In my experience with the last few women I have been with I have noticed how wonderful a hug can work. Being a growing DJ myself started working well with women, but I was also trying to find my own small ways of improving my DJ skills. Ive been doing great meeting plenty of new women taking them out having a good time hooking up, but I have continued to notice that when meeting someone I've talked to prior before meeting there was a bit of physical tension between me and the other person; of course that went away after the night went through but it took way too long just to break that small tension. So what did I do? I found a way to take that small tension away, meeting with the girls I was talking to I would talk to them the night before on the phone or so, and after having a casual convo I would say " I am gunna get my hug when you first see me tomorrow right? " and of course they would all say yea of course why wouldn't you, I mean who doesn't love a good hug. So I have come to realize that those hugs killed any physical tension there was floating around so now instead of ending the night with just some simple hand holding I am ending my night with kissing , making out, mabey even more. So remember get your hugs there worth it and you will also feel a lot more better around the person you are with.