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There are some REALLY hot girls in porn--on the internet, videos, whatever. Don't get me wrong-- there are plenty of nasty women in the porn industry as well, but some of these girls are really young and super beautiful and do some of the craziest sexual stuff you could think of--sometimes even with really old men, etc., and then it's accessible to almost anyone who has the money to look at it. I know that the money must be good, but don't you think that the guys who find these girls and get them to be in these movies must know something about picking up REALLY attractive girls and must have some unique, powerful skill that we can learned from? What is it? Think about it--the really hot girls in porn could easily go get just about any guy (rich guys too) and most of these guys would easily make up for any $ the girl could get in porn. I just don't see why/how a really hot, young girl would get into porn (especially hardcore stuff) without a little special "talking into" by guys who are really good with women. I'm also curious if anyone knows of any materials (books, internet sites etc.) that talks about how guys get these girls to do these porn pictures and movies. Thoughts?
 

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to be fair, ive seen cases of girls who DONT need a "special talking into" for joining the industry. rather, guys try to talk them OUT of being a porn star.
 

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I've been wondering this myself...

Not even a 'pornstar' - more of like, just getting them in their cheezy little home videos that get distributed on the net. I imagine many guys tell em they won't put it on the net, but I still wonder what they're doing to get them in the video to begin with.
 

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The answer is simple, they can afford to buy these women.
It is the same reason why women go into prostitution.
Without the money these guys don't have a hell in chance of getting the women to perform such acts.
 

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Even for the cheezy home videos MysteryWoman? What about junior crime fighter photographers that bring in the sexiest women around. Do they say, hey babe- got this digital camera. Or is it like, hey babe- got this digital camera and $2,000 bones.

Know what I mean > something else is going on, because lotz of girls are strippin' down something massive and they ain't all getting the bones like that.
 

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Originally posted by MysteryWoman
The answer is simple, they can afford to buy these women.
Without the money these guys don't have a hell in chance of getting the women to perform such acts.
There it is!
 

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I think there are probobly a number of factors at play here.

Some chicks are simply madd sluts that have been desensitised to normal sex and crave something more hardcore. I've known a few girls like this (didn't get **** tho).

Many hot girls are attention *****s. I think this is where the success of the recruiters is derived, rather than from superior DJ skills. To be sure, the ability to build rapport and thereby get a chick comfortable enough to perform increasingly raunchy acts would be critical. Yet, I doubt anyone is smooth enough to talk a girl into this unless some desire already exists within her and she gets some degree of satisfaction from the resultant attention.

Of course, money is going to be an important factor as well. However, I don't think it is likely as important as the other three.

Psychological research has shown that only a minor reward is necessary in order to convince people to make efforts that they would otherwise not be predisposed to doing. The key is that there is SOME reward. For example, in attempting to get people in a mall to take an hour-long survey, the response rate will rise dramatically if a small reward is added, say $5. A reward of $15 dollars, however, will not make a significant difference in contrrast to the lesser reward.

Thus, in my view, I think money will only play a minor role in a chick's calculus, except of course for career porn stars.
 

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To clarify, I think girls that get into porn WANT to because of the attention, and the excitement of the sex. Recruiters must have reasonably good DJ skills and pay them for their work. But, in my opinion, money is less important than the other factors.
 

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These women are hot and no what they are worth. They are unlikely to do it for free. Even if a women has an extreme sex drive, the chances are that she really doesn't enjoy fcuking old men or animals e.t.c

These women make great actresses and you guys are falling for it, this is when pornography can be come dangerous-guys start to believe the reality.
 

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Well don't ask how I know but.....

Woman in the films tend to almost always have an insecurity issue. They derive from broken homes, molested at early ages. Date raped, denied opportunities. So men who get these girls don't really need alot of skills. They have an open door of acceptances.

Films are based on sex and pretty women. Most woman are very pretty, but just under the skin they are very dirty and or broken in a sense. They tend to have drug problems or dependency issues of some sort. The films are their escape and they are getting paid!

I have dated many strippers and yes I have been with people in the industry. Why you ask.....because I happen to just like s3x. After being with these women I get nearly the same result, they are very very needy and clingy. They can get any man they want, but once they have their grip on you they want more and more. Once they have that more, it doesn't stop. To alot of these women, it is a very vicious cycle.

That is my spin on woman in the industry and how it really doesn't take skills to capture these girls. They are all around you, you just don't see it.

M.A.C.
 

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I agree totally with Matt. I am a big Howard Stern fan and he talks alot about this. Most of the girls he has on have gone through a lot of trauma. They have been sexually molested or abused or whatever. Not all but usually, there is a deep pain somewhere they are trying to mask. JMO.

I mean having kinky sex behind clothes doors is one thing. But doing it for all to see takes a special sort of person. And talent. LOL. Basically, these girls are easy prey. Where I might get bashed is.....Has nothing to do with the man's DJ to convince them. All the man has to do is be nice and show an ounce of sympathy and she's hooked. OOps edit:)

And yea it's great money I am sure but not all that. That movie with Demi Moore was way off.

Sex may be sex for men but not for women. THere is always something more involved. But if they are damaged then they become numb. That's why a lot of them are also bi. They get the comfort and lovey dovey feelings from other females that they have been unable to get from men. Or from familes or wherever..

