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I agree. There have been many times when I have regretted being overly honest and revealing about myself. People tend to hold it against you.

I think it is a good idea, however, to reveal a minor fault, which tends to humanize you and makes you relate-able. Usually women find this kind of thing cute and kind of tugs at their heartstrings. Perhaps it's a shyness in one small aspect of life. It should be in a very narrow field, not an overall insecurity. In general, though, we need to present our best selves to women. They are hard-wired to respond to a man they can look up to, and submit to. She would rather see you posture and strive to live up to your highest potential, than to openly talk about your insecurities or weaknesses. She will not mind those weaknesses if your striving to overcome is there. In a woman's mind, the striving cancels out the fault, just as in her mind, ambition cancels modest financial means.

The unspoken agreement is "If I see you striving to overcome the weaknesses that I can intuit in you, they won't bother me." Not in so many words, of course, but that is her feeling. In this way, even your weaknesses can cause her to admire you even more.

Never, ever, EVER turn her into your therapist. That has killed a multitude of relationships, and that dynamic can creep up on you real quickly in a committed relationship.
But this isn't something I can hide. A quick Google search will reveal what happened.

It's such a major deal that not telling someone is a major lie, not a white lie.

It is entirely possible that I ruined my "dating" life at the age of 22. And there's not much I can do about it. All over an ugly girl with an IQ of 6.
 
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Moving forward, anyone making direct attacks or insults will be warned, assigned warning points, and their post deleted.

Grown men can debate without resorting to personal insults. If a member annoys you in principle, you can always avoid the thread or put the member on your ignore list. The rules exist in order to keep the forum from degenerating into a place of endless meaningless p!ssing matches, which 100% of the time eclipse the subject matter of the threads. Every one of us agreed to avoid this behavior when we signed up.

There are so many insulting remarks in this thread (and a few others) that it becomes very difficult for us to determine who started what, in a fair way.

Each of us can choose to be a leader and an example-setter. It's very easy and temporarily gratifying to fall into sniping at someone with a quick insult. Does this reinforce the best of our character, or the worst?

We're capable of being better than that. Let's honor our agreement to avoid this kind of behavior and let's honor the forum itself by rising above petty name-calling. Insulting others only serves to torpedo one's credibility. Don't we observe this in real life?

We now return you to your regular programming...
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But this isn't something I can hide. A quick Google search will reveal what happened.

It's such a major deal that not telling someone is a major lie, not a white lie.

It is entirely possible that I ruined my "dating" life at the age of 22. And there's not much I can do about it. All over an ugly girl with an IQ of 6.
I'm not referring to you and your situation. I'm speaking in more of a general sense.

You can overcome this. As time passes you will mature and also put more distance between you and it. There are so many different types of women out there that you will one day find one who recognizes that you are not the person you were back then. It's going to take some time though.
 

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What about racial debates emphasizing the greatness of European history?
There is nothing wrong with debates, and nothing wrong with vigorously disagreeing with someone.

What gets guys banned are statements like "You are an idiot [or insert an expletive here]" and things of that nature; Name-calling and personal insults. There's no place for that on a site that is dedicated to the betterment of men.
 
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I'm not referring to you and your situation. I'm speaking in more of a general sense.

You can overcome this. As time passes you will mature and also put more distance between you and it. There are so many different types of women out there that you will one day find one who recognizes that you are not the person you were back then. It's going to take some time though.
It's already been quite some time. Even by the time I was sentenced, it was ancient to me. Heck, even by the time they handed me the evidence packet, it was old to me.

Unfortunately, I'm not looking for just one. I think a relationship would be boring as hell and I doubt would be as much fun as that threesome I just had.

I would get bored of any girl in a week or less, despite the "superiority" they would try to project over me initially, as if they're doing me a favor by talking to me.

I really see no value in them other than their vaginas, and vaginas get old, especially the same one.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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As for your boredom, you just need to mature and come to the realization that the pursuit of sex is absolute dissipation, and once you get to that point, your attention starts to turn to relationships. You're not there yet obviously.

I would recommend that you work on softening your view of women for your own benefit. I always encourage guys to engage in daily small-talk in order to calibrate socially. Actually care about the well-being of the person you're chatting with. Sure, women come off as incredibly stupid to us, and living in la-la land, but just as you can't blame a child for being a child (you accept a child for what it is, and you innately know your superior intellect), so must we accept that 98% of women are brainwashed and incapable of breaking out of "group-think". Still, they are human beings and they are worthy of a baseline degree of respect.

Nothing can bore a man faster than the pursuit of meaningless sex. You seem to live with an attitude of lack. This is purely a mental and perceptual construct. I used to be the poster boy for this. Then I figured out that thinking I'm a complete loser has to be a lie, just as the direct opposite, the "player" who thinks he is God's gift to women is a lie. It's all the story we tell ourselves. Since I came to realize that our self-perception is nothing more than a story that we tell ourselves (usually based on past experiences), I decided to change my life story. I came to a place where I believed I was a desired man until I actually became a desired man.

