Porn and Online dating actually benefit men

[Trump]

The more alternatives, the less chances we put up with bull **** to obtain *****. It's funny how I haven't gotten more numbers while sitting on my ass playing EU4/Cod then wasting my time at a night club or something.

Bro your mentality is way off. You are playing the victim instead of being a leader.

The point isn't to get women as easy as possible and get your world rocked without any effort. The point is to be best person you can be and give something of value back to society, where a woman comes along for the ride. If you get the same amount of numbers sitting on your butt and playing EU4 than going to a nightclub, so what? Are you trying to prove to us getting woman should be easy and requires no effort? Are you trying to rationalize to yourself that women require too much work and porn is a much better alternative?

Remember, life is HARD. Instead of blaming women, blaming porn, blaming the marketplace, blaming the numbers game, blaming on-line dating, do something useful and constructive. Be a doctor, be a lawyer, be a dentist, be a musician. Start a company that is useful to society and hire 500 employees. You will have the bank begging you to take their money, and you will have girls begging you to sleep with them.

Change your thought process. Instead of arguing and complaining about women, you should be coming in here getting upset that they are banging down your door wanting to have sex with you all the time.

 

[skinnyguy]

My insomnia is so bad these days I can fap before bedtime and still stay awake. I'll get highly fatigued for a bit, but after a short while I'll just shrug those feelings off and I'm wide awake again. Usually average only between 4-6 hours of sleep these days, and some nights, none.

As for the porn, there was a period where I used to watch a ton of it, but I eventually was able to just instantly shut it off by sheer force of will. It is all just mental when you think you have to have it to get off. It is overcoming that part of your mind that is telling you that you can't. That's all there is.

lol why don't you "insomnia" people try reading before you go to bed? you'll sleep better.

 

[Xeon21]

lol why don't you "insomnia" people try reading before you go to bed? you'll sleep better.

I read all the time at night. If I'm not reading articles on my laptop, I am reading books on programming languages and security pentesting.

 

[JohnChops]

Alright I need this answered. I understand the women are over the top in porn, moaning etc but what else is so "fake" about a guy and girl ****ing in different positions? Do you guys watch some odd porn and that's why you claim it "messes you up" because I can't ever say porn + jerking it has ever effected me negatively.

I do agree with PRF, it does put a standard on women for some type of wild sex but most of them like that stuff anyway aka being fuvked hard, multiple positions, lasting more than 5 minutes etc. I see no issue with porn. However, if we are talking ****, bukakai, gang bang, anal **** then I see the issue.

But hey, some girls are into that too. Where do you think the ideas came from?

 

[aforabi]

Have to admit.....no fapping would likely take your game and determination to another level. But for me I can't sleep if I don't fap right before bedtime. Used to have bad insomnia. It's really the only reason I do it. Plus it seems like it reduces stress levels.

According to Tao of Loving, your semen is your "life force" ... it's the male essence ... and if you drain it by ejaculating every other day ... then you deplete your male essence over time and that's when you suffer - depression, lack of drive, enthusiam, not having drive to try new things in life (bunjy jumping, talking to new people, going on a trek, travel, starting your own business, etc) ... because when you masturbate, you deplete your masculine energy out of your system WITHOUT leveraging the feminine energy (not making love with the girl, using your hands to jack off) ...

This "imbalance" will make you weak ... its subtle and take years ... just like smoking kills slowly ...

So, therefore, you should not rely on porn. Instead, do the PMO 30 day challenge and go out and socialize (you will get motivation to do this when you STOP ejaculating ... it will happen), and then seek a companion of a girl and try to seduce her (using DJ skills from here) and make love ... but not play with your hands ... never ... because it is very dangerous!