JMO. Whatta I know. I have never even been to a strip club. Wathced lots of porn though:)
 
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MysteryWoman, your insight is lame, predictable and lacking of any kind of factual source. The reason we are discussing this is because it is a general misconception, which you, for some reason, are presenting as a great revelation. :rolleyes:

The facts are:

  • Any woman will do porn.
  • Money has little, if anything, to do with it
  • Every woman is bi (excluding lesbians)
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Speaking from experience:

I once convinced an ex-gf to make a home video. It wasn't hard to do, this girl was the lowest class of filthy wh0re-- low self-esteem, histrionic personality, you name it. I doubt I've ever met a girl as severely f*cked-up as her. Typical spoiled-rotten daddy's-little-girl who just couldn't get enough attention no matter how much you gave her. This was the type of girl who could go out, take home a guy she just met, and f*ck him the very same night. She would also do pretty much whatever I asked her to in bed. She was weary of the consequences of making the movie when I first asked her, but it didn't take much to convince her. The next day she called begging me to destroy it (yeah right!). I had my own motives for making it and for keeping it. Even though I feel bad for this girl and I hope she gets the professional help she so desperately needs, I still can't let her get away with all the scandalous sh1t she put me through. I told her when we broke-up that one day her luck would run out and she would eventually screw-over the wrong guy and end up in some *serious* trouble, but for now maybe her naked ass on the internet will help her realize she needs to change her behavior.

If you are going to make a tape, PLEASE get the girl's permission first. That way you can do whatever the hell you want with it after. They will have absolutely no recourse against you if they consented to making it and they are over the legal age. If you start with this "hidden video" sh1t you will end up regretting it-- BECAUSE IT'S A CRIME. Why take the risk when all it takes is some smooth-talking to get what you want...
 

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Originally posted by Rev

  • Any woman will do porn.
  • Money has little, if anything, to do with it
  • Every woman is bi (excluding lesbians)
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  • These facts are ridiculous and totally untrue.

    Any woman will do porn.
    LOL thats ridiculous. As many have pointed out, its only in certain cases, with girls with past history of abuse. I read somewhere that 95 percent of the girls in porn had a previous history of abusive childhoods, and my intuition tells me the other 5 percent are lying.

    Money has little, if anything, to do with it
    Thats ridiculous too. In fact, the reason there is so many attractive women in porn nowadays is because the stakes have been risen. Gone are the days of the cheesy 70's and 80's porn where the girls where 6's and 7's and made a few hundred bucks a shoot. Nowadays the porn girls are 18-20 years old, often 9's, and make several grand a week doing porn. With the internet, the money in the porn industry has skyrocketed. Its all about the money. Ask any porn star, if the money wasn't good they would all be stripping instead.

    Every woman is bi (excluding lesbians
    LOL thats ridiculous. Scientists have now proven that there are certain hormonal enzymes that define attraction toward the oppposite sex. What they have found, is that gay and lesbian people often have very low levels or none at all of this enzyme. Which helps explain the idea that gay people are BORN GAY, its not really a choice.
 

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DrZ- Ouch! I will remember that the next time:)

Exactly, my point. These girls trust you. Their own fault and I agree ask for their permission first.. but I would have a hard time ever doing something that might hurt someone. Especially, if I slept with them. Sort of goes to show that men can have sex and not give a **** about her or the act but woman have a harder time....Or maybe not. Maybe men who do this are just as numb and void of feelings. Hurt one to many times to many. I dunno.

.And if they are in porn and/or damaged goods ( not all are) they might be just numb from it all. I mean nobody likes pain and we all do what we can in life to avoid getting hurt. Unless of course you like sex with pain but that's a whole other topic:) Still haven't figured that out. I mean a spanking sure. But whipped or cut or some freaky other stuff..freaky deaky indeed.

Sure the money is good and sex is great perhaps...but what a price to pay. Although I sure could use a new porshe right about now. LOL. Still I think it's sort of sad really. But this is me with rose colored glasses on and I like it that way.

I know get off the friggen boards...

But my heart sincerely goes out to people like this. Maybe because I have been recently hurt and a little more vulnerable. I don't think so. As I said, I am too naive and nice to start with that's why I am here:) But No videos though. Thank God my DJ didn't ask my permission for that...

But right on.. I do say however, that good porn that isn't cheezy is hard to find. No pun intended.. I mean some of the tapes my ex bf and I used to watch were more like comedy shows. I am not all that into it. I would rather have fun with him one on one and make our own show... but gotta admit.. it is a BIG BIG industry.

Lot of ****ed up women out there.
 

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Let M.A.C. take care of them. :D

Has anyone ever been offered money for sex? *raises hand*

M.A.C.
 

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*raises hand*

..back in high school.... in the parking lot of a Roy Rogers, my 'friend's chic offered me $20 to suck my c*ck, to get back at her bf. ...that was teh easiest $20 I had ever made. ;)
 

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One of my experiences was a couple asked me to film them having sex. They paid me $50 just to film. Well half way through she got a little kinky and wanted to suck me off while her partner fvcked her. So there I was with a camera in my hand and getting svcked.

So at the end I got a total of $100. Ohh I felt so dirty....not!

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