Porn doesnt turn me on

Adma

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I dont know why but i just dont feel anything for porn. I mean i can watch it and enjoy it but i dont neccesarily get excited over it.

I have to see the girl in person to feel "hard" is this normal?
 

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That's good!

Being a porn addict must suck bad. I bet it has nothing to do with real life. Then you can only get on to porn... It should be exactly the other way around.

I personally can't understand how some guys can jack off to their onietisis or girls they met in real life. That never ocurred to me.
 

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Watching porn isn't a good idea anyway. I've had several people tell me that they ended up sleeping with giant, amazon women because they got so horned out from watching porn they had to find someone right then. I saw a picture of one of these beasts, uggggh, man was it nasty as ****
 

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Porn is different to each person anyway. Best use for it in my experience is if you find something *she* is into it can often lead to some pretty wild adventures.
 

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everywomanshero said:
Watching porn isn't a good idea anyway. I've had several people tell me that they ended up sleeping with giant, amazon women because they got so horned out from watching porn they had to find someone right then. I saw a picture of one of these beasts, uggggh, man was it nasty as ****
Yeah this is VERY true. My friend that jacks to porn 4 times a day (no joke) would fvck anything he got his hands on. He's admitted to it too. How sad.
 

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Adma said:
I dont know why but i just dont feel anything for porn. I mean i can watch it and enjoy it but i dont neccesarily get excited over it.

I have to see the girl in person to feel "hard" is this normal?
try gay porn and report back.
 

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You are perfectly normal and healthy in fact.

I am the same way. I don't do porn, but the couple of times I have seen it my first instinct was to avert my eyes. It just doesn't arouse me at all.

A pretty chick with nice clothes that I see in person on turns me on way more than porn.
 

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Good for you guys. I became addicted to porn and I'm in the process of quitting. I use to binge on for up to 4 hours at a time looking at porn. Then afterwards I felt DISGUSTED. It's not worth it, porn does no good for you. It was just a brief high that I wanted because I was depressed about not having a girlfriend. I still have no girls, but porn is not the answer. I found that the more I looked at porn, the further and further getting a girlfriend is.
 

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Darth said:
A pretty chick with nice clothes that I see in person on turns me on way more than porn.
I agree. I think it is the whole tease thing. When you watch porn, everything is just out there right away. IE, the girl is butt ass naked getting rammed in under 10 seconds. Rather then seeing a hot girl in public thinking "damn i'd love to see her naked". Thats just my opinion anyways.
 
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I am concerned porn is becoming a problem. I stay in and jack off,even when I told myself I won't. I spent so much time doing that, and I have no girls currently. This is killing me.
 

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Nothing wrong with it. In fact, it can be helpful for new things to try.
 

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Porn is the game-killer. Instant gratification can screw with your mind. If I had a porn addiction, I would donate 5$ to charity everytime I 'relapsed'.
 

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Paintballguy said:
When you watch porn, everything is just out there right away. IE, the girl is butt ass naked getting rammed in under 10 seconds. Rather then seeing a hot girl in public thinking "damn i'd love to see her naked". Thats just my opinion anyways.
LOL. Watching Jessica Simpson having sex like the movie Basic Instinct would turn me on more than seeing a girl with clothes on going to work Monday morning at 8:30 am.

Porn doesn't hurt, and if you watch it all day and night, then yes, you may have a problem. Some girls I know have said the sex they have with a guy who doesn't watch porn has sucked beyond belief and the sex with the guys who watch porn has been pretty good. Just something to think about.
 

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CapedCrusader08 said:
I am concerned porn is becoming a problem. I stay in and jack off,even when I told myself I won't. I spent so much time doing that, and I have no girls currently. This is killing me.

Get a job man! I hear driving a cab is a great way of making a living. :rock:
 

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I don't think porn is necessarily a bad thing. like most things it takes some self-control. don't spend over x amount of minutes looking at porn, don't wack it more than x number of times a week. having said that I agree with the poster who said a beautiful woman in real life trounces porn in every way, there is no comparison.
 

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Everything in moderation. Its tough sometimes, especially when your staying in on a weekend night and u get super horny lol
 

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Count me in on the "porn is not worth it" bandwagon. Things like sexual exhaustion and retarded ejaculation are real, growing issues. And they seem to have been spiking since the internet got real big. Hmmmm . .

For me though, the biggest issue is the de-sensitizing it does. When a pair of boobs seems like old news to you, you have a problem. Personally I've cut way back, but caved in last Saturday. Oh well.
 

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Porn is for married men who's wives got fat and/or wont put out anymore.

Get busy ƒucking real women gentlemen. Sex is in your bedroom, not on the monitor.
 

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