speed dawg said:
Ah, another cool guy wanting to hate on Christians, instead of seeing these guys for what they are: Simple Beta Men.
I've known Christian guys who could 'pimp it' or however you want to put it in a very big way.
But yes I think the Christian culture which puts a big emphasis on marriage is something that people here can fairly easily label 'beta' based on what I have read.
As far as marrying a slut...well...
Marriage is for procreation and anthropological evidence supports this.
Men stay with women to make sure that his kids are *his*. A woman who has been promiscuous in the past is a risk to that sort of endeavor.
Men put more emphasis on loyalty in a partner than women do.
Men are also far more likely not to forgive a cheating spouse than women are.
A man who stays with a woman in marriage only to find out that his kids aren't his...the very thought is horrifying to men and always has been.
Another thing to consider...women gravitating towards one sort of man and then, when they become pregnant or bear his children, finding another man to raise them.
This is why men are wary of relationships with single moms.
We have a natural urge to pass on our own genes and not those of another.
If you disagree with this, if you think that marriage is for love or that you have no problem raising someone else' children that is fine. In fact I think it is somewhat admirable.
But look up and research what I have said...think about it objectively...it's reality.