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[BeDJ]

Conseritivies, who aren't really conseritivies, I'm just saying, tend to believe more in online dating

This sentence shows how much judgement you have, rather, lack thereof.

 

[backbreaker]

really dude? who pissed in your fruit loops. Your name is not mentioned anywhere in the post. You have no reason to slander me or my name other than to troll


You actually are proving my point. The point is, even if you don't agree with what I am saying, becuase I don't feel like reading posts like yours I don't bother. Nor do a lot of people. No one wants to read pages of "You're a faggot you suck you're a loser". It's a ****ing idea, I put it out there. So did everyone else on the first page, yet mine is the only one you felt the need to throw piss on.

 

[BeDJ]

really dude? who pissed in your fruit loops.

No one pissed in my Fruit Loops. Did you have nuts in your Cheerios today?

I highly doubt (.) (.), Danger, PlayHer_Man or Atom Smasher have online dating profiles.



Whoops, you edited your post to add more (unnecessary) pie tossing.

You actually are proving my point. The point is, even if you don't agree with what I am saying, becuase I don't feel like reading posts like yours I don't bother. Nor do a lot of people. No one wants to read pages of "You're a faggot you suck you're a loser". It's a ****ing idea, I put it out there. So did everyone else on the first page, yet mine is the only one you felt the need to throw piss on.

I am trying to respond to this, but it's so incoherent that I am seriously not able to. We'll agree to disagree, i guess?

 

[backbreaker]

Just like real life, a political ideology is not hard lined.


The forest being, there needs to be a place where people can go and post certain ideas and not have to spend the entire thread, fighting the basis premise of the question, i.e online dating or i.e red pill isms. OR maybe more than one sub forum I don't know, it was an idea.

 

[BeDJ]

Just like real life, a political ideology is not hard lined.


The forest being, there needs to be a place where people can go and post certain ideas and not have to spend the entire thread, fighting the basis premise of the question, i.e online dating or i.e red pill isms. OR maybe more than one sub forum I don't know, it was an idea.

I completely agree. We all stick to our beliefs and it's much more beneficial if like minded individuals offered advice on the same traveled path.

 

[BannedNinja]

Can a BannedNinja get access to the private V.I.P section too? I'd sure love to know what "went on behind the scenes" as well as other posters on here.

I guess we can just make things up on SS..like the typical day by day nonsense..

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Read the rules bro:

To gain access you would need a minimum of all three of these:
-Six months
-100 posts
-6 green dots (you will have needed to provide enough advice of your own in order to gain access)

 

[JohnChops]

Read the rules bro:

this would be a sick idea!

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Are girls this resourceful? Devious yes, but resourceful? Not really.

I beg to differ Mr. Spade. I wouldn't like to put you in this category but I'll share a quote that I'm sure you're aware of: "Ignorance is bliss"

Take it for what you will. But, IME, when it comes down to it, chicks can be more "resourceful" than any man on this planet.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Well you may be right sir. In fact when it comes to all things "relationship," women turn into data-miners.

I agree, and Google is their best friend.

 

[( . )( . )]

I'm with BeDJ. I think you got it backasswards there backbreaker. At least science seems to disagree with you. It's been common knowledge for awhile now liberal men on average are statistically unhappier, embrace victim ideology far more, pull less hotter chicks and are actually physically scrawnier than their more right thinking brothers. There's just no way in hell conservative men are using online dating more than libtard males.

Why can't we have something that's private, privy just to us? You know, members only.


Everyone on this planet knowing what I say, No.

Most posters on SoSuave, Yes.

This is a great idea.

 

[sylvester the cat]

I wanted to post something. I wanted to give the guy a perfect response I just don't want to give MY lines away to anyone with a search engine. Why should I??

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210525

 

[buzzin_frog]

The idea is good....but in reality it is not

Well, here's my philosophy on privacy:

If you want something to stay private.....then don't talk about it or post it....because once you do that....it isn't private anymore.....it becomes public for anybody to know about.....if you want privacy.....then keep it to yourself.....so it stays private with you.....that's total privacy!!

