Pressuring.

[Analyzeit]

I was drunk last night and pretty much pressured a girl to come hang out even though see didn't (I'ma get some weird looks from her at school hopefully it didn't come off to bad lol) she stopped texting me when she realized I was fairly drunk (fair enough), she actually said not now another time, but I'm not going to bother, anyway the point is

Is it okay to pressure a girl to come hang out with you if she's kinda saying maybe or I can't coz have responsibilities (and you know they not lying) or should it just me like:

Hang out
No
Cya

Thanks

Tip: Never text drunk ever! no matter how important it is when your sober it will be unimportant lol (Don't know how i'm going to work my way out of this one haha)(It's just horrific reading these txts that i sent last night I can't read anymore lol)

 

[DamHE]

O.K. this is how it goes. You get an orangutan. I'm not talking a little
monkey or some some dancing chimp bull****, I mean a ****ing orangutan.
Don't ask me how you're gonna get a ****ing orangutan, that's not my
problem. So the orangutan's name is Clyde. This is non-negotianable, all
orangutans are named Clyde. I don't know why that is, it's just how the
world works. So you and Clyde become man (and ape) about town. You're
seen everywhere together, you make the scene. You and friends go out in
big groups. You talk loud, you laugh louder. Every time you say
something witty you high-five the orangutan. The town begins to buzz. It
gets back to her. "Did you know the guy with the orangutan?", "You used
to be friends with the guy with the orangutan?", "Why would you refuse to see the guy with an orangutan?" Next thing you know she's calling.

"I'm hoping we can still be friends. Wanna hang out sometime." "Geez I
dunno, me and Clyde were going to go to a monster truck race tonight.
(orangutans love monster trucks) In fact the whole social calender seems
kinda full. I tell you what, I'll make a little note (what was your name
again?) and maybe I can squeeze you in." "Oh, well you know my number so
don't be a stra-" "Hey look at the time! I gotta skate, Clyde's making
Mojitos'."

At this point the upper hand is yours. You can let her twist in the
wind, you can draw her back into you life at the pace you decide.
Whatever, it's your life. But if you're a smart man? You slowly phase
her back in. You're IM'ng. You're talking on Live. You get invited to
family functions. You bring Clyde, he becomes like one of the family.
You're one big Brady Bunch.

 

[Cassanova_Child]

O.K. this is how it goes. You get an orangutan. I'm not talking a little
monkey or some some dancing chimp bull****, I mean a ****ing orangutan.
Don't ask me how you're gonna get a ****ing orangutan, that's not my
problem. So the orangutan's name is Clyde. This is non-negotianable, all
orangutans are named Clyde. I don't know why that is, it's just how the
world works. So you and Clyde become man (and ape) about town. You're
seen everywhere together, you make the scene. You and friends go out in
big groups. You talk loud, you laugh louder. Every time you say
something witty you high-five the orangutan. The town begins to buzz. It
gets back to her. "Did you know the guy with the orangutan?", "You used
to be friends with the guy with the orangutan?", "Why would you refuse to see the guy with an orangutan?" Next thing you know she's calling.

"I'm hoping we can still be friends. Wanna hang out sometime." "Geez I
dunno, me and Clyde were going to go to a monster truck race tonight.
(orangutans love monster trucks) In fact the whole social calender seems
kinda full. I tell you what, I'll make a little note (what was your name
again?) and maybe I can squeeze you in." "Oh, well you know my number so
don't be a stra-" "Hey look at the time! I gotta skate, Clyde's making
Mojitos'."

At this point the upper hand is yours. You can let her twist in the
wind, you can draw her back into you life at the pace you decide.
Whatever, it's your life. But if you're a smart man? You slowly phase
her back in. You're IM'ng. You're talking on Live. You get invited to
family functions. You bring Clyde, he becomes like one of the family.
You're one big Brady Bunch.

and who's supposed to play clyde in this situation ? a nice fellow DJ? or shall clyde be the little voice inside ones head who tells you to man up, and have a good time without needing anyones approval?

