POF Racism

manish

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hey

i have never tried online dating, just wanted to check how good i,m at online dating also i wanted to improve my chatting/talking skills with woman..

so i decide to register on POF[i google it, and find its the best free dating website ]..

when i try to register...hell what..i cant register...it throws me a message saying "You are attempting to signup from a country we currently do not accept signups from your current location. We only accept users from Canada, UK, US, Australia, Ireland, New Zealand and Germany"

wtf...

i google it more..why we indians are denied..the result which i got was more shocking, i felt insulted...an wave of anger swept through me.

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts1772775.aspx


i felt really bad...here we are in 20th century and this is what we get ..i call it racism.. i can prove my self better person in many ways than 60% of men population in above listed countries..

what do u guys feel abt indians...?? what pof is doing ..is it right??
 
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It was a business decision not a racial decision. If the same was happening in Australia they would have done the same thing.
 

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Stop being paranoid...

POF is not racist but there is definitely something wrong with the site. Me and my ex-wife both made profiles there (separate profiles) and then they got deleted three weeks later for no reason. When we tried to re-register it kept throwing that message at us too, even though we're both in the US and are choosing the US. We have a few friends who also use the site and are in the same area as us and their profiles are still active and working no problem. I've emailed the site numerous times but have yet to get even one response back.
We're both pretty bummed as we had both just started talking to people that we were very interested in. The only reason I can even think of is that we both used each others computers to check the site and it flagged us as one person having two profiles. But her cousin checks hers on both of ours too and hers is still working.
Either way... I don't think they're being racist. Just irritating.
 

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if it walks like a duck,,,,,,,

Plentyoffish is definitely racist. Not even Japan is on that list of allowed countries, so you can take out any kind of economic or business consideration out of the equation (which would be somewhat questionable to itself).They included every single English country except just for when their populations are about to become a darker shade ie (also the richest black countries): Bermuda, Bahamas, Cayman and T&T. So Language or reputation of scamming is also not a factor. I hate when people try to make us out as insane fools for noting racism...... be part of the solution, not the problem
 

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manish said:
hey

i have never tried online dating, just wanted to check how good i,m at online dating also i wanted to improve my chatting/talking skills with woman..

so i decide to register on POF[i google it, and find its the best free dating website ]..

when i try to register...hell what..i cant register...it throws me a message saying "You are attempting to signup from a country we currently do not accept signups from your current location. We only accept users from Canada, UK, US, Australia, Ireland, New Zealand and Germany"

wtf...

i google it more..why we indians are denied..the result which i got was more shocking, i felt insulted...an wave of anger swept through me.

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts1772775.aspx


i felt really bad...here we are in 20th century and this is what we get ..i call it racism.. i can prove my self better person in many ways than 60% of men population in above listed countries..

what do u guys feel abt indians...?? what pof is doing ..is it right??
Get it through your head this is not racism

Plenty of Fish is a business. A business's number 1 goal no matter what business it is in the world is to make a profit.

Since India had a 65:1 male to female ratio signing up as per the link you posted (and 50 percent of that "1" were escorts) it would skew the website in a way not favorable to business. You can't establish a dating site were the male ratio is overwhelming higher than the female ratio.

Try hosting a party where the male : female ratio his very high. Males don't like it, females think it is weird. When you have close to 1:1 everyone is pretty happy. That's why when hosting an open party you turn away groups coming in with like 6 guys. It doesn't matter if they are white indian black asian or mutherfvcking rainbow if male:female ratio is too high you turn them away.

Plenty of fish did not ban India out of racism, it did out of business sense. Stop crying racism like a little crybaby every-time something doesn't go your way.
 

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So they are saying Indian men are too desperate and abundant for POF

that sounds about right.

I have over 30 Indian scientists in my department and they are smart and funny...but when it comes to dating you guys have it rough.
 

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Racism exists. Who ever said it didn't exist. Get over it.
 

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Well someone has to be at the bottom of the totem pole. Besides, foreigners going to India experience alot of BS that you wouldn't admit to anyways.
 

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There's demands for Anglo Manatees in India? I didn't know that.
 

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How does POF make money? POF is a free service, so it makes money off of advertising dollars. Advertising dollars that usually come from companies that have strong web presences and do a fair amount of business online. Most of these businesses are generally American or english speaking western countries.

What would be the point of having Japan listed or India of those countries do not carry the numbers and market that advertisers want to advertise to.

Your mistake is thinking that POF is here for you. It's the same mistake people make with facebook. POF and FB are here to use you, your desire for communication in exchange for information that it can in turn use to sell to companies who would like to reach you and sell you other products. Go to POF and see who are the biggest advertisers on there and where they are based. That should give you a clue.

As for countries like japan, their market, culture and language barrier may make it to expensive to enter those countries.

Also who created the site? The site owner is a western, they are a small company. So I don't think they have the resources to cover markets out side of their target demographic. A quick google search will probably shed more light. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PlentyofFish

While it "may" be racist, it may also not be. And until you have more proof as to their decision making process you really are only giving your opinion and not a factual statement.
 

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Your POF is love.mail.ru in Russia, and something else in China, and india. One thing is guaranteed though, if women aren't attracted to you in real life, there is no reason for them to be attracted to you online!

From Russian POF in two months that I've been on there I've gotten:

10 dates
5 different women
sex with 3 women

Out of those, 1 contacted me first and we fvcked on our first date and stop seeing each other after less than 1 week. The rest I've contacted, and I've fvcking messaged the whole site. I didn't get what I really lone for, an LTR.

Best you can do is spend some $$$ on a professional photographer for a photo session, register, and leave it there, and just check messages every evening.
 

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Warrior knocked that **** out the park....

Plenty of Fish, or should we call it Plenty of MALES!!! will not help you any more than making an effort and walking the streets and seeing what you can get out there , or in your social circles.



I figured the culture in India you guys have arranged marriages with good looking beautiful women in your culture..

do not give up man
 

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Sounds like a good move to me. Personally I don't like dealing with people from other countries particularly in dating sites unless I have to. If the sites URL is in english and the site is written in english then other people don't belong there plain and simple. And i'm not american i'm Cuban and if I saw the same thing with latinos I wouldnt like it either. Indians stay in Indian sites, Cubans stay in Cuban sites, less pissed off people like this. Sucks going to an english forum for help and half the posts are in russian, it's like GET YOUR OWN SITE! ya know?

It's not about race, it's about culture. And in dating sites you generally want to find people with the same ideals as you have. Just use an indian site dude, you guys are very capable of having your own dating sites.

POF Quote:
50% of females are fronts for escort agency. Guys just mass message girls for sex and are generally the most annoying users by far.. They don't seem to understand the concept of rules either.
 

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ArcBound said:
You can't establish a dating site were the male ratio is overwhelming higher than the female ratio.
POF has somehow managed to pull it off.
 

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We have guys on here saying that they are meeting Russians on that site! Liars! Learn Russian and try bigmir.
 
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