ohiobohio518
Don Juan
I'm two years into college and in a frat and haven't hooked up with anybody, mostly because I'm a pansy. Whenever I know a girl likes me, I just keep telling myself that I can do better, and this is just a vicious cycle.
I DO have a sex drive. I am very much attracted to the opposite sex. But people keep asking me if I like girls, or if I'm asexual. I guess I don't give off a gay vibe because no one has ever asked me if I am gay.
Have you ever met anyone like this, or were you someone like this yourself? I feel like I'm this way because I just suck with girls. Many girls I know/mutual friends of people I know don't think I'm actually flirting with them because they believe I'm asexual. WTF?
People straight up ask me like, "Why don't you hook up with anybody?" or "Do you ever have crushes?" or "Do you like girls?"
and I have no idea what to say, because the answers are "Cause i suck" "yes " and "yes", respectively. and its just an awkawrd question and it makes me really uncomfroable.
How do I change this?
I DO have a sex drive. I am very much attracted to the opposite sex. But people keep asking me if I like girls, or if I'm asexual. I guess I don't give off a gay vibe because no one has ever asked me if I am gay.
Have you ever met anyone like this, or were you someone like this yourself? I feel like I'm this way because I just suck with girls. Many girls I know/mutual friends of people I know don't think I'm actually flirting with them because they believe I'm asexual. WTF?
People straight up ask me like, "Why don't you hook up with anybody?" or "Do you ever have crushes?" or "Do you like girls?"
and I have no idea what to say, because the answers are "Cause i suck" "yes " and "yes", respectively. and its just an awkawrd question and it makes me really uncomfroable.
How do I change this?