She probably doesn't know that I've dumped her, nor does she probably care, but I found a definition that AMAZINGLY fits her:
Women who go out on dates with men whom they have absolutely no romantic interest in or physical attraction to. These women have no intention of exploring the possibility of a relationship with the poor sap they’re dating. Consumed with her own narcissistic agenda, she has no concern whatsoever that she is misleading her victim, let alone possibly hurting his feelings. Toying with a man’s emotions is a form of recreation for her.
The way she behaves isn’t right and it isn’t fair either, but it is a reality that all single guys must learn to deal with, unless you are in a rock band, a skanky biker or a politician.
Her agenda is: To enjoy as many social, recreational and restaurant opportunities as she can, with no strings attached, while she bides her time, looking for the ‘real’ Mr. Right. In her narcissistic universe, her inner dialogue goes something like this: “While I’m attending that party with Mr. AFC, I just might meet a celebrity.” Or, “while I’m dining at the nicest restaurant in town with my shlub date, at least I’ll be able to enjoy another lobster dinner this week instead of having to stay home and watch TV. Attention from an undesirable male is better than no male attention at all.”
The more beautiful the Professional Dater is, the more bored and higher her standards will be and they themselves don't necessarily have to be a "10", either. They enjoy getting free dinners and movie tickets, courtesy of Mr. Clueless.
Well versed in the subtleties of manipulation, the Professional Dater knows that her victim will not continue to lavish his attention and generosity upon her if she doesn’t give him a sense of hope and possibility. So, she’s a master at leading him on, without ever having to touch him. For her, the idea of actually even kissing him ranges somewhere from 'ugh' to 'GAG ME WITH A SPOON!'.
The Professional Dater has trained herself to exhibit all the buying signals of the woman with authentic high interest level. She sometimes forces herself to touch the guy. She tells him how special he is. She thanks him profusely for the lovely evening she had. She even makes very subtle hints about the possibility of furthering the relationship in the future. She knows how to play men like a violin. Professional daters are usually over the age of 30.
The above was adapted from one of Doc Loves responses.
Women who go out on dates with men whom they have absolutely no romantic interest in or physical attraction to. These women have no intention of exploring the possibility of a relationship with the poor sap they’re dating. Consumed with her own narcissistic agenda, she has no concern whatsoever that she is misleading her victim, let alone possibly hurting his feelings. Toying with a man’s emotions is a form of recreation for her.
The way she behaves isn’t right and it isn’t fair either, but it is a reality that all single guys must learn to deal with, unless you are in a rock band, a skanky biker or a politician.
Her agenda is: To enjoy as many social, recreational and restaurant opportunities as she can, with no strings attached, while she bides her time, looking for the ‘real’ Mr. Right. In her narcissistic universe, her inner dialogue goes something like this: “While I’m attending that party with Mr. AFC, I just might meet a celebrity.” Or, “while I’m dining at the nicest restaurant in town with my shlub date, at least I’ll be able to enjoy another lobster dinner this week instead of having to stay home and watch TV. Attention from an undesirable male is better than no male attention at all.”
The more beautiful the Professional Dater is, the more bored and higher her standards will be and they themselves don't necessarily have to be a "10", either. They enjoy getting free dinners and movie tickets, courtesy of Mr. Clueless.
Well versed in the subtleties of manipulation, the Professional Dater knows that her victim will not continue to lavish his attention and generosity upon her if she doesn’t give him a sense of hope and possibility. So, she’s a master at leading him on, without ever having to touch him. For her, the idea of actually even kissing him ranges somewhere from 'ugh' to 'GAG ME WITH A SPOON!'.
The Professional Dater has trained herself to exhibit all the buying signals of the woman with authentic high interest level. She sometimes forces herself to touch the guy. She tells him how special he is. She thanks him profusely for the lovely evening she had. She even makes very subtle hints about the possibility of furthering the relationship in the future. She knows how to play men like a violin. Professional daters are usually over the age of 30.
The above was adapted from one of Doc Loves responses.