It's all nothing more than a story. We have the ability to suspend our own "reality" and create another. It takes an insane belief that what is not so, is so. It is defiance of what we think is reality.
 

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Let's hope girls can think so.

In any event, at this moment in time, I am not getting matches with online. The plastic surgery advice ended up not working out.
What can you presently offer the 8s and 9s you seek?

Looks? Are you an 8 or 9 yourself?
Money? Seven-figures in status toys?
Status? Are you known for anything other than your criminal record?

Add personality to this. I don't infer that personality alone will get you these women, but a piss poor personality will deter these women even with all of the above.

So what exactly do you offer these women today?
You're shopping in a supermarket for $10 items with $5 in your hand and a bad attitude with the cashier who is not accepting of your money.
 

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Stock market past?
No I meant that I thought I was the only one who had figured out who he was...

Stock market past? Actually yes I worked as a stock broker for a while...

This conversation is getting more confusing lol
 

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What can you presently offer the 8s and 9s you seek?

Looks? Are you an 8 or 9 yourself?
Money? Seven-figures in status toys?
Status? Are you known for anything other than your criminal record?

Add personality to this. I don't infer that personality alone will get you these women, but a piss poor personality will deter these women even with all of the above.

So what exactly do you offer these women today?
You're shopping in a supermarket for $10 items with $5 in your hand and a bad attitude with the cashier who is not accepting of your money.
1. A guy's value shouldn't be in his looks. Let's see, I've been through a hell of a lot more than you have, let alone these stupid little Pokemon girls that you call "9's." Also, I haven't seen a girl who I would call an 8 or 9 in quite some time. Those girls I had the threesome with were hotter than any of the girls in your pictures. Let's see... I'm extremely intelligent compared to most of these girls who are kind of stupid. Isn't it pathetic that their entire value in based on their looks? And I'm supposed to respect that? Like I was born yesterday or something?

Aside from being intelligent, I would see my value as having perseverance, being tough (like the kind of the tough that gets you through 4 years in prison and a broken neck).... things like that.

Intelligent = there was a time a few weeks ago where I barely knew anything about home electrical wiring besides changing simple outlets and switches. Three days later, I could run wires through walls, up through attics, etc. It took me all of 3 days to be able to do anything that a professional electrician knows how to do.

Intelligent = I remember reading about Einstein's Theory of Relativity. It completely blew my mind how you are warping the fabric of space and time every time that you move. And how the faster you travel, the faster time travels and that it is actually possible to travel to the future if you could travel at near the speed of light. I understood all of this within 30 minutes of reading about it.

2. Why would I need 7 figures of status toys? I don't even want that. When I first came on this forum, I talked about getting an exotic car, now I could care less. I'm perfectly content with an old pickup truck and if I even make lots of money, I'll keep it in the bank and tell no one about it. Why would I?

Females are so pretentious that it's disgusting. When I was pretending to be Chad, this girl kept telling me how hot she was and that her beauty was a curse. Problem is that she was ugly in the face and had a pudgy body. The REAL ME wouldn't have even wanted to talk to her at all.

I don't value females. Like at all. Because they don't deserve it. They have nothing to offer. I think it was @Atom Smasher who told me that in order to deal with them, I basically have to understand that I'm talking to grown child. I completely agree with 99.9% of what the MGTOW guys say. Only problem is that I still want to have sex.

Also, the ideas you gave me for improving looks turned out not to be so great. 2 of the 3 plastic surgeons (the 2 female ones) told me that they thought it was unnecessary and they wouldn't suggest it.

Also, you're 6'1". Ever think that plays a role? Short of cosmetic limb lengthening, there's nothing I can do to get taller.

At this point, I could probably go to some place with tons of "hot" women and could barely force myself to be attracted to them. I've seen "hot" girls before... I just had a threesome with 2 of them. So what does some "hot" girl have to offer me? Let alone the fact that in today's world, even obese girls think that they're hot.
 
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So what does some "hot" girl have to offer me?
You're not the commodity. If you were, they would be paying you for sex. But you paid them for sex ... right?

Logic follows: IF you pay for sex, the monies you willingly surrender demonstrates their value (to you), which you were willing to pay for.

Their value = Your money

So again, I ask: They bring looks to the table. What exactly do you bring?
 
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You're not the commodity. If you were, they would be paying you for sex. But you paid them for sex ... right?

Logic follows: IF you pay for sex, the monies you willingly surrender demonstrates their value (to you), which you are willing to pay for.

