POF dating..

[pua1989]

either he lives in a very small town or he's very attractive. Or he's bsing. In large cities it's not a winning formula because most of the time the girls on there won't be up for meeting (other than the fatties/uglies). And yes, sometimes there are worthwhile women on there that will meet up with you but they are usually few and far between. Unless you live in a small town where the girls have less options.

someones bitter. haha, i also cant believe youd deem the guys method as useless. hes getting more ***** than you!

 

[Kal0051]

Im not 20 you dumbass im 34, i pretty much just talk to the women in their 20's from 22 to 28 etc.. and for now im having fun but my intentions are to find someone long term.

Yes you get a lot of pigs and cougars, i just filter through and anyone that has "average" as body type that means fat lol. You learn what to look for etc.

Why hate. Just because you may not have had any luck with online dating, don't blame those of us that do. Its not just looks, you have to be able to carry a conversation and game, just like you would after you break the ice from a chick you meet on the street or club.

I don't just talk via msn, it just makes it convenient, i combine phone calls, texting and webcam to built rapport. And heres a flash if you meet a chick on the street, they like talking this way too.. welcome to technology. You sound like my grandpa, well son back in the day we only met chicks on the street and would talk on the phone to all hours of the night! Here's a flash, women text more than they talk these days! women and there blackberries lol.

All it is, is an easy way to get past that initial stage of meeting. Whether you do it online, or on the street its the same ****.

And sometimes it takes a while to find quality, just keep it as an alternative tool in your belt, login daily so it keeps your profile closer to the top of the list, and see what comes. You have nothing to lose, if they come they come if they don't, then you are still where you are. You would be foolish to not try. Trust me ive met some models and **** on the site, youd be pretty surprised at the quality that is on there, although its a lot harder but it does happen on occasion.

Right now, I have about 5 different girls im talking to.. and arranging dates with this week, one for each day coming up. Im not bragging im just saying what is possible and they are all between a 7-9, if im not attracted to them i wouldn't waste my time.

Cheers!

I guess the girls in your area are just more prone to meet up with guys they met online. In my experience girls just use that site to waste time and feel better about themselves and will very seldom meet up with any guy they met on there. But if it works for you then good, but please don't treat it as the holy grail for hooking up with girls (since lots of guys on here have tried it and thought it worthless for the most part).

 

[Kal0051]

someones bitter. haha, i also cant believe youd deem the guys method as useless. hes getting more ***** than you!

no, all I meant is that in my experience it's a very ineffective way to meet girls. Like I'll get a number for every ten girls I message on there (fairly made up figures, using it as an example) while in real life I could get a number for every 3-4 girls I approach.

Now I live in a big city where girls have tons of options and don't have to resort to online dating, but if you lived in a smaller city than of course it would be a different situation.

All I know is what works and doesn't work for me and online dating doesn't. If this guy can make it work than all the power to him.

 

[The Muscle Guy]

Nice job on the online dating gungho!

I live in Chicago, and I have a massive pool of women to choose from. I prefer match.com, women there are of better quality: no kids, good careers, etc.

 

[green69]

Little to no success on that site. I live in a moderately sized city, I'm a decent looking guy but rarely get a response. It hasn't worked for me much at all to be honest.