It's just the opposite. She thought you were a chump since you got riled up. Chances are, in HER mind she wasn't even doing anything wrong. Even if she was conscious of the fact that she was disrespecting you, women can rationalize anything. She didn't care enough for you to show you respect that night, so your words bounced off her like bullets bouncing off Superman.
If a guy disrespects me I do the same thing. I don't give them any more of my time.
Keto, keto, keto.....you're falling into that "I gotta get the last word in" crap. You DON'T have to get ANY last word in. Every single time I TRIED to get the last word in, it blew up in my face. At minimum I felt like I just handed her a piece of my dignity.
Now since I have become CONSCIOUS of these kinds of things, there have been a couple of times where I kept my mouth shut, as tempted as I was to say something, and WALKED AWAY. Each and every time, 100% without fail, this was the better course of action. I felt like I still had my dignity intact, and the woman still had respect for me, for whatever that is worth.
The chick I was seeing for a few months awhile back that basically swung branches after her high school reunion....PRIME example.
She sends me an email telling me she found someone else (I knew by her actions weeks before that), and that if I wanted to "talk about it" to give her a call. She also said she was still planning on attending my party that weekend, if it was ok with me.
I responded "Congratulations, hope it works out for you. See you Saturday". And that was that.
It fukking SUCKED holding my tongue, cause at minimum I felt the email was a chicken sh!t thing to do and she should have told me to my face.
But you know what? I feigned the indifference card (truth is it really DID get to me) and looking back on it I am SOOOO glad I did.
Incidentally, this chick came back into town right before she was about to get married, I thought it was to close the sale of her house, but unbeknownst to me, I was attending her bachelorette party that night. She walked up to me that night and said "You must really hate me about now", to which I smiled and said "Now why would you think such a thing?"
We ended up back at my buddy's house laying on his bed. She was smoking weed with everyone else and ends up laying next to me with her head on my shoulder. I probably could have fukked her one last time, but remained true to my indifference, I got up after about 20 minutes, told everyone to have fun, and left.
If I had gone off on her it would have done nothing but shown her my weakness toward her, and I would have felt good for ten minutes and then walked around for months feeling like she got the best of me.
Just by you posting this it shows that it got to you, and I think you realize that you and your feelings don't mean sh!t to her. I would bet a hundred bucks that had you simply WALKED AWAY, she would have been calling you (which you would have ignored) and you would now have a greater sense of satisfaction about the whole thing.
The text could have been worse. At least it wasn't overly emotional.
This is GOLD.
A woman's worst enemy isn't YOU or the meaningless words that come out of your mouth, it is her own imagination. Withdrawing attention is the best way to "call a chick out" for just about anything. When I finally did that with my ex g/f she turned into an emotional WRECK. As soon as she saw her sh!t sitting in a box on her porch and knew i was serious about leaving her she lost it. I'm talking worse AFC EVER. Like 50 phone calls in one night up till 5am. I'm talking drive 1/2 hour to sit in front of my door cause I wouldn't let her in kind of sh!t.
Then what did I do? I decided i wanted some more of that luscious pu$$y, and started fukking her again, which gave her the perfect opportunity to find another branch while she still "had" me, and as soon as she did she totally flipped the script and all of the sudden I was the biggest ass hole ever to walk the earth.
Cutting all ties is the ONLY way to break it off with women after they disrespect you. You retain your dignity, and she gets to wallow in the pool of sh!t she created.
Amen brother, amen.
