Observations are concentrated around how the person reacts to a personal attack. Interviewers often push the patience, tolerance level in order to unravel the individual. Acts of violence (both physical and verbal) are infrequent but consistent.

If you encounter one of these types, distancing yourself from these individuals is sound advice, but in reality may not be that easy. The good news is that only about 4% of the population consistently display sociopathic tendancies.
 

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I think that guy that might've killed nataly holloway is a psycopath. He can pick up chicks easily but he also likes to kill them.
 

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thank you. now i can be sure i willl never be seduced by a serial rapist
 

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i said NON VIOLENT SOCIOPATHS, these types exist and they are starting to pop up online, in bars, maybe even someone in your own family.

THE CRAZY, ANGRY DUDE WHO IS A CHIC MAGNET.........may in fact be one.

I ALSO SAID.......spotting one WILL NOT BE EASY........they tend to blend in easily. Look at the traits again............all traits that PICKUP ARTIST aspire to be.......well maybe not the becoming unravelled when confronted by authority.

so lets RECAP

-THEY GET EXCITED WITH TORTURE
-THEY ADORE BEATING, TAUNTING AUTHORTY FIGURES (police, lawyers, investigators, reporters, etc)

-THEY OFTEN ARE SELF SERVING, HAVE NO MORAL COMPASS
-THEY SOMETIMES EXHIBIT SELF DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR
-CREATURES OF HABIT..........often revert to "weird, abnormal behavior" infrequenty.

-tend to be male, white
-they tend not to be in the spotlight
-when things don't go their way.........they exhibit RAGE!!!!.

-they are often creative, brilliant and live alone..........but not always.
-if they are bored, their "cravings" become more frequent and they take larger risks.

-if given the opportunity, they may indulge in VIOLENT BEHAVIOR.

-THESE GUYS take risks, break rules, defy authority, say and do whatever they desire regardlss of their surroundings or people's feelings.

-they prey on the low self esteem people.
 

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and its not just dating scenarios...........they exist to extract money, extortion, scams, cons, etc. Remember these people have no remorse, they LOVE TO DEFEAT YOU...........when they get beat..........these types TAKE IT VERY PERSONABLE........TO THE POINT WHERE THEY BECOME ANGRY, VIOLENT, DESTRUCTIVE.

and certain women ARE drawn to these types.
 

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I like this thread because there is so much truth being said,
everyone knows a psychopath, most people just dont recognize them, so its good some awareness is being done here.

I display a lot of psychopath traits(hence the name haha...).

But I use to be friends with a guy who is a full blow psychopath, displays almost every warning sign out there. Very emotional abusive. You would think this guy wouldnt have any friends or lovers but its the exact opposite. Very popular guy who has everything he wants in life. And the crazy thing is everyone is blind to what he is, even himself. One of the last conversations we had was me sitting him down and telling him that he is a destructive human who takes advantage of everyone in his life. He sadly agreed with me after the initial shock.

Its important to note that most psychopaths are not going to be physically violent, no more than the average guy at least.
 
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