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Just wanted to share my success with this free dating website..

Plentyoffish.com

I know there are many other ones but its the one i use..

1) If you are are decent looking you will have no problems here.. just fill your profile with a bunch of crap which makes you sound interesting, the beautiful part is.. they will come to you most of the time, but feel free to spam message chicks with a generic message, perhaps change a few words here and there depending on their profile.

2) Once you get the initial contact and a response.. send a few bull**** messages until you can get them to add you to msn or whatever.. that way you can game them via online chatting..

3) Spit your game on msn.. tell them how you are looking for the right connection, all the fun things you want to do with the right person blah blah blah.. work on setting up the initial meeting...

4) The meeting, I usually take em to a restaurant or for coffee or something, easy to talk that way.. now you have the opportunity to work your in person game and tactics that you can learn from this site etc...

5) Bang em..

Really its that easy, ive banged a lot of chicks from that site.. and yes you will have to filter out the cougars and pigs.. but there are the ones worth banging around.. just have to get lucky, or good timing.. Funny thing is that a lot of the ones that were worth it, messaged me first with no pics, of course i get them to send pics after initial contact and i was pleasantly surprised..

You can really build a good rapport with girls via msn after a few good conversations, ive had ones hooked on me before even meeting them in person.. just makes it easier once you do..

I scheduled 2 chicks in one day and banged one in the afternoon the next in the evening.. women are like men, they are horny, and you just have to get them to trust you so they think you are gonna hang around, and not think they are sluts.. you just gotta slowly break down their defences but they will... longest i ever had to wait for sex was like 3 dates.. but a bunch were first dates, most were second dates.. easy as pie.. key is try to schedule them to rent a movie at your or her place.. you know what that means lol
 

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or just game girls in real life. IMO online dating is worthless, girls use it as a way to feel better about themselves and half the time it won't go further than email (unless your going after desperate, low self esteem girls).
 

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gungho said:
1) If you are are decent looking you will have no problems here..
This is the only thing that matters, period. And by decent looking you have to be REALLY good looking.

I don't believe your story, at all.

Post a pic of yourself.
 

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HardTimes said:
This is the only thing that matters, period. And by decent looking you have to be REALLY good looking.

I don't believe your story, at all.

Post a pic of yourself.

Well I think it matters where you live. I believe online sites are best in smaller towns, where there isn't a lot to do. I live in a huge city with tons of nightlife and entertainment, so a lot of people don't have to resort to online dating. My success has been horrible on POF, though I'm very successful in the field. My friend who lives in a quiet area far from here gets tons of emails and ass from it, even though he's just your average joe.
 

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Sandow said:
Well I think it matters where you live. I believe online sites are best in smaller towns, where there isn't a lot to do. I live in a huge city with tons of nightlife and entertainment, so a lot of people don't have to resort to online dating. My success has been horrible on POF, though I'm very successful in the field. My friend who lives in a quiet area far from here gets tons of emails and ass from it, even though he's just your average joe.
I live in a big city too and my success on POF (and other dating sites) have been ass. And yes, i'm not really a good looking guy. Still, even in a small town, I call bull. Post a pic or it's BS.
 

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I want to believe this. I can't do it.

Dude, you can bypass this sh*t by doing pure real-life appraoches. You're spending so much time gaming one b**ch who you're not guaranteed to meet, and you don'tknow if that's a woman behind the keyboard! Even if you do meet the chick, you'll realize that you could've banged 3 chicks for all the time you spent TRYING to get that one.
 

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Believe it, he is right. Its