Miles28 said:
1. A couple of posters basically suggested that if you want to sleep with other women you're not ready for an LTR. But don't ALL guys want to continue to sleep with other women, no matter how good the relationship? I think that it's embedded in our genes.
As long as you, and ANY man believes this, he has sold himself into SEXUAL SLAVERY. I, and many of those who serve with me, believe that too many men here blame what's in their "genes" TOO OFTEN when it's really their lack of control over what's in their "JEANS" that's REALLY to blame.
Consider this: There are plenty of things that we men want to do that are NOT in our best interest, but we still wanna do them anyway. And there are plenty of things that we men want to do that may be in our best interest at THIS stage of our lives, but NOT in others.
Looking at the Big Picture will usually tell you what's best for you to do RIGHT NOW. Our sex drive is just ONE aspect of our ENTIRE lives that can be viewed as either beneficial or detrimental----it all depends upon the CONTEXT. We all have the ability to control our actions and even to change our perception of how we view things----but only IF WE CHOOSE TO. All that's required is that we have a strong enough reason WHY.
Here's and example:
You might "WANT" to kick the guy's ass in the 4x4 Truck with all that hunting gear on top of it who just cut you off in traffic. But you usually decide NOT TO, don't you? Why? Well hopefully, it's because you realize that you are a sentient, human being with free will and some self-control.
Or, if THAT'S not the reason, I ASSURE you that the ONLY other reason is because you realize that that guy in that truck is easily TWICE your size, and that he MIGHT actually have a GUN in his lap. So, if you ran your happy-ass up to him with an "attitude", he could probably CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOREVER-----and NOT in a good way. lol
You see, you are NOT your emotions, or your desires, or your urges, or whatever. These things are all just PARTS of you. You only "HAVE" emotions. So when you don't MAN-UP and take control of your goddammed self, guess what? NOW your emotions have YOU. So welcome to the wonderful world of self-inflicted bondage...
The same is true in the area of sex.
ANYTHING that you can't say NO to, is your MASTER. And YOU are it's SLAVE.
It is true that we as men like sex, and are very stimulated by what we see----but if you have chosen your woman wisely in regards to an LTR (i.e.----she is Hot as Hell to YOU), then you should be WILLING and able to acknowledge the "fineness" of other chicks without feeling the overwhelming desire to run over and Fukk them right there in the middle of the street.
So a lot of this "I'm a man, so I can't help myself." bullshyt that you hear on here a lot is usually just the mantra of the sexually immature, the worshippers of sensual PLEASURE, the overly scholastically anal retentive, OR WORSE yet----LTR or married guys who have hidden regrets for the choices that they've made, but still love to live vicariously by posting on internet forums.
But the irony of it all is that they are still trapped in the Matrix, but they don't SEE it. They are trapped in the SEXUAL MATRIX. The societal and cultural programming that has tricked them into believing that fukking women is the primary measurement for their manhood.
Little do they realize that because they have abdicated their will to the rule of PUSSSY, they have now handed over their BALLS to the enemy----(the more consciously MANIPULATIVE women out here----the HORs and the Biitches-----those radical feminists and manhaters who just LOVE to reduce the value of all men down to just their ability to impersonate a DILDO).
Listent up, soldier, your DIICK don't tell YOU what to do. YOU tell your DIICK what to do!
Got it?
A man who can't resist Pusssy is Pusssy Whipped. But a man who KNOWS his true HOLISTIC value, harnesses and utilizes his masculine power to instead "WHIP THAT PUSSSY."
In other words, he knows how to make pusssy a PART of his life, rather than giving pusssy control OVER his life.
My advice to YOU, soldier, is to cut THIS chick loose and go out and meet other ones. And KEEP doing that until you run into one that interrupts your HUNT FOR "PINK" OCTOBER by you noticing her consistent demonstration that she is better suited for you than all the others.
Yes, and until then, don't even CONSIDER a woman for an LTR unless you can honestly look at OTHER hot women and say "Hey, that babe is FINE as fukk-----JUST LIKE "MY" BABE IS!"
March on.
