Presenting, your average fallen fool in love.

[Hydesg]

i just dropped her a msged recently . chat on the phone with her, for 3hrs straight, she kept continuing the conversation, even though she says shes gotta rest n sleep its 230am , well i was more of a listener she does 80% of the talk. i just fuel the conversation with short ques n replies. afterwhich and asked her out ... smoothly i suppose.

we went out together, had lunch, watched movie, had dinner, sent her home.

while watching movie she leans towards the arm rest on my side.
she walks quite close to me.
shes talkative
talks alot. so i guess our conversation was spontaneous
but i didnt talk much. she kept reminding me that my answers are short.
affter which i sent her home. i confessed under her block in the car.i told her i have liked her for 8years.
and we sort of chatted for 3hrs in the car
she opened up alot
told me that in the past she would have ignored it
but now she is able to talk abt it openly


she went home. i cant stop thinking abt her

i called her again the day before yesterday.

we chatted though
it was short , maybe 45 mins
she was ranting on herself, slacking around etc

she did mentioned that
the day before her friend from overseas called her to chat.
she said. normally she would have hung up shortly, but since her friend was overseas they chatted.


well ive confessed. seems like its going no where.
she might just be the talkative sort that opens up easily
though she said shes quiet with strangers etc.. no confidence, yadda yadda........


i think she implied that we didnt contact each other that often?
she hasnt been in a relationship before thats what she told me.
i suppose shes afraid to go into one with me?

so what do you guys suggest?
ive confessed the same thing last year
gave up and tried again this year

continue or give up.

this was what happened last year
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=47828

this year was better though
her response


read somewhere that lengthy phone conversations are big NONOs

so i guess i wouldnt be calling her anytime soon except to ask her out..

 

[Hydesg]

when i told her i liked her this time she told me that she remembered that i told her i liked her before

 

[Disconnect]

I'd suggest read the bible. All your answers are there.

 

[Dapper Swindler]

Ditto. Rather than analyze the situation and point out where the mistakes are, just start reading the bible and it will all become clear to you.

 

[Hydesg]

ive read all the articles

but

wat i want is comments from u people
suggestions perhaps

 

[cactus3178]

Whoa. First, three hours on the phone is too much. 15 minutes is about the limit. If you like this chick, the only reason to call is to set up a date or to make plans. If you want to talk for three hours, do it in person and keep it fresh and light.

So basically, you told this girl last year that you had the hots for her?

How would you evaluate her IL?

IMO, from reading your other thread, your either being too damn timid, or her IL is at 0%. If she 'likes' you now, go for it. Trust me, beating around the bush is not gonna get your ass laid. You don't have to confess your feelings to her...infact, it's not even advisable to do so. Actions work better.

If you want to bypass all this bullsh*t, kiss her next time your together alone. You'll get your answer in 2 seconds.

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by Hydesg


well ive confessed. seems like its going no where.
she might just be the talkative sort that opens up easily
though she said shes quiet with strangers etc.. no confidence, yadda yadda........

so what do you guys suggest?
ive confessed the same thing last year
gave up and tried again this year

Relationship dont "go" anywhere, somebody has to take it somewhere. Im sure she does not know that you are expecting her to move this further. Girl waiting plus Guy waiting equals AFC.

Do Something pimpen. Most women I talk too are clueless to the fact that men are cowards inside and expect them to do all the work. She doesn't know you have giving over the reigns and expect her as the woman to make the first move.

Man-up pimpen!

 

[Hydesg]

man
would kissing her be abit too sudden?
i dont think she would be receptive of the kiss
she might even get turned off


what ive tot abt is
i might just hold her hand and tell her that we should be together

if its positive
then i might make the kiss move
or rather hug her first

let her be assured