Potential fwb wants to see other guys

Thebestthereeveris

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I’m setting up this fwb on tinder and she seems down but she says what about days she doesn’t see me she asks if she can see other dudes. Honestly emotionally idgaf but physically it disgust me another man will have *** in her than it’s my turn lol. I feel like it’s supposed to be the man ****ing all the girls and the girls only being loyal to him. How do you guys manage this and how would you go about telling her she can only **** you?
 

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I could not help but laugh. She already sh*ttesting you. Plus if a woman has the courage to say that before you guys do anything that means she's already placing you on the shelf. You're done.
 

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If i say let’s see other people I feel like she’d view me as a cuck but if I said exclusive feel like she would feel like she’s losing freedom
 

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Just say "no" she can't **** anyone else. It's the best answer cause it demonstrates ownership.
 

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I’m setting up this fwb on tinder and she seems down but she says what about days she doesn’t see me she asks if she can see other dudes. Honestly emotionally idgaf but physically it disgust me another man will have *** in her than it’s my turn
Bro, this would be the case with her anyway. Only difference is, now you know about it.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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I could not help but laugh. She already sh*ttesting you. Plus if a woman has the courage to say that before you guys do anything that means she's already placing you on the shelf. You're done.
Nah I know it’s a **** test. If I say yes she’s probably view me lower but if I said no there’s a risk of her saying no lol. ****
 

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Nah I know it’s a **** test. If I say yes she’s probably view me lower but if I said no there’s a risk of her saying no lol. ****
you've already lost.

trying to figure out the 'best way to answer' a chick is a massive fail. you're a man. do what you want. say what you want. if she bounces, then, she bounces.
 

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Do you know what FWB stands for?
Works both ways my friend.
S***test or not, sooner or later she’s going to be blowing other bones..
If you’re not comfortable with that, you’ll have to seek an exclusive relationship.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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I’m setting up this fwb on tinder and she seems down but she says what about days she doesn’t see me she asks if she can see other dudes.
I think it's a good sign that she's asking your opinion/permission first.


Honestly emotionally idgaf but physically it disgust me another man will have *** in her than it’s my turn lol.
I would hope that she plans to take showers in between meeting and fvcking different dudes bro. If not then I'd stay away from her lol.

I feel like it’s supposed to be the man ****ing all the girls and the girls only being loyal to him.
That's not impossible but it's really unrealistic.


How do you guys manage this and how would you go about telling her she can only **** you?
It sounds like you want a girlfriend, perhaps you should tell her that and she'll reveal this whole thing was a 3 Dimensional Chess plan to get you to do that.
 

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She’s coming over to Fvxk my brains out gg
Cool then what’s the problem. If she’s gonna fvck other dudes then she will. You can’t have her be exclusive to you while you are free to play the field. The odds are not in your favor and the reality is she has the potential to fvck many more dudes than you have to fvck women.
 

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Cool then what’s the problem. If she’s gonna fvck other dudes then she will. You can’t have her be exclusive to you while you are free to play the field. The odds are not in your favor and the reality is she has the potential to fvck many more dudes than you have to fvck women.
Let her go if she doesn't favor you
 

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Cool then what’s the problem. If she’s gonna fvck other dudes then she will. You can’t have her be exclusive to you while you are free to play the field. The odds are not in your favor and the reality is she has the potential to fvck many more dudes than you have to fvck women.
It’s normal for a man to **** multiple women but women should serve one man. In the caveman days wouldn’t it make sense for the alpha to **** all the women
 

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It’s normal for a man to **** multiple women but women should serve one man. In the caveman days wouldn’t it make sense for the alpha to **** all the women
Well, if you see my previous posts I agree with you. But that’s only for a time, and only after you have built an attachment.

women are happy to share alpha males and be loyal. To a point. It won’t last forever, I lose plates after usually 6 months because what they really want is commitment and I just won’t give it to them.
 

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I’m setting up this fwb on tinder and she seems down but she says what about days she doesn’t see me she asks if she can see other dudes. Honestly emotionally idgaf but physically it disgust me another man will have *** in her than it’s my turn lol. I feel like it’s supposed to be the man ****ing all the girls and the girls only being loyal to him. How do you guys manage this and how would you go about telling her she can only **** you?
If you’re just FWBs, you both can see others. If you’re exclusive, she’s your GF.
 

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Well, if you see my previous posts I agree with you. But that’s only for a time, and only after you have built an attachment.

women are happy to share alpha males and be loyal. To a point. It won’t last forever, I lose plates after usually 6 months because what they really want is commitment and I just won’t give it to them.
That’s happened to me and I’ve lost a girl who I should’ve made a gf as she was loyal and hated me be with other girls but loved me enough where she wouldn’t see other guys but couldn’t take it anymore
 

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If you’re just FWBs, you both can see others. If you’re exclusive, she’s your GF.
Your not hearing what I’m saying. It’s supposed to be the alpha ****s all the girls while the girls stay loyal to that one alpha
 

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I think this has been brought up before and the best answer was something along the lines of "You can meet other people and go out and have fun. All I ask is that you let me know if you are having sex with someone else".
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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