PSA: When She Shows ANY Interest, Show A LOT of Interest CONSISTENTLY

[jjflash]

This is just a note to myself and anyone else in the same position.

I get lots and lots and lots of women throwing signs of interest my way on the regular. To a certain extent I just get desensitized to it as it occurs so frequently and I have a tendency to take it for granted.

Remember, if she shows ANY sign of interest, especially in a public setting where others can see or notice, this is a huge risk for her however subtle the signs might be. In her mind, she might as well be grabbing your penis and spreading her legs.

So if you DON'T follow up with strong signs of interest yourself, she is left exposed. So show interest, strong interest so things can move forward.

There's a good chance that if you don't, she will freeze you out and go cold. Then she'll move a lot slower even if you do show interest later on.

 

[Georgepithyou]

No way can this be serious, this has to be a troll post

 

[RangerMIke]

Women give you a small window of opportunity to respond. So yeah, if you are also interested you need to do something to make something happen as soon as something like this happens. But really, you can't go over-board with this. Try to make a date, and get her alone... yes. Start chasing her like an idiot, over-reacting to her obvious signs of interest... well... no.

But really, your approach should be patience. Look.. if you show too much interest too soon, well... sure this might work out for you... but it is just as likely that you will scare her off.

When this happens to me, more often that not the woman REALLY isn't interested. And you learn this when you try to make a date then she doesn't respond or flakes.

Women are fantastic performers on her stage of life. In my 30 plus years of dating experience, what I have learned is women will ALWAYS go over the top with their acting skills... and they by and large are pretty good at this. When she is happy... she shows the world by overacting a performance that she is uber happy. When she is sad and upset... well... again her performance is over the top. This is why most men, who really do not understand women frequently over estimate a chick's interest.

You might be thinking you are getting STRONG indicators of interest, when in reality, she is just in a good mood and is being flirty. You also might think she's about to jump off a building, but in reality... she is just having a bad hair day.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

It's not that women are giving you anything, it's that she is seeking behavior congruent to any perceived Alpha behavior she has experienced, which is approach immediately in most cases.

I think a big part of any approach is understanding that you can come across as intimidating at times and that you should try to mitigate that by being as down to earth as you can... Most guys struggle to display interest in public, like as if women are dull creatures like us that won't pick up on implication lol.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I dont like this because then you are at the mercy of a woman’s whims. I was once having a conversation with my homie and a girl across the bar shouted at me and offered me a drink. Bros before hos, that and I didn’t appreciate her drunken behaviour.

thats not to say I wouldn’t have fvcked her if she had been more calibrated or waited till I wasn’t occupied.