kenpiffyjr
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This thread is the greatest thread on SS. I read this thread every day tbh. Thanks for everyone who contributed
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Bible_Belt
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Thank you. She came over this morning. We had great sex. She just texted me that she wanted to come back tomorrow morning...and I told her no. I have to do some work for my dad. She was shocked; I'm not sure any guy has ever told her no before. Advantage = Me.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Now she's texting me stuff about all the insecurities she has about her body, and that she would be more serious about me if she felt like I was physically into her more. LOL this is the girl I'm into so much that I'm posting pics of her ass on here. She said I need to appreciate her boobs more? I was like "no worries, your ass is great." She's petite, 110 pounds, obviously she isn't going to have huge t!ts. They're fine, b-cup or so. I don't have any problems with them. But I'm not going to fall down and worship the awesomeness of b-cup t!ts.
All women have huge insecurities about their bodies, even the hot ones.
All women have huge insecurities about their bodies, even the hot ones.
Glumix
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You sure about that?
She got hit by men 100 times a day. She knows she is attractive. You said it by yourself, no other guy ever told her no before.
Pretty sure she does not equate that with lack of attractiveness.
She wants the only thing she cannot have. I think she is just fishing for your attention and her bait is "being more serious" AKA "love" because perhaps she started to sense that you actually care a lot more than what you show her.
Women are not stupid. They can sense a great deal of what you don't even have a clue about. Don't trust what they say.
They do not get their self-esteem with s€x when they can have all the s€x they want whenever they want it. What she lacks here with you is some sense of emotional security and connection.
She is certainly insecure, but not about her attractiveness, but about her inability to create a connection of greater nature with you. That's the main problem of hot women. They never had to have that skill so they have no idea how to do it when they finaly meet an Alpha who does not pedestalize her body.
TL;DR: she is falling in love.
That's an awesome thread for sure!
Bible_Belt
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she is falling in love
Maybe so. Today was another good day. She brought me breakfast. It was from a small cafe she worked at a long time ago; she liked their food a lot and wanted me to try it. There was a lot of thought put into it on her part. And it was very good food.
We do spend a lot of time talking and enjoy each other's company. Then at some point she will just go get into my bed. Today was great sex. It keeps getting better. She's an "edger." I've heard about that in guys, but never girls. Edgers get off on delaying orgasm as long as possible, because it makes them have a bigger one when they do finally cvm. She actually prefers that to being multi-orgasmic. She did cvm twice, though, because we did it twice. The sex keeps getting better.
After she left, she was sending me long, graphic porn texts. She works tonight, and it's Friday, so I have every chance to go get laid elsewhere, but I have no desire to do so. If her idea of gaming me is bringing me food and fvcking my brains out, it's certainly working. We'll file that under things I'm never going to tell her, but the women of the world could learn a lesson here - this is how to get the man you want, even if he is a womanizer.
Maybe so. Today was another good day. She brought me breakfast. It was from a small cafe she worked at a long time ago; she liked their food a lot and wanted me to try it. There was a lot of thought put into it on her part. And it was very good food.
We do spend a lot of time talking and enjoy each other's company. Then at some point she will just go get into my bed. Today was great sex. It keeps getting better. She's an "edger." I've heard about that in guys, but never girls. Edgers get off on delaying orgasm as long as possible, because it makes them have a bigger one when they do finally cvm. She actually prefers that to being multi-orgasmic. She did cvm twice, though, because we did it twice. The sex keeps getting better.
After she left, she was sending me long, graphic porn texts. She works tonight, and it's Friday, so I have every chance to go get laid elsewhere, but I have no desire to do so. If her idea of gaming me is bringing me food and fvcking my brains out, it's certainly working. We'll file that under things I'm never going to tell her, but the women of the world could learn a lesson here - this is how to get the man you want, even if he is a womanizer.
kenpiffyjr
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Bible_Belt
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She really withdrew over the past couple weeks. She was over and sat on my couch for a while a couple days ago, but other than that I have not seen her much. I was thinking she had a new guy, but after talking to her, I think she's just going through a depressed phase because it's the end of winter. From what I know, she's just been sitting around the house. We're not under any sort of commitment to each other, so I don't think she has incentive to lie. We still text and email. She always responds.
I'm wondering if it finally sunk in that I am not relationship material. She has implied a few times that she is looking for a guy who wants her to move in with her two teenagers. I actually have my own place that is plenty big enough, but I'm not living with some woman's kids. Maybe she's depressed about that, too.
I told her that she is welcome at my place any time just to talk to me and hang out, with no expectations (of sex). I honestly don't care if we fvck again or not. The sex was good, but not great. I've had better. I like her as a person more than as a FB. This is the only way I can be friends with a woman - we've had sex before, and might again, but just aren't at the moment. That's my idea of no-bullsh!t male-female friendship.
I'm wondering if it finally sunk in that I am not relationship material. She has implied a few times that she is looking for a guy who wants her to move in with her two teenagers. I actually have my own place that is plenty big enough, but I'm not living with some woman's kids. Maybe she's depressed about that, too.
I told her that she is welcome at my place any time just to talk to me and hang out, with no expectations (of sex). I honestly don't care if we fvck again or not. The sex was good, but not great. I've had better. I like her as a person more than as a FB. This is the only way I can be friends with a woman - we've had sex before, and might again, but just aren't at the moment. That's my idea of no-bullsh!t male-female friendship.
