problem after gaining weight?!?!

[Jay-X]

hi everybody, i've been bulking and so far i have gone from a ripped but skinny 130 lbs to a more muscular but still ripped 150 lbs...

1) i am now far more confident than before and i see myself as more beautiful than ever, even talking about facial traits.

2) people seem to respect me more when they meet me and don't treat me as a child as before... actually they try to befriend me

3) i used to look 15 a year ago (i'm 18), while now i've had some people thinking that i'm around 20 yrs old

4) i have become a lot better in sports

5) i can now approach people in the streets or at the cafeteria or during breaks at school or wherever


but there also are lots of bad things that have happened:

1) i now have a huge desire to fight and i constantly hit my friends jokingly, sometimes lightly hurting them... i don't know why, but i have always the need to beat someone up

2) i find it really hard to concentrate at school and i think it's because of testosterone boosts... i have no desire to do homework or to be concentrated during lessons

3) girls on the streets and at school don't look at me anymore... i used to catch lots of girls staring at me and it was easy to maintain eye contact and then approach. but now i seem to get just some random eye contact and after a couple of seconds they look away, so approaching would be pretty awkward

4) i get approached by girls a lot less often than before... i used to be approached like once a week or more, but now i get approached just once a month or even less... maybe girls that approach me now are better than those that used to, but i miss my friends being jealous of me

have any other of you noticed some of these happen? any ideas?

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Well after awhile people are going to stop being jealous ‘verbally’.

Now my reason of why people aren’t approaching you or holding eye contact is not because of you working out.

No offense happy your getting great results but 150 isn't huge where as to be intimated especially if your 5'8 and above.

But because of your attitude and demeanor.

If you have a serious look on your face and walking around like a roaster and/or constantly folding your arms, tense, non relaxed, and trying to hard then people are not going to approach you or hold eye contact.

Your probably constantly flexing and trying to show off your new muscle for example wearing T-shirts that are too tight. It happens especially when it’s new to you.

Also now with the concentration thing, feeling lethargic, and being a little aggressive has to do with taking Pro-hormones or any type of anabolic agent like that.

You should NOT be taking any of those at your age. Hence why your face is changing drastically. You don't get old in the face by working out. You may get slim and change but not look older.

That stuff is for 21 and up. It has serious side effects especially if not taken properly.

 

[Jay-X]

thanks for answering, deejay, i'll give some comments to what you wrote, so answer back man

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
Well after awhile people are going to stop being jealous ‘verbally’.

Now my reason of why people aren’t approaching you or holding eye contact is not because of you working out.

No offense happy your getting great results but 150 isn't huge where as to be intimated especially if your 5'8 and above.

actually i'm not at all huge, but since my bodyfat is around 9%, i am just 5'9 and i have a very small frame, i look bigger than almost everyone under 6'0 in my class. also, consider that italian people is lighter than american... 150 lbs is the average weight for a 5'11... a 5'9 average weight is around 140 over here, maybe less

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay

But because of your attitude and demeanor.

If you have a serious look on your face and walking around like a roaster and/or constantly folding your arms, tense, non relaxed, and trying to hard then people are not going to approach you or hold eye contact.

Your probably constantly flexing and trying to show off your new muscle for example wearing T-shirts that are too tight. It happens especially when it’s new to you.

actually i'm often wearing tight t-shirts, but i used to do that even when i was just ripped, at 130 and even more at 140 lbs... maybe girls used to think that i had a nice body but i wasn't intimidating because of my size and they weren't afraid of approaching? just an idea

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay


Also now with the concentration thing, feeling lethargic, and being a little aggressive has to do with taking Pro-hormones or any type of anabolic agent like that.

You should NOT be taking any of those at your age. Hence why your face is changing drastically. You don't get old in the face by working out. You may get slim and change but not look older.

That stuff is for 21 and up. It has serious side effects especially if not taken properly.

i'm not taking any sh1t... actually, i've even stopped using creatine and supplements in the last 4-5 months... i just eat sh1tloads of meat, tuna and milk in order to have many proteins...

 

[tryin 2 play]

i now have a huge desire to fight and i constantly hit my friends jokingly, sometimes lightly hurting them... i don't know why, but i have always the need to beat someone up

well just start a fight with the wrong guy one day and that will take care of your desire to fight people...