Protectiveness

[MikeYikes122]

This really isn't too much on the subject of this board, so I will apologize ahead of time.

So I was at this party about a week ago, and there was some little highschool fvck grabbing on girls that I have known my whole life. This resulted in my friend and I pretty much beating him down outside of the house. This didn't happen immediately after I saw him grabbing on a girl. There was an initial shove, some screaming, and a whole lot of threats. The kid tried to deny it, and we escorted him outside to talk about it, and you can guess where the rest of this goes.

Well anyway, my friend and I let the kid have it pretty bad. I can't explain it. I get the craziest adrenaline rushes when I see little sh!ts like this at parties, grabbing on girls and staring at girls. All I want to do is just put my fist straight through them.

What I'm getting at is, I feel pretty bad about the whole thing. Granted, the kid shouldn't be grabbing on girls, especially my close friends, but he is two years younger than me. I don't get in a lot of fights. This is really probably only the 4th or 5th fight I've ever been in, but I still feel like I acted like a jerk and a bully, and I'm worried that everyone at the party is going to start looking at me as a bully. I usually don't care about other people's perceptions of me, but these are all people I've known my whole life.

My friend and I both have a habit of getting protective like this, but the conflict usually gets resolved somehow before we end up walking outside with someone. What I want to know is do you guys get like this? Is this natural do you think? Is this something I should work on controlling a little bit? I can't explain to you all how p*ssed off I got/get. I even get p*ssed off just thinking about it.

 

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fight?

This resulted in my friend and I pretty much beating him down outside of the house.

not really a fight now is it.

What I want to know is do you guys get like this?

luckily no longer.

Is this natural do you think?

for drunk angry AFCs yes

Is this something I should work on controlling a little bit?

yep, i mean sure if hes actually hurting someone, but sheesh hes groped some chicks and stared at them, this isnt a beating offense, sure its pathetic but so is smashing him.
and one thing your forgetting girls are not delicate flowers that need saving.

I can't explain to you all how p*ssed off I got/get. I even get p*ssed off just thinking about it.

this isnt right.
sounds corny but channel your anger into other stuff, or find ways of not feeling like this... buddism, meditation, punching bag, zoloft etc.

 

[Don Rageta]

What you did was very AFC and not at all in character with a real DJ. not only was fighting this kid an overly emotional unhealthy expression, but you were taking it too far. As far as it being a fight it wasn't, it was two stupid drunk guys beating the senses out of a kid probably half your size, for something you have most likely done before. are your friends gonna think your a bully? NO. A bully has more restraint. you, my friend are a coward drunk, not a nice person to be around all said. not only is it unnatractive but girls don't actually want people getting beat up for them. If you were a real don Juan you would have stepped the kid aside and let him know what he was doing was uncool. I've known people to get shot for stomping people they don't know. if i were you i would rethink the entire beating random strangers weaker than you.

JERK!!! (flame, i know tee hee)

 

[DankNuggs]

Originally posted by Don Rageta
If you were a real don Juan you would have stepped the kid aside and let him know what he was doing was uncool. I've known people to get shot for stomping people they don't know. if i were you i would rethink the entire beating random strangers weaker than you.

JERK!!! (flame, i know tee hee)

You sound like you've been picked on alot TEE HEE. If you can't pretend to be a man online, I suggest popping andro like they're tic tacs TEE HEE. Its over now, if you want, apologize to the kid for being out of line, but don't worry about anything else...

 

[Disco]

That has gotten to be one of the most ****tiest things I have ever heard of. Coming from a guy that bounced for four years and knows how to handle himself very well I'm calling you and your buddy weak. Seriously week, why wold it take two of you. All you need to complete your style is a ford truck and a bush light. Keep on truckin.

 

[GQ Prettyboy]

I think you need to move out of the city because he probably gonna try to kill you.

 

[FlyGuy]

Teaming up on a guy huh? You're pretty tough

Anyway, to state the obvious - yes that's messed up. Yes you should stop doing this, if it pisses you off there are other ways to handle it. Besides, girls can more than handle themselves with stuff like this. You could have even used him to your advantage if you were thinking clearly.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Originally posted by DankNuggs
You sound like you've been picked on alot TEE HEE. If you can't pretend to be a man online, I suggest popping andro like they're tic tacs TEE HEE. Its over now, if you want, apologize to the kid for being out of line, but don't worry about anything else...

Alright buddy, I hope you are a female, with expressions like TEE HEE, you better be a chick.

About the original post, as everyone has said, it is AFC. Only somebody in many girls' Friend Zone, feels like he's gotta protect them from every dope out there. That kid you beat up is not the only idiot that these girls will ever encounter. Are you gonna try to be there every single time to come to the rescue?

 

[trajhenkhet]

Fight for real reasons like protecting people from being hurt or injured, not trying to protect booty that this kid thought was being flaunted. If the ladies wanted to stop him they would have told him to knock it off. Pick your battles wisely and fight hard for those.