Porn from a womans perspective / not sick

[jago25_98]

All the porn I'm finding online seems to involve anal and generally being as disrespectful and demeaning as possible.

This is fine, well, I don't care.

But watching it too much doesn't do much good. Next thing you know you want to try deep throat, anal and so on.

No problem, but what we're looking at is a totally inaccurate view of women and sex. Ok, it's not real but we're not learning much here either. You'll probably never find a women who'd do any of this stuff anyway.


Anyone know of porn made for women, any labels I can search for?

Porn made by women, for women. It would be interesting to see what they want, instead of jacking off for ourselves.


to clarify:

I'm looking for porn that isn't sick,
I'm NOT looking for women who'll do this stuff!

This thread is focused on finding porn that isn't embarrssing.

 

[A7Xx]

I just deleted my many gigabytes worth of porn I have had for over a year. Good riddance

 

[rgeere]

The only way you are going to find that sort of sex is to become involved in the porn industry and get paid for it.

A respectful woman would not just openly accept anal or deepthroating. It's sort of revolting actually when you think about it.

 

[quest]

Originally posted by A7Xx
I just deleted my many gigabytes worth of porn I have had for over a year. Good riddance

ah, time to update. good idea.

this is a stupid thread. most girls will do anal, and i think deep throat is a technique that takes learning, i think some girls physically can't do it. so u can't really expect it. but 95% will give u head.

not trying to cut u down bro, but perhaps if u stopped trying to find out what porn girls watch, and start getting laid. u'd have a more informed opinion.

also, i think u'll find most girls who do watch porn will tend to be very freaky, even if its porn made for women. cause i'm guessing then they are masturbating, which means they're fairly open minded to start with.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by jago25_98
All the porn I'm finding online seems to involve anal and generally being as disrespectful as possible.

This is fine, well, I don't care.

But watching it too much doesn't do much good. Next thing you know you want to try deep throat, anal and so on.

No problem, but what we're looking at is a totally inaccurate view of women and sex. Ok, it's not real but we're not learning much here either. You'll probably never find a women who'd do any of this stuff anyway.


Anyone know of porn made for women, any labels I can search for?

Porn made by women, for women. It would be interesting to see what they want, instead of jacking off for ourselves.

This is very true. I remember seeing this documentary a few years back on how porn has been such a bad influence on relationships by creating very unrealistic expectations for sex.

I agree with this. I also agree that a majority of the porn you'll see out there is generally demeaning to women. I'm definetely not pro-feminism by any stretch of the imagination as you can easily tell by reading some of my posts.....However, I do not like the way women are demeaned in porn and sex in general.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by quest
ah, time to update. good idea.

this is a stupid thread. most girls will do anal, and i think deep throat is a technique that takes learning, i think some girls physically can't do it. so u can't really expect it. but 95% will give u head.

not trying to cut u down bro, but perhaps if u stopped trying to find out what porn girls watch, and start getting laid. u'd have a more informed opinion.

also, i think u'll find most girls who do watch porn will tend to be very freaky, even if its porn made for women. cause i'm guessing then they are masturbating, which means they're fairly open minded to start with.

I don't agree with this. Unless you're talking to wh0res/sluts a majority of them would not be willing to do most of the stuff you see in porn.

 

[quest]

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
I don't agree with this. Unless you're talking to wh0res/sluts a majority of them would not be willing to do most of the stuff you see in porn.

depends what kind of porn ur watching..
i don't watch a whole lot, and it tends to be fairly clean..

my ex girlfriend, who was very respectable, but very in love with me did
sex
head
swallowed
finger up the *ss during sex
vibrator

if i stuck around for another couple of months, i would have got anal..

she was 18. i think by the time i have a 25 year old girlfriend, u'd be able to just go straight into that kind of sh*t without talking about it first.

BUT things like putting cucumbers up girls, and having them eat out there friend, well those might be a bit away from reality, but ur stupid if u can't see that..


this kind of reminds me of computer games vs murder.. yeah u do/see that kind of **** in computer games, but it doesn't make u want to do it in real life.

 

[penkitten]

all of us are different
all of our tastes are too.

 

[DJDamage]

http://www.askmen.com/products/dvd/index.html

I think this is the type of Instructional sex video where you can understand better what women want.

 

[AverageFC]

Um. Each person has their own taste.

While you may deem "deepthroat" and "anal" as gross, it does arouse many people out there. Obviously it sells.

So does triple anal penetration porn.

You just have to search. You'll find what youre looking for. If the internet has anything, it's the most diverse selection of pornography. I had to buy a sperm guard for my keyboard.

