Proud of myself, but not really, lol...

marmel75

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Have a friend I used to work with that is gay and he is getting married so he had a bachelor party. He invited everyone and I was like WTF, I don't care, this is my dude, I'll go...used to be a DJ in clubs, including a few gay clubs so I'm relatively comfortable around gay guys. I don't drink due to my gym activities, so I waited until they left their initial place which was open bar for 3 hours but cost $ to get in.

I meet up with them at a club(a gay club no less) and of course they have 3 or 4 women with them, one of which was throwing the bachelor party. So within the first 3 minutes I get the feeling that one of these woman was feeling me. She immediately asked my friend who I was and then introduced herself to me. My friend tells her I'm straight and she smiles and said "I'm straight too!" and then says you can be my husband and comes over and puts her arm around me.

I'm thinking to myself, not again....this is how I got in trouble last time, lol...
Anyways, we get inside, I'm standing there and my buddy comes up and I tell him kinda joking/kinda serious "I'm sorry if I end up banging your friend tonight" and he says "No, that's OK--- she told me she wanted to eat you up"

I'm thinking to myself this is not going to be good. High testosterone and good looking MILF's with big racks and a nice ass in a tight dress does not lend itself to me walking away, lol

So anyways, we are over by the dance floor and I'm just standing there taking it all in, and she walks by me and puts her hand on my chest and walks by taking her hand across it as she walks. I smack her ass and she looks back over her shoulder at me and smiles. Now I'm thinking to myself what do I want to do here. I have been behaving myself pretty well over the past year or so. Before too long she comes up to me, gets in front of me and starts dancing, rubbing her ass all over me and leaning back into me. Suddenly she jumps back and screams---turns out someone walked by and spilled a drink on her that went right down her cleavage, lmao!

She is like "OMG I'm so wet right now". So I ask her "I got you all wet already?" And she smiles and says "Yeah, you definitely got me wet---but that's not what I was talking about. They spilled a drink on me!!" So she went to the bathroom, I'm walking around, go outside, hanging out with my friend and his group, don't see her again for another hour or so...

Go back inside, she is dancing on a pole with a couple of gay dudes. I'm down with my friend on the floor and there is a pillar we are standing next to. She comes down and starts dancing with him for a few minutes, I turn away and am watching some gay dude do stripper moves on a pole, literally climbing all the way up and then coming down with his leg out and then stopping mid way down---pretty impressive actually...

Before long my friend leaves and I feel her hands around my neck as she is behind me. I turn around and she is standing in front of the pillar. She still has her arms around me and I start grinding on her. I can see she is starting to get really worked up---breathing starting to get heavy, i start playing with her hair, rubbing her head, down her neck, finger over her lips...and she suddenly blurts out "I can't do this---I'm married..." I whisper in her ear "Its cool, I'm not the jealous type and give her a sly grin". She laughs, and says "No...no ..no...OMG this is so hard you are really turning me on" So I move in like I'm gonna kiss her and stop a few inches from her face and back off. She is giving me the "I want to **** you eyes" so I smile again and whisper in her ear "Its OK, he's not here, he won't know" and she laughs and says "I'll know". I say "I'll know too----it can be our little secret" and give her the sly grin again. Then I move in close like before and she goes for it and kisses me. A short one first, then a long, tongue down my throat one. Then she takes her hand and starts rubbing my **** through my jeans. At this point I start thinking I can't do this again---I gotta put the brakes on this...I cannot believe I thought this in the moment but I actually did. So I break away and tell her I gotta get some air and go outside. I could tell she was a little disappointed because she was really getting into it.

So I'm outside for a few minutes and she comes outside and joins me. We are the only ones out there from the group and things start heating up again. Some Spanish guy walks by and tells her how beautiful she is and asks if he can talk to her. She says "Thank you so much, but I'm married to him" and grabs me again and starts rubbing all over me. I turn to her and she grabs me and starts tonguing me down again. I'm like WTF...this ***** is really trying to get this c0ck...lol So I pull out my phone and hand it to her. She is like "OMG, you are going to get me in so much trouble!" and then she punches her number in and calls her phone.

I start massaging her shoulders and we sit down on these big concrete steps out by the front of the club near the sidewalk and start talking. She starts telling me how she likes it rough and likes her hair pulled and being choked and how her husband doesn't like that stuff and basically really sucks in bed and that I look like I'd be a lot of fun(I have heard that a lot from women since I've gotten in good shape---I look like a college linebacker. When I hear that to me, it means they think I would F the hell out of them, and they are definitely right). We start talking about different things she likes and stuff I like and I am thinking to myself this woman would be a phenomenal ****...I am pretty rough and this chick likes it rough. She got really excited when I asked her if she has ever been choked with her own hair, and I wrapped it around her neck and tried to do it---she was like "I don't think its long enough". and I was like "yeah, but it would wrap around my wrist nicely", and I wrapped it around my wrist and pulled it back hard. She looked like she just had an orgasm when I did that. Lmao.

