Why don't you actually pick up and talk to her. Nothing's going to get changed while you're ignoring her. Either pick up and forgive her, pick up and give her your ground rules, or pick up and dump her. Don't just leave her hanging though. That's how crazy b!tches go to psycho b!tches. The difference being that you have to watch your back in case the psycho one and her friends show up.
Psycho *****es FUNNY
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Jvesti123
Don Juan
I'm on missed call 33
I'm going to beat out my friends psycho ***** record for 34 missed calls
I've already forgiven her, maybe i need to do it more clearly
so i'll pick up next time and forgive her
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forgive her?, didnt you say before she hasnt said sorry?
just talking sh!t and asking you if your coming over
just talking sh!t and asking you if your coming over
TesuqueRed
Master Don Juan
JV--you really want to even hang around with a girl like this--????
What am I missing here?
I understand the amusement factor--don't get me wrong, I've thoroughly enjoyed reading your analysis, your response and your updates--but now I am amazed you aren't blocking her number and telling her to lose your's. There's a very good reason for doing so.
That list you had for her (another ultimatum, and we've seen how well the first one worked...) may be what she needs. That's a lot, and I doubt she can pull herself or her life together. Look at how she's acting--you think she can do it? I don't care if she says she can do it and agrees, like a whipped puppy, to everything you demand, I doubt she can hold it together for 3 days.
Reason #1: don't waste your time.
Reason #2: Birds of a feather flock together.
This is fundamental. You already can see how immature and psychotic she is, and--who'd a thunk it??--her friends are the same way!
And now here's you. Sticking around. Getting involved. Making ultimatums. Playing games (very amusing, yes...)
Actually, you're already on her level to a certain extent. Ever hear someone say "I just want a nice guy/girl with no drama, but I always get the psychos and the losers and those with drama and..." etc. Even when they seem to find someone who is different and better, they soon find this person turns out to need meds, have drama, etc., and they can't figure out why IT HAPPENED AGAIN.
Why? Because this person responds to and finds attractive those loser/psycho qualities and can't help responding to and attracting it to them. If a decent person comes along, they simply wouldn't find such a person attractive or respond to them AT ALL.
Birds of a feather flock together. Or, "you are known by the company you keep."
How does that apply here? You've attracted her in the first place (she wouldn't have found you worth her while if you weren't on her level) and you are considering getting her under control and keeping her.
You're on her level, or very nearly so. If you weren't, you wouldn't have been attractive to her. And you would be so far gone at the first sight of her psycho behaviour or would've picked up on the 3 dozen other clues of her low-quality/loser traits long before her psycho behavior manifested itself.
Ditch her pronto.
What am I missing here?
I understand the amusement factor--don't get me wrong, I've thoroughly enjoyed reading your analysis, your response and your updates--but now I am amazed you aren't blocking her number and telling her to lose your's. There's a very good reason for doing so.
That list you had for her (another ultimatum, and we've seen how well the first one worked...) may be what she needs. That's a lot, and I doubt she can pull herself or her life together. Look at how she's acting--you think she can do it? I don't care if she says she can do it and agrees, like a whipped puppy, to everything you demand, I doubt she can hold it together for 3 days.
Reason #1: don't waste your time.
Reason #2: Birds of a feather flock together.
This is fundamental. You already can see how immature and psychotic she is, and--who'd a thunk it??--her friends are the same way!
And now here's you. Sticking around. Getting involved. Making ultimatums. Playing games (very amusing, yes...)
Actually, you're already on her level to a certain extent. Ever hear someone say "I just want a nice guy/girl with no drama, but I always get the psychos and the losers and those with drama and..." etc. Even when they seem to find someone who is different and better, they soon find this person turns out to need meds, have drama, etc., and they can't figure out why IT HAPPENED AGAIN.
Why? Because this person responds to and finds attractive those loser/psycho qualities and can't help responding to and attracting it to them. If a decent person comes along, they simply wouldn't find such a person attractive or respond to them AT ALL.
Birds of a feather flock together. Or, "you are known by the company you keep."
How does that apply here? You've attracted her in the first place (she wouldn't have found you worth her while if you weren't on her level) and you are considering getting her under control and keeping her.
You're on her level, or very nearly so. If you weren't, you wouldn't have been attractive to her. And you would be so far gone at the first sight of her psycho behaviour or would've picked up on the 3 dozen other clues of her low-quality/loser traits long before her psycho behavior manifested itself.
Ditch her pronto.
JV, I can see how delicious and tempting the situation you find yourself in with this girl. It is an almost perfect escape from an otherwise mundane and boring life you may find yourself in at the moment. I know, because I have dealt with women like these and it could be a wonderful distraction.
But, 33 calls? Wow man, this girl is really out of it. The Queen of drama is an understatement. She has no life and will continue to fabricate conflict and torment you to fill her otherwise vacuous existence. Are you ready to put up with this shyt even if it means banging her and her little blond friend?
Rather than analyze what is happening here I would just advise that you read RKTEK's and T RED's responses because they are spot on.
But, 33 calls? Wow man, this girl is really out of it. The Queen of drama is an understatement. She has no life and will continue to fabricate conflict and torment you to fill her otherwise vacuous existence. Are you ready to put up with this shyt even if it means banging her and her little blond friend?
Rather than analyze what is happening here I would just advise that you read RKTEK's and T RED's responses because they are spot on.
JustDoItAlways
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Never pass up a chance to ...
What are you trying to get to with this girl? Is this the same girl you've done each night for the past two weeks? Has she pulled a lot of bs along this line on you already?
I can understand wanting to take a night off and her bs ultimatum was out of line as well as the 34 phone calls.
But whenever a girl calls me late at night and asks me to come over (ie, lets get it on), my answer "I'll be right over."
The late night phonecall "come over" is exactly what we are trying to achieve. Even if its just about everynight.
Maybe this situation is a little different than you really want but a wise friend of mine once said "never pass up a chance to take a piss." I think sex falls into that category too.
What are you trying to get to with this girl? Is this the same girl you've done each night for the past two weeks? Has she pulled a lot of bs along this line on you already?
I can understand wanting to take a night off and her bs ultimatum was out of line as well as the 34 phone calls.
But whenever a girl calls me late at night and asks me to come over (ie, lets get it on), my answer "I'll be right over."
The late night phonecall "come over" is exactly what we are trying to achieve. Even if its just about everynight.
Maybe this situation is a little different than you really want but a wise friend of mine once said "never pass up a chance to take a piss." I think sex falls into that category too.
legolas
Master Don Juan
Congratulations my friend. You have just gotten yourself a stalker! Now it's not so funny anymore is it? How many more phone calls does she have to make before you realize it's not so funny anymore? Get some balls, call her up and tell her if she calls you one more time you'll put a restraining order on her. Then hang up. Oh and be sure to save all the records of the phone calls just in case.
JVesti I know you don't like me much from your other post where I called you immature.
That was a mistake for me to say that in that post but in this one I think its justified.
Why do you want to do this? Its childish.
You seem to enjoy it though so fill your boots.