the blue pill conditioning is deep, real deep.Idk if she’s cheating she has like 0 friends lol
we need to talk bro
she has an eco system of friends..............
not suggesting she is cheating, but they cant live without that eco system.
the blue pill conditioning is deep, real deep.Idk if she’s cheating she has like 0 friends lol
might also be a thing about your relationship not evolving , and does not see you as a long term relationship prospect as you are far away from her ( 1h drive ) . A relationship either evolves , either you guys brake upI (20m) visited my gf (20F) yesterday and was planning on satying until sunday, (she lives 1h away). So I get there right, first time seeing her in awhile and thought I would give her some flowers (like the afc I am) bc I havent done that too many times. The evening approaches and I assume we’re gonna have sex like we always do, we basically do every night before bed. I make a move but she doesn’t want to. So i just forget about it and go to bed. I tried again in the morning but she didnt want to AND she didnt even wanna cuddle plus she was acting kinda cold and had not even kissed me yet.
So in the afternoon I lie to her that I have a headache and I go home because im not gonna sit and tolerate this behaviour towards me. She’s basically treating me like a friend at this point. I can tell she gets kinda mad that I wanna go home though. But I still follow through, although I am quite sure that I would have gotten laid this night but I think she’s trying to controll me with her ***** and im not gonna be a slave to that ****.
Now I just plan on laying low on the contact with her and let her realize her behaviour is not ok. She has to appreciate me and realize that im not gonna be some simp to her.
The preemptive breakup is probably the most effective weapon in raising interest level. Thing is, you have to stick to it or you come off as weak.I would go a step further than everyone else here and just do yourself a favor and break up with her now. Guarantee her tone changes massively. You then decide if you want her back in your life. My guess is you do - even though you shouldn’t. Her behavior shows it is only a matter of time before she calls it off IMO.
How many times did you reject her attempts at holding your hand before you allowed it?The other was one day I went to hold her hand while we were walking somewhere and she seemed to resist. I immediately withdrew and silently rejected her attempt to hold hands. I kept my body language distant for a little while (ignoring her) and she was all over me wanting to hold hands and be physically close.
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I agree with some of this. Don’t agree with the principle of trying to make it work after it’s clearly going downhill. I definitely agree she needs to come back, cook for you, and suck your d1ck. Mandatory.You lost frame way before this happened, OP.
Go no contact until she contacts you. Then you act cold back to her. When she presses you, explain that her behavior was unacceptable and she owes you an apology. If she refuses, get off the phone with her until she hits you back up to apologize.
Step two is the broad has to make amends for her shvt behavior. That means she needs to come see you and either bring a gift or cook for you. She needs to voluntarily blow you also.
Do NOT go see this girl again until she makes amends for her behavior. This is how you discipline your woman. And if she walks, she was never yours to begin with.
You are right. However, OP is going to want to try anyway. This is the roadmap.I agree with some of this. Don’t agree with the principle of trying to make it work after it’s clearly going downhill. I definitely agree she needs to come back, cook for you, and suck your d1ck. Mandatory.
So whose gonna wear the pants? Whose gonna have the balls? Whose gonna walk with the big swinging c0ck? Her or you?Ah the classic timeless universal story about how your female wants to be the alpha in your sweet loving relationships.
Probably 2. I also kept physical distance and removed my attention from her for maybe 20 minutes. This is a great gal. That’s all it took.How many times did you reject her attempts at holding your hand before you allowed it?