So then we leave and head to another place that's more like a lounge and start playing pool. And she tells me she never has played before and I "need to teach her how to hold a stick and show her how to move her hands up and down the shaft" So she bends over the table and stays there showing me full cleavage and smiling at me while she is down there about 30 seconds or so...I'm still trying to control myself(goddamn Testosterone!!) because I'm really contemplating taking her outside and around the corner where there are a bunch of outhouses and just railing her ass inside one of them. But I don't...we end up talking some more, she tells me she has been married for almost 8 years now and just is really wanting to experience something different...she suggests we meet up soon so I can teach her how to play pool and tells me the days she is available...I'm like I have to see what my schedule is like, and we end like that. She gives me a hug and kiss on the cheek good night and tells me she had so much fun with me. As I'm driving home she texts me that she is really happy I came out and she met me.
I text her Yeah, I had a good time too, and go to bed. She texted me again yesterday and asked when we can go out, I told her didn't know yet and she said to let her know when I find out.

Haven't texted her back and am not planning too. I'm really trying to behave, but dammit, I know this would be some phenomenal sex...pretty face, great body, loves freaky stuff and seems experienced. Am going to see her in a few days at the reception and am not sure if the husband is going to be there or not. Kind of hoping he is so she won't be all over me again.

Ugggh...the issues you face when you become built well and women start looking at you in "that" way. I also strongly believe and it has been backed up in studies that women can "smell" testosterone you are exuding when it's high and its almost like a pheromone making them uncontrollably turned on by you(especially at a club/bar) even if they don't know why. When testosterone is given to women it makes them horny.

I'm trying to behave, I really am, but the excessive testosterone doesn't help, nor do the muscles busting out of my shirts that women comment on pretty much every day at some point...

I'm proud of myself that I didn't give in to my desires, but not really...I wanted to lay her ass out and I'm pretty sure she would have taken it pretty well and came back for more...I'm trying...I really am...

EDIT: Forgot to mention I'm married as well, and I have succumbed to these type of situations previously. Yeah, probably went further than I should have, but I managed to stop myself...small victory I guess.
 
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old_skoolr

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JUST F.UCK HER ALREADY haha
 

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For real bro. No remorse you, because these guys won't feel the same when they bang your girl
 

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Getting a nice build is the number 1 thing for looks you can do for yourself and when people here say muscles and fit physique barely matter I wanna slap the living hell out of them.

picture any skinny or fat guy you kno and put his face in a jacked body and he immediately goes up at least 2 points.On top of that you become ****y and confident in the process.
 

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What is this melange of pride, desire and remorse? You want to f*ck her, you cnonvince her it's ok - give her permission to misbehave what with being married, then stop halfway because you feel you shouldn't do that, and you're proud of that? Or are you proud of your body, or that you exude testosterone which apparently women can smell even in a stuffy club? I fail to see any reason for pride - not that there is ever a reason for that - still, proud to have broken her little line of defense, but not gone all the way?
 

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If she's married, then it's up to her to stop - not you

She wanted it - you should have given it to her.
Is she feels guilty the next day, is that your problem.....NO
 

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You just controlled your sexual desire. You obviously have the game to get it(your level of seduction is pretty high), so you have nothing to prove really, but you seriously controlled it. That is something only a select few can do. It takes a lot of discipline to do that, I hope I can do that in the future. This missed "opportunity" doesn't even matter, if you really want it you can easily get it. A true DJ has every aspect of his mind in check, including sex.
 

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Well done, Marmel... I think! I don't agree with knowingly boning someone else's bird, but sometimes you just can't help it!

You have far more will power than me.
 

marmel75

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TheMonkeyKing said:
Well done, Marmel... I think! I don't agree with knowingly boning someone else's bird, but sometimes you just can't help it!

You have far more will power than me.
Might be, but I can't stop thinking how bad I want to rail this chick and how freaky she would be...uggh

I struggle on a daily basis with wanting to bang women other than my wife, honestly not sure how I've lasted a whole year and a half almost controlling it
 

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In that situation i would have fvcked her brains out without so much as a second thought,

but perhaps that says more about me than it does you .....:cool:
 

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The funniest part about it thinking back is that when I had her up against the pillar, a remix of the song "Hideaway" was playing. I only remember this because I love that song but never heard that mix of it before...ironic because its about a guy the girl singing is so attracted to that she can't help herself and loses all control, even if she doesn't want to, which is kind of what happened at that point...maybe she was listening too...hahaha
 

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I think you did the right thing, especially since your also married. True DJs exhibit loyalty. I guess the argument is that the chicks marriage is already fcked and your just missing out on a good lay, but its still dishonorable to bang another dudes WIFE
 
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