Problems with talking to HB 7+'s, need ur help guys

[rushing dude 123]

I have no problem talking to random guys or HB 6 and below in cold approaches, but when it comes to pretty girls i lose my confidence and one time i was shaking i cudn't believe it. Sometimes i get enough balls to do it, but i feel i do not get positive respone. The problem is either with me not going about it right or its them.

Let me give u some examples:

1: Was playing football in park saw some HB 7 that passed the fence 3 times and i didn't have the balls to go up to her, next time i went f it and ran to the fence and said hello.....she said nothing i said it again and she softly said hello and carried on walking.....

2: At dinner que u either eat the 8 or 10 breakfast, HB 7.5 in front got the 8 and i looked at her and smiled and said amateur, she smiled, but kind of the smile like yehhhh...go away.

3. said hello to about 5 HB 7's walking past on street and all of them blanked me. My hello response ratio is usually above 60% with anyone else.

Guys can u jus give me any advice on this and i will of course do the field work. thanks

 

[Magma]

Don't give up. Sometimes you just have to plow. However, these are just a couple of the issues with the cold approach. You have no idea if the woman is interested. You do the DA, then have to be Johnny On The Spot with YOUR reaction to her reaction of you. If you're a natural, then you already have the witty/sarcastic/funny/****y reply ready. It will just roll off, naturally. Hence the name.

I am personally not that quick on the uptake in reference to these types of replies. So my game requires a little more "finesse," for lack of a better term. I like to calibrate the situation and gauge interest first. Now, I'm not talking about waiting for "3 IOI's" or any of that. Just an indication that some interest may exist. Then, I'll look for something that she's wearing and maybe use that as an opener. Or I might not. It just depends. From there you just let the conversation take it's natural course, drop some kino where applicable/appropriate, and close with a date or a number. However, we are just talking about the approach only. So...

Example 1:

I think the first situation called for the cold approach. She walked by three times. Twice would have been sufficient for a DA in this instance. After you said "hello," did she seem shy or uninterested? Aloof? Was she walking briskly, head up high? Or was she sluggish or tired? That's what I'm talking about when I say "properly calibrate the situation." She may have been having a bad day. Maybe she has a lot on her mind. Maybe she's shy. Maybe she's just a b1tch. The answer could be any of these things, or it could be none of these things. My suggestion: be more attuned to the situation, her body language, her mannerisms, and her clothing (among other things) in order to properly calibrate and proceed accordingly.

Example 2:
Again, you need to properly calibrate this chick. How was she dressed? Had she even showered? Judging everything about this girl beforehand would dictate your opening and each subsequent reply to her. In my opinion, your opening may have seem contrived. But that is only one man's opinion. This is actually a fun game to play with your buddies, or a chick for that matter. If you're in a place where there are lots of people, start making judgements about people. For example: "Look at that guy. He probably went out last night and got loaded. His eyes are all red, and it doesn't even look like he took a shower. I bet he just got up." Fun game. But in reality, you need to do this to women that you're about to approach. And it happens in an instant.

Example 3:
When you have a group walking toward you, lock your eyes on one of them. Preferably the one closest to you. Not too soon though. Just long enough to have two or three solid seconds of ec. Then, say hello to that one girl. Not too loud. Just loud enough so that she hears you and it doesn't seem like you're talking to the group. The key though is to do this while they are still about 10-15 feet away so that you have enough time to gauge a response and act accordingly. No ressponse? Fvck her. IOI? Hit it. How you hit it is up to you. Again, you've calibrated the situation.

I can't give you any hard and fast lines/openers because I realize that are an infinite amount of variables to consider and giving you a specific line is both counterproductive and a waste of both our time. I was not there. I have no idea what the situation/environment was. My suggestion is to work on more properly calibrating the situation. This will help you not only in sarging and meeting women, but will also help you in your professional and social life as well.

Sarge on sir.

 

[Docs]

http://www.sosuccessful.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1774#post1774Like we always harp on. Why would you NOT make a move?

If you can find an answer to that question that is worthwhile, she's not worth the move. Otherwise...

Like I say...

 

[rushing dude 123]

alright thanks magma ur a help like always and thanks to for advice 2 doc. I still don't like fact how the negative pattern was only in the hb 7+ responses, but then again i guess they are the only ones i approached differently. Well i guess theres only one way to figure it out, i should treat this has a experiment.

 

[Alkali]

Sounds like you're still somewhat socially bakwards.

Trial and error.

Practice makes perfect.

If you fall off the horse, then you...

Keep working at it. Try something new. You'll catch on eventually.

 

[Magma]

alright thanks magma ur a help like always and thanks to for advice 2 doc. I still don't like fact how the negative pattern was only in the hb 7+ responses, but then again i guess they are the only ones i approached differently. Well i guess theres only one way to figure it out, i should treat this has a experiment.

You are very welcome sir.

Sarge on.

 

[backbreaker]

the problem is very simple


think about it. you are thinking wayyyyyy to damn much. the fact that you are looking at her and can make the distincion that quickly on what HB grades he is... you are too ego driven and not I want to **** a woman I like driven.

treat all women like little girls