RickTheToad
Moderator
Be yourself.
To some extent you have to be something you're not if you want to become someone who gets what you wantGenerally any advice that tells you to be insincere and go out of your way to be something you're not, is horrible advice. If you're a funny guy, who's struggling with game, then trying to be a stiff will just be, well.... a creepy stiff with awkward conversation. And this was advice I recently read here from a guy who said that "being funny [is] feminine energy." Clearly not the sharpest tool in the shed....
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Until they wisen up. Romance is needed but in very small doses.=> Turns out it's men who are tend to be more hopelessly romantic than women.
... By learning it the HARD way themselves.Until they wisen up.
It's the most legendary meme of all timeI've always been curious....why the James van der Beek crying avatar?