Whydomyeyeshurt
Don Juan
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Do you subscribe to any of the OLD services? Worth it?
i did, but it’s completely unnecessaryDo you subscribe to any of the OLD services? Worth it?
Total overkill in your case. You could have juat used a selfie and a free profile and got similar results.i did, but it’s completely unnecessary
Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yep. Tinder got worse when Match LLC bought it. Without the premium services.OLD dating is useless without a premium subscription, unless you're a celebrity, male model, etc.
I hate giving the sites business, so I typically just pay for a month, mass swipe, then engage with who I've matched with when the subscription expires.
Paying only gives you a fighting chance. I agree that a lot of times paying doesn't work. Most men have a match percentage below 1% on their right swipes. You need to pay to get the unlimited swipes.Take it from me, even paying doesn’t work. I have professional photos and look decent, with a good job. I boost weekly and pay for bumble and hinge. I get maybe 1-3 matches a month at this point. I’m in a city with 7 million. OLD is not designed for you to meet people, rather it’s a money extraction project. From your pocket.
Even though approaching strangers randomly is similar to cold calling for business (a discredited sales method), there is an advantage is being face-to-face. While I don't recommend stranger approaching as the overall best option in the short to medium term for finding a girlfriend, it does have more merit than app swiping.Instead I work to make 20 cold approaches a week. Keeps me sharp and allows me to keep some leads Going.Cold approach is the only way. Trust me. That’s 80 approaches a month, statistically, 1-3 of them will really really like you. Assuming you have decent game. Which I do. At that point, the balls in your court to screen for quality.
Men would be foolish to upgrade. Swipe apps do not filter for activity. Allowing unlimited swipes just lets you swipe through all the localized inactive profiles.Most men need to buy the unlimited swipe package from one of the big swipe apps to have a fighting chance. On 100 swipes a day, it's not likely you'll get a lot of matches. I know my match percantage on my right swipes has historically been under 1%.
This is going to sound harsh, but your pictures aren't good enough or you're not as attractive as you think you are. I had nearly 2k matches on Hinge prior to being banned and had sex with 10+ girls a year off it. Also had one relationship.Take it from me, even paying doesn’t work. I have professional photos and look decent, with a good job. I boost weekly and pay for bumble and hinge. I get maybe 1-3 matches a month at this point. I’m in a city with 7 million. OLD is not designed for you to meet people, rather it’s a money extraction project. From your pocket.
Instead I work to make 20 cold approaches a week. Keeps me sharp and allows me to keep some leads Going.Cold approach is the only way. Trust me. That’s 80 approaches a month, statistically, 1-3 of them will really really like you. Assuming you have decent game. Which I do. At that point, the balls in your court to screen for quality.
That could be the case. Who knows. But trust me I’m a ruthless self critic and have tried everything OLD. It’s designed to get your moneyThis is going to sound harsh, but your pictures aren't good enough or you're not as attractive as you think you are. I had nearly 2k matches on Hinge prior to being banned and had sex with 10+ girls a year off it. Also had one relationship.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.