Possible sucess story( you tell me)

[loverboy2003]

Yeah kinda need some advice here guys, went to a bar tonight and seen this waitress that i have seen there a few times, well we already had a waitress but she came over and asked if we needed a drink an etc well she proceeds to hit on me tellin me to put my shades on cuz i look hot in them and shyt,

and its karaoke there so she asked me to sing and i said no one wants to hear me she said she did and so on so i decided alright time to play some C&F and told her if she wanted to be around me she has to sing to me(while being funny bout it) but she said they arent allowed to only after work,i tried to convice the boss but he said thats the rulesbut she did promose to sing a song if i paty with her sometime anyhow, i asked when she's off she told me and said we should party togeher and whatnot, Oh ya by the way this chic was a HB 9 at least, so i was in denial that a hot chic would even look my way,

but my question is i didn't hit on her for the fact she was workin never try a pick up while they're workin you just look like another afc, but she seems to like me, So was i right and not actually tryin with her more so makin her try with me???? Or should i have just went for it with a Number close?? am i readin too much into it?? did i play the C&F routine right?

 

[squirrels]

Go for the number. You'll know then. (BTW, how can you sit there and ask her when she's off and talk about partying with her, and then NOT ask for the number?! That's a dropped ball there.)

Hell, even THEN you might not know. She might give you her number but never answer her phone for you. (Had that happen with a couple of strippers)

Either way, sitting around flirting with waitresses doesn't mean sh*t. They get it all the time, so they're masters of it. Good practice, though, because they'll put up with you when you slip...they're tip-hunting.

 

[chicksrock]

its cool dude,
you should have number closed..
so kick yourself in the butt for not doing that ..

but we all have to learn these lessons,.. sometimes repeatedly ..!

i think what stops us from number closing is that we men feel like its too forward or might screw up the convo we're having ..
i think its best to number close right at the end of the convo when you're about to leave..
i think thats when its very safe. .

 

[loverboy2003]

Thanks guys, Yeah i know they Tip hunt so i wasn't reading to much into it but one buddy i was with put it this way its like a stripper if they are hittin on you for tips they tell you when their next show is but if they let you know when they're off( wanting to be with you after work) well thats a total different sign of intrest,

thats what she did, but another buddy with me agreed but he's a bartender and said the golden rule is never try a pick up on a sever while they're workin but he also said it aint standard proceedure for her to tell me when she was off, but he said i should flirt with her build good Rapport then next time i see her mention Hey girl you owe me a song when you off and how can i get a hold of you to go out sometime, so thats what i plan to do Good advice or not????? you tell me??? I know i still shoulda number closed but lesson learned and always tomorrow right?