 

[Brighty]

O.K. this is how it goes. You get an orangutan. I'm not talking a little
monkey or some some dancing chimp bull****, I mean a ****ing orangutan.
Don't ask me how you're gonna get a ****ing orangutan, that's not my
problem. So the orangutan's name is Clyde. This is non-negotianable, all
orangutans are named Clyde. I don't know why that is, it's just how the
world works. So you and Clyde become man (and ape) about town. You're
seen everywhere together, you make the scene. You and friends go out in
big groups. You talk loud, you laugh louder. Every time you say
something witty you high-five the orangutan. The town begins to buzz. It
gets back to her. "Did you know the guy with the orangutan?", "You used
to be friends with the guy with the orangutan?", "Why would you refuse to see the guy with an orangutan?" Next thing you know she's calling.

"I'm hoping we can still be friends. Wanna hang out sometime." "Geez I
dunno, me and Clyde were going to go to a monster truck race tonight.
(orangutans love monster trucks) In fact the whole social calender seems
kinda full. I tell you what, I'll make a little note (what was your name
again?) and maybe I can squeeze you in." "Oh, well you know my number so
don't be a stra-" "Hey look at the time! I gotta skate, Clyde's making
Mojitos'."

At this point the upper hand is yours. You can let her twist in the
wind, you can draw her back into you life at the pace you decide.
Whatever, it's your life. But if you're a smart man? You slowly phase
her back in. You're IM'ng. You're talking on Live. You get invited to
family functions. You bring Clyde, he becomes like one of the family.
You're one big Brady Bunch.

God damn it I love you.

 

[BBJ1083]

In order to be the dominant alpha male, never ever ever text a girl when you are drunk and just seen her. That is the worst thing that you can ever do. You will always over state your emotions and make yourself look less, so always wait until tomorrow to send the text!

That should be a rule!

 

[Pdizzzzzzle]

and who's supposed to play clyde in this situation ? a nice fellow DJ? or shall clyde be the little voice inside ones head who tells you to man up, and have a good time without needing anyones approval?

Wait, so Clyde's not a monkey? Back to Pet CO....

 

[MisterMcGee]

O.K. this is how it goes. You get an orangutan. I'm not talking a little
monkey or some some dancing chimp bull****, I mean a ****ing orangutan.
Don't ask me how you're gonna get a ****ing orangutan, that's not my
problem. So the orangutan's name is Clyde. This is non-negotianable, all
orangutans are named Clyde. I don't know why that is, it's just how the
world works. So you and Clyde become man (and ape) about town. You're
seen everywhere together, you make the scene. You and friends go out in
big groups. You talk loud, you laugh louder. Every time you say
something witty you high-five the orangutan. The town begins to buzz. It
gets back to her. "Did you know the guy with the orangutan?", "You used
to be friends with the guy with the orangutan?", "Why would you refuse to see the guy with an orangutan?" Next thing you know she's calling.

"I'm hoping we can still be friends. Wanna hang out sometime." "Geez I
dunno, me and Clyde were going to go to a monster truck race tonight.
(orangutans love monster trucks) In fact the whole social calender seems
kinda full. I tell you what, I'll make a little note (what was your name
again?) and maybe I can squeeze you in." "Oh, well you know my number so
don't be a stra-" "Hey look at the time! I gotta skate, Clyde's making
Mojitos'."

At this point the upper hand is yours. You can let her twist in the
wind, you can draw her back into you life at the pace you decide.
Whatever, it's your life. But if you're a smart man? You slowly phase
her back in. You're IM'ng. You're talking on Live. You get invited to
family functions. You bring Clyde, he becomes like one of the family.
You're one big Brady Bunch.

You deserve to actually have an orangutan cohort

 

[CaptainJ]

I was drunk last night and pretty much pressured a girl to come hang out even though see didn't (I'ma get some weird looks from her at school hopefully it didn't come off to bad lol) she stopped texting me when she realized I was fairly drunk (fair enough), she actually said not now another time, but I'm not going to bother, anyway the point is

Is it okay to pressure a girl to come hang out with you if she's kinda saying maybe or I can't coz have responsibilities (and you know they not lying) or should it just me like:

Hang out
No
Cya

Thanks

Tip: Never text drunk ever! no matter how important it is when your sober it will be unimportant lol (Don't know how i'm going to work my way out of this one haha)(It's just horrific reading these txts that i sent last night I can't read anymore lol)

NEVER pressure a girl to do anything. It just does not work. There's a difference between confident persistance and pressuring, because with confident persistance, she actually wants to go out with you. Pressuring just makes her feel less comfortable around you and puts stress on her.