Problematic breakup
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mrgoodstuff
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NFL = American professional football. My statement means your actions and interests inflate her ego to super star level.
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
It seems like she is trying to play with your emotions to put you down. And this is probably draining your energy.
The best should be solve all those stuffs/bills you both have together as soon as possible and then finish that relationship and go no contact. Just move forward.
But saying that is pretty easy when we don't have the feeling. Maybe first of all you must resolve all those feelings you have for her inside of you and then decide what to do. It take some time, and maybe talking to a good therapist can help you with that.
I know how hard those things are. Hope you be good and solve that in the best way man!
TonyTenner
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You've only just discovered the red pill. Most people here discover it while in a similar predicament to what you find yourself in. The advice here is absolutely correct. I don't think after 5 years you need to block her but you need to fully detach and be unemotional.
What a couple of people here have hinted at, but isn't stressed enough, is how much you have to look forward to. Once your read the Rational Male and delve into these forums, you'll find situations like you're in much easier to deal with (most likely you'll never find yourself in this situation again). You'll probably feel grief for your old ideas of idealised love. But after a few months of reading RP material, you'll naturally start to detach from those ideas. And the situation you find yourself in can be dealt with in a matter-of-fact manner.
At 28, you're in a much better position than her. If you read these forums, work on yourself, don't go down the hating-women road some do, the world will be your oyster. As someone above said, it won't be easy, but most things worth having don't come easy.
What a couple of people here have hinted at, but isn't stressed enough, is how much you have to look forward to. Once your read the Rational Male and delve into these forums, you'll find situations like you're in much easier to deal with (most likely you'll never find yourself in this situation again). You'll probably feel grief for your old ideas of idealised love. But after a few months of reading RP material, you'll naturally start to detach from those ideas. And the situation you find yourself in can be dealt with in a matter-of-fact manner.
At 28, you're in a much better position than her. If you read these forums, work on yourself, don't go down the hating-women road some do, the world will be your oyster. As someone above said, it won't be easy, but most things worth having don't come easy.
If i dont black her probably she will keep sending naked pictures, spamming that she goes on a dates etc. Even if will be over her, i do not need to know this stuff. Additionaly, this could also means that she wants me to be around "just in case". Fvck that
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Delete. Block. Next.
Go focus your energy on new women. When the milk goes bad no matter how much you hope or want it to taste good again, it will never be good again.
Baibars
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She does exactly the same things my ex does. Fck that ***** and work on yourself. She was never yours it was just your turn. The longer you stick to her you longer stay a failure and the longer your suffering. You're her last choice right now. Not like she's something special but keep that in mind. Consume more Red pill stuff and you'll be over that and you'll be a different person. But only if you start now. Cut contact
Personally I think any girls that sends naked pictures should be shared and posted on the internet as a reminder to how dumb she is. Let her future kids or future bf see that $hit.
bat soup
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That depends. Can you control your emotions?
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Baibars
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I don't think that he should have sex with her in the Position he is right now. He is emotionally attached. She spins him as a plate and he seems to have no options. They just broke up.
He has to work on himself so he never ever gets in this position again. Work on his body, mind just everything.
I agree.
However the only exception would be if he has rough angry sex with her, chokes her, slaps her, spits on her. A2M, anal, finish in her mouth after sticking it in the pooper. Then look her straight in her eyes and tell her "B1tch, I never wanna see you again." LOL
I dont want to see her. She has already someone. I was writing that bulsh!t when i was still having hope. I did realise that she has done some crazy **** which i cannot accept so bills, furnitires (she still makes problem to sort it out) and i want to cut contact with her.
yes, looks like im her plate and i dont have any.
yes, looks like im her plate and i dont have any.
Baibars
Master Don Juan
Just do what you have to do. It's natural that she had already someone lined up ( probably not only one ) because it's far easier for women. Even the ugliest girl can do that as long as she has a vagina there will be someone waiting for her. Men have to do the work especially after a break up you're not in your best condition you know that.
Don't look for excuses so you can talk to her. Find ways how you can sort that sh*t out asap.
For me it is not natural. I have never experienced something like this. But now i am glad it happened. I noticed how. She was playing with me all the time. To be honest, i am trying take my stuff as quickly as possbile but she is trying to drag it (sending pointless poctures or talking about what i did wrong during relationship) .
Peace and Quiet
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Baibars
Master Don Juan
Same thing happened to me just ignore her and if she continues sending pointless stuff Block her.
That's normal. She sees you as beta and uses you for attention. She sends you this pic and bangs some other guys. Don't play her game.
Of course you did mistakes in your relationship like she did. She tells you your mistakes because she wants to confirm her decision about leaving you. If you fall for that and apologize or beg her back etc. that will also confirm her decision.
She will never get back with you and even if she gives you a chance.. she won't do it because of you but because of her being dumped by some guy and her need for security. And even then she will use you and upgrade asap. Dont allow her to send you anything pointless. No pics no Text. Dont even make that possible shes out.