Why can't we have something that's private, privy just to us? You know, members only.

You would feel comfortable posting personal information in a "private" setting to people behind screen names that you don't even know who they are?.....I wouldn't

I wouldn't share any real information about the chicks I'm banging because of safety issues.....that would includes names, pictures, and location.

I was a moderator at another forum, and they had a "Private Lounge" where so called "distinguished members" could shoot the sh!t in a "private setting"

All it did was form cliques and took away from the main posting forum.....guys would use the "Private Lounge" to talk sh!t about other members or start up fights in the "Private Lounge"....guys that couldn't get into the Lounge, were pissed off and that caused fights in the main forum......the guys in the Lounge felt superior than the other members.....they used that to bait the other members.....if they didn't like the new members that were inducted, they started sh!t in the Lounge and that spilled out into the main forum....then trolls sneaked in and started posting "private" information around......then we had to ban the "so called distinguished members" who were actually trolls....and had to kick some guys out of the "Private Lounge" for causing trouble

There's enough problems with trolls on here now....if one gets into the private forum, he could copy and paste your "private" information and post in the discussion forum, or PM's to other members, or around the net....would you like to have that?.....the stuff you post in the private forum won't actually be "private"....that's what happened in the Lounge....once you post something on the net...it's not private...no matter where you post it.

That's foolish thinking to believe everything is going to stay "private" in a private members setting.....look at all the members who flame each other on the boards now....do you think it's going to change once they get into a private forum? C'mon man...get with it!!

The idea itself is good......but when you think about it.....and if you've been through it before....then it's not so great and it causes more problems than it's worth

Any chick with google can find it, if she looks. For some guys on here, you can go back in their posting history and find all kinds of $hit on em.

Who cares about the chick? The odds of a chick finding anything out on here is slim to none....

She would have to know that you were posting on a site.......then she would have to think of the title of your thread......google it....find this site....know your screen name.....and then figure out the thread is about her and that you are the one posting....highly impossible!!....and if she does find out after all that, then give her a Gold Star for the effort

Should be enough screening to keep out most of the trolls.

"should be enough screening to keep out most of the trolls" you say? Shouldn't you want to heavily screen so you can keep out all the trolls?.....I would

Isn't that the purpose of making it private? Why would you want trolls to ruin the private forum too? And you want to post "private" stuff in there? You're not even sure about it yourself and here you're proposing this idea LOL :crackup:.....all it takes is one person to fvck things up and that's not worth it

You haven't even considered any of these problems before proposing your ideas and rules

6 green dots (you will have needed to provide enough advice of your own in order to gain access)

I've never been big on the green dots.....green dots really don't mean anything....anybody can get a green dot for any reason......doesn't mean they actually know anything or are worthy to become a distinguished member

I see members with lots of green dots that give out terrible advice......people agreed with their bad advice and gave them a dot.....because they didn't know any better.....that doesn't make the guy with the dots any more knowledgeable than the other posters.

I've seen trolls who posted on my threads who had more than 5 green dots......so, if they have the 6 dots that you require, they would be welcomed to gain access.....now you open up a can of worms

I've seen posters with less than 5 dots that give out excellent advice.....nobody bothered to give them a dot for their excellent advice.....so, the knowledgeable poster with less dots can't gain access, while someone who's less knowledgeable with more dots can.......that doesn't make sense to me

Most posters who have been here for over two years have more than 6 dots.......that would be a lot of guys in a private forum where you are expecting your private business to stay "private"

Like I said, the idea sounds good.....but when you look at everything involved, it's more trouble than it's worth because I've already been through it

This forum has a great set up the way it is.....I think it's great....this a great place to post information....no need to add any problems......if guys aren't comfortable posting in a forum....then maybe they shouldn't join in the first place

Anyway, just thought I give my two cents on this

 

[:-)]

According to the rules this place already is a private forum.

http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=206510

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

You would feel comfortable posting personal information in a "private" setting to people behind screen names that you don't even know who they are?.....I wouldn't

I wouldn't share any real information about the chicks I'm banging because of safety issues.....that would includes names, pictures, and location.

I was a moderator at another forum, and they had a "Private Lounge" where so called "distinguished members" could shoot the sh!t in a "private setting"

All it did was form cliques and took away from the main posting forum.....guys would use the "Private Lounge" to talk sh!t about other members or start up fights in the "Private Lounge"....guys that couldn't get into the Lounge, were pissed off and that caused fights in the main forum......the guys in the Lounge felt superior than the other members.....they used that to bait the other members.....if they didn't like the new members that were inducted, they started sh!t in the Lounge and that spilled out into the main forum....then trolls sneaked in and started posting "private" information around......then we had to ban the "so called distinguished members" who were actually trolls....and had to kick some guys out of the "Private Lounge" for causing trouble

There's enough problems with trolls on here now....if one gets into the private forum, he could copy and paste your "private" information and post in the discussion forum, or PM's to other members, or around the net....would you like to have that?.....the stuff you post in the private forum won't actually be "private"....that's what happened in the Lounge....once you post something on the net...it's not private...no matter where you post it.

That's foolish thinking to believe everything is going to stay "private" in a private members setting.....look at all the members who flame each other on the boards now....do you think it's going to change once they get into a private forum? C'mon man...get with it!!

The idea itself is good......but when you think about it.....and if you've been through it before....then it's not so great and it causes more problems than it's worth






Who cares about the chick? The odds of a chick finding anything out on here is slim to none....

She would have to know that you were posting on a site.......then she would have to think of the title of your thread......google it....find this site....know your screen name.....and then figure out the thread is about her and that you are the one posting....highly impossible!!....and if she does find out after all that, then give her a Gold Star for the effort





"should be enough screening to keep out most of the trolls" you say? Shouldn't you want to heavily screen so you can keep out all the trolls?.....I would

Isn't that the purpose of making it private? Why would you want trolls to ruin the private forum too? And you want to post "private" stuff in there? You're not even sure about it yourself and here you're proposing this idea LOL :crackup:.....all it takes is one person to fvck things up and that's not worth it

You haven't even considered any of these problems before proposing your ideas and rules






I've never been big on the green dots.....green dots really don't mean anything....anybody can get a green dot for any reason......doesn't mean they actually know anything or are worthy to become a distinguished member

I see members with lots of green dots that give out terrible advice......people agreed with their bad advice and gave them a dot.....because they didn't know any better.....that doesn't make the guy with the dots any more knowledgeable than the other posters.

I've seen trolls who posted on my threads who had more than 5 green dots......so, if they have the 6 dots that you require, they would be welcomed to gain access.....now you open up a can of worms

I've seen posters with less than 5 dots that give out excellent advice.....nobody bothered to give them a dot for their excellent advice.....so, the knowledgeable poster with less dots can't gain access, while someone who's less knowledgeable with more dots can.......that doesn't make sense to me

Most posters who have been here for over two years have more than 6 dots.......that would be a lot of guys in a private forum where you are expecting your private business to stay "private"

Like I said, the idea sounds good.....but when you look at everything involved, it's more trouble than it's worth because I've already been through it

This forum has a great set up the way it is.....I think it's great....this a great place to post information....no need to add any problems......if guys aren't comfortable posting in a forum....then maybe they shouldn't join in the first place

Anyway, just thought I give my two cents on this

That's a little more than two cents.

Who said anything about posting personal information? Maybe a picture of a chick, a lot of guys do that anyway already.

It's just one level of privacy, that's all dude. We're not passing around government secrets here.

It seems you focused on a few of the points of having a private forum and ran with them, without looking at all of the reasons to have one.

Did you read the part where there would be a 2 post limit? I think your post would have been cut in half if you took that into account.

Either way, just throwing around ideas. There hasn't even been a moderator who has posted in this thread.

What kind of forum were you a moderator for if I may ask?

 

[VladPatton]

The only thing that would probably be as stealth as possible would be a chat room that doesn't log the conversations. You can talk instantly with anyone, and if you're not there, you miss out, it's done. That's as close to a real discussion as you can get. Once the text scrolls up it's gone and no Google search can retrieve it it.