It's not demeaning to women, because women voluntarily participate. I've known men and women who have had anal sex. People do it. Just because they don't tell you, doesnt mean they dont do it.
How is porn embarassing?

 

[Donald Kaufman]

Originally posted by AverageFC
I had to buy a sperm guard for my keyboard.

That has definite sig appeal.

I know of one female porn flick. Proudly made with Canadian government money. I saw it at the local art house. I just tagged along with someone else. They mentioned the producers name and I had worked with the guy for a while so I paid to see it. It was awful. Keep your eyes open for a film called "Bubbles Galore".

I don't think the woman who made it is representative of what the majority of women might look for in porn. At least I hope not.

 

[diplomatic_lie]

What's "deepthroat"?

 

[Jay-X]

my girlfriend is extremely innocent and is what most people would have called a nun, before meeting me. i mean, at the age of 16, despite being at least a hb8, she had had just 3 boyfriends and had always refused to go beyond makin' out.
less than a week after hookin up with me, she was givin' me a handjob and another week later she was suckin' me off and i was eatin' her out. nowadays, we usually do anal sex at least twice a week... you could think that she's a slut and i could never prove you wrong, since you don't know her personally. anyway, i can assure you that she's a pure catholic girl.

i think that you just have to let her believe that there's nothing wrong with doing this stuff, and every girl will do everything with you. in accordance to this, you should always be sure when you do this. i mean, you shouldn't ask her to do this stuff, nor you should tremble while pullin' her head down with your hands. just be gentle but firm

 

[quest]

Originally posted by Jay-X
my girlfriend is extremely innocent and is what most people would have called a nun, before meeting me. i mean, at the age of 16, despite being at least a hb8, she had had just 3 boyfriends and had always refused to go beyond makin' out.
less than a week after hookin up with me, she was givin' me a handjob and another week later she was suckin' me off and i was eatin' her out. nowadays, we usually do anal sex at least twice a week... you could think that she's a slut and i could never prove you wrong, since you don't know her personally. anyway, i can assure you that she's a pure catholic girl.

i think that you just have to let her believe that there's nothing wrong with doing this stuff, and every girl will do everything with you. in accordance to this, you should always be sure when you do this. i mean, you shouldn't ask her to do this stuff, nor you should tremble while pullin' her head down with your hands. just be gentle but firm

scary that a 17 year old can be so confident with sex when most of the guys in this thread are complete prudes - leaving me to assume they've rarely, if ever had sex.

you've got a big future as a don juan jay-x. i wish when i was 17 my head was screwed on like yours.

 

[I-am-someone]

I don't have that much porn anymore, but I know that porn by Andrew Blake is said to be attractive to both men and women. It's clean, photographic porn with the occasional sex involved.

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by AverageFC
Um. Each person has their own taste.

"deepthroat" and "anal" as gross

anal is gross?
deepthroating is gross?

aww shucks, im so gross!

 

[AverageFC]

Originally posted by penkitten
anal is gross?
deepthroating is gross?

aww shucks, im so gross!

I said "While you may deem "deepthroat" and "anal" as gross, it does arouse many people out there. Obviously it sells."

 

[Alpine]

Some nice girls like porno sex.

The dirtiest sex i had was with a girl who to the outside world was real prim and proper.

She was really nice and sweet.

In the bedroom the first few times she was pretty conventional after that it was like being in a porno without the cameras.

She loved it up the arse, role play, she liked the idea of being a bit rough and the old rape fantasy thing. She liked it anywhere outside and took it in the face alot.

She got a mate round once and tried to convince her to join in (but she wasn't into me )

The real joke was, she was a big Catholic, went to church every Sunday, did a lot of volunteer work for them, and once we met the Vicar or whatever he was and I had a job to keep a straight face.

So get down your local church.

PS ex Nuns are particularly dirty, so I've heard.

 

[Julian]

I like finding the dirtiest and filthiest girl i can then exploiting her on camera then i sell it to meatholes.com.

 

[Jay-X]

Originally posted by quest
scary that a 17 year old can be so confident with sex when most of the guys in this thread are complete prudes - leaving me to assume they've rarely, if ever had sex.

you've got a big future as a don juan jay-x. i wish when i was 17 my head was screwed on like yours.

i can't get if u r bein sarcastic or not, anyway, i gave my first serious kiss at 16, so i don't think i'm a pioneer...

i think that most people are afraid that they are going to be rejected if they try to do kinky stuff with girls, when actually those girls would like to do that...