Psychologist says that men 5'6" and shorter are "locked out of the dating app game"
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Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
It depends on the circumstances and location that short person has. Come to The Philippines, Thailand, Malaysia, a Province of Japan and Vietnam...and if you like light European complected women go to Brazil and get on Tinder and advertise that you're a happy and content American living an expatriate lifestyle and you'll be treated like a Rockstar I promise. Just show some attractive pics of yourself
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
I’m about 5’6” or so. Did great on Tinder.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
This Doom and Gloom posting is getting old, it's really telling who posts a lot of these things, you can tell who is successful and who is not by posting patterns and the things they talk a lot the most
OP has been posting the same stuff for years, time for him to pack it up
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
That dudes not a "psychologist." He's never practiced as a counselor in any form.
Sure, he's got a PhD in something but he makes his living LARPing on YouTube with random red pill ideas that have nothing to do with psychology.
Like every other YouTuber, he makes videos based on what he thinks will get the most clicks.
And the majority of his viewers are black pillers desperate for any reason to stay safely on the sidelines of life.
Sure, he's got a PhD in something but he makes his living LARPing on YouTube with random red pill ideas that have nothing to do with psychology.
Like every other YouTuber, he makes videos based on what he thinks will get the most clicks.
And the majority of his viewers are black pillers desperate for any reason to stay safely on the sidelines of life.
jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
I am 165 cm tall, and I can confirm what was said.
In the broader social landscape, the general social image, you are seen as a "small man." You don't fit the idealized version of a man, which, depending on the country (I'm in Italy), usually starts around 175 cm and above.
Socially speaking, you're often perceived more like a child, yes, that’s the reality.
Now, narrowing it down to a more personal level, your family, friends, acquaintances, and people in your city, they’ve likely had the chance to appreciate you for your other qualities. Some may still view you as a "child," but others will value you beyond just your height.
That said, yes, the original point stands.
Just remember one important thing, if you’re feeling depressed about women, know this, when someone truly wants you, your height won’t matter, they’ll want you for who you are.
However, one reality remains, in a large, random sample of men, the average woman won’t choose you. She'll choose someone else.
My advice? Find your niche, dear little man. You need to shine where you have the best chance, not in the general population.
It might sound like just coping, but unfortunately, it's the truth. Life is a competition, so compete where your odds are better.
In the broader social landscape, the general social image, you are seen as a "small man." You don't fit the idealized version of a man, which, depending on the country (I'm in Italy), usually starts around 175 cm and above.
Socially speaking, you're often perceived more like a child, yes, that’s the reality.
Now, narrowing it down to a more personal level, your family, friends, acquaintances, and people in your city, they’ve likely had the chance to appreciate you for your other qualities. Some may still view you as a "child," but others will value you beyond just your height.
That said, yes, the original point stands.
Just remember one important thing, if you’re feeling depressed about women, know this, when someone truly wants you, your height won’t matter, they’ll want you for who you are.
However, one reality remains, in a large, random sample of men, the average woman won’t choose you. She'll choose someone else.
My advice? Find your niche, dear little man. You need to shine where you have the best chance, not in the general population.
It might sound like just coping, but unfortunately, it's the truth. Life is a competition, so compete where your odds are better.