cw92 said:
Pretty much excatly what the title says...I feel horrible. This is my girlfriend of 3 weeks, pretty much before this site she ignored me, but after applying simple things her IL went WAY up. I'd say she is a HB7. Anyway, before this incident we had only kissed...and a small bit of touching..in fact we barely hug when we see eachother. Anyway...we went to a movie...Valkyrie or somehting, there were 2 other people in there.
I have never had a gf before, in fact she was my first kiss. We were watching it and something came over me...and I started kissing her..then feeling her up...and I placed her hand on my d!ck. Next thing I know my **** is out..and she starts sucking it. Now i have had no sexual experience besides my hand..so I was done in about 2 mins. I was in such shock, that by the time it finnaly hit me i had ejeculated into her mouth. Needless to say the date was very akward after that. She wasnt to distant..and laughed at my jokes.
But yeah how would you all proceed if you were in my situation?
Anyone else have trouble lasting? I just feel so frustrated and disapointed in myself.
I made sure i didnt mention it or apologize..(not sure if i should have), I kind of just shrugged it off. But i felt like a loser/ass for not telling her because no one really wants that in their mouth, at least a 16 yr old girl.
Haha wrong move. Be OPEN about it, and make fun of the situation, frame this potentially embarrassing incident as something light hearted. It's ok to make fun of yourself, as long as you're not lowering value.
I once was trying to tease a girl whilst licking her out, left, slipped on some clothing she left on the floor (damn floorboards haha), and full stacked it WHEN I WAS BUTT NAKED. Instead of getting all insecure about it, i laughed, played it off, pretend i broke something and made her kiss me better, which then led to escalations and we had a lovely time anyway.
So, don't worry too much, make fun, keep it light. It may be a little late for that now, but if she ever brings it up, that's when you frame it as something stupid and funny. Also, don't act any different to before, don't let it become awkward, and certainly don't hesitate when i comes to sexual experiences again.