So again, I ask: They bring looks to the table. What exactly do you bring?
No, they brought sex to the table. Looks alone isn't worth anything. And it wasn't just sex... they were TWO hot girls taking turns fvcking me and deep throating my co ck. The sh1t was so slimy it looked better than any porno you've ever seen. Have you ever gotten that for free?

Have you had girls offer you money for sex if you are such a commodity? I have when I was younger. In the form of a free place to stay and gifts of computers.

Show me the guy who gets paid for sex. It's not how the world works unless we're talking some old lady who wants some loser gigolo or something.

I bring ME to the table. The guy who broke his fvcking neck, broke his fvcking back, lived for months out on the street with no ounce of fear. The strongest, bravest person in the fvcking world. That's who I am and what I bring to the table. Not to mention super intelligence... A BIONIC D1CK THAT WORKS MUCH BETTER THAN YOURS!!!!.... and soon to be lots of money that I would not want to give to any of these undeserving females. I would also make a good father, but I would expect to have my child ripped from me in family court. That's just a given in this society.

You said they bring looks to the table...

1. Even the hottest girl in the world doesn't look hot after being around her for 20 minutes. She still smells like sh1t and has all the body odors of a human being.

2. It seems that about 90% of the females in the world today overestimate their looks by about 1000x.

3. Even if they were the hottest girl in the world and these looks NEVER got old.... what would that make her worth? Does that mean she is worth more as a human being? To me, female looks has far less value than a construction worker or auto mechanic or truck driver or police. None of which are female. At least not the good ones. Men should own the world like we did for 200,000 years. Not have to cater to the desires of retarded hamster brain females.

Do you know who the most successful reproducer of all time is? Genghis Khan. That is reality. Not any of this bullsh1t pu$$y a$$ Rolex, Lamborghini, plastic surgery bull$h!t.
 

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No, they brought sex to the table. Looks alone isn't worth anything. And it wasn't just sex... they were TWO hot girls taking turns fvcking me and deep throating my co ck. The sh1t was so slimy it looked better than any porno you've ever seen. Have you ever gotten that for free?
What Guru gets or doesn't get for free doesn't help Richard.

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I bring ME to the table. The guy who broke his fvcking neck, broke his fvcking back, lived for months out on the street with no ounce of fear. The strongest, bravest person in the fvcking world. That's who I am and what I bring to the table. Not to mention super intelligence... A BIONIC D1CK THAT WORKS MUCH BETTER THAN YOURS!!!!.... and soon to be lots of money that I would not want to give to any of these undeserving females. I would also make a good father, but I would expect to have my child ripped from me in family court. That's just a given in this society.
These attributes hold zero value in the sexual marketplace of attraction. Great value for LTRs, but if you can't open the door of attraction, these intrinsic characteristics are overlooked.
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You said they bring looks to the table...

1. Even the hottest girl in the world doesn't look hot after being around her for 20 minutes. She still smells like sh1t and has all the body odors of a human being.

2. It seems that about 90% of the females in the world today overestimate their looks by about 1000x.

3. Even if they were the hottest girl in the world and these looks NEVER got old.... what would that make her worth? Does that mean she is worth more as a human bein
Simple economics. High demand, low supply (9s+). Her market value operates independent of Richard's opinion. Though Richard's opinion coincides with the market with these women; hence, why you willingly surrender (your hard-earned) money to sex them.

So again ... what value does Richard bring to the sexual market place that merits regular sex with 9s for free?
 

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As for your boredom, you just need to mature and come to the realization that the pursuit of sex is absolute dissipation, and once you get to that point, your attention starts to turn to relationships. You're not there yet obviously.

I would recommend that you work on softening your view of women for your own benefit. I always encourage guys to engage in daily small-talk in order to calibrate socially. Actually care about the well-being of the person you're chatting with. Sure, women come off as incredibly stupid to us, and living in la-la land, but just as you can't blame a child for being a child (you accept a child for what it is, and you innately know your superior intellect), so must we accept that 98% of women are brainwashed and incapable of breaking out of "group-think". Still, they are human beings and they are worthy of a baseline degree of respect.

Nothing can bore a man faster than the pursuit of meaningless sex. You seem to live with an attitude of lack. This is purely a mental and perceptual construct. I used to be the poster boy for this. Then I figured out that thinking I'm a complete loser has to be a lie, just as the direct opposite, the "player" who thinks he is God's gift to women is a lie. It's all the story we tell ourselves. Since I came to realize that our self-perception is nothing more than a story that we tell ourselves (usually based on past experiences), I decided to change my life story. I came to a place where I believed I was a desired man until I actually became a desired man.

It's all nothing more than a story. We have the ability to suspend our own "reality" and create another. It takes an insane belief that what is not so, is so. It is defiance of what we think is reality.
GOLD
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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