pretty useless with women!

[benjamin1980]

Hi fellas,i came across this website and its been a good read.Im 35 in 4 weeks and single,only had 2 girlfriends al my life and have missed at least 5 girls by thinking we were just friends.I missed the signals like you wouldn't believe.I lack the confidence and killer blow at the end to make things happen.Anyhow thought id say hi!ill post a lot on these boards think!atb ben-

 

[badboyjmm]

Welcome to the forum!

The confidence will come as your improve yourself in all aspects: Mental, Physical, Money, Social Skills.

The killer blow come from confidence but also from not fearing rejections and keeping a good attitude.

You came a great place, as the men in here have a bunch of experience and will be able to help you.

Remember the search button is your friend !

Cheers

 

[benjamin1980]

cheers badboyjmm!...i hav zero confidence just now,well maybe 10% i get women interested in me.Then i don't know how to get with them or and afraid of rejection so i kinda fade them out and walk off.

 

[JohnnyWinner]

The majority of SS is useless with women.

 

[logicallefty]

Welcome to our forums Sir. Badboyjmm hit home with his post above. All I can add at this time is make sure you find your way to the DJ Bible and read it. This is a great group of people here and this site has the power to change your life for the better if you use it properly.

 

[nolongerawussy]

Please reply to my thread you *******s

 

[badboyjmm]

cheers badboyjmm!...i hav zero confidence just now,well maybe 10% i get women interested in me.Then i don't know how to get with them or and afraid of rejection so i kinda fade them out and walk off.

We've all been through this feeling and actually, I'm sure even the most confident guy in the world is not 100% confident all that time.

What makes me more brave is the following: "What the worst that can happen if I talk to a chick I find attractive ?" Maybe the girl is on her period and she will get mad, or not even acknowledge me, or say no I'm not interested.

Guess what ? I'm not dead from it, nor I got a disease that is staying with me forever.

Sure it stings, but guess what ? We all get rejected, when applying to school, jobs, woman, when running after the bus (the bus driver sees me running but doesn't stop for me lol)

What you got to realize is the rejection is not the problem, because in life, negative and uncomfortable situations will happen.

All it matter is how you respond. Makes sure it's the right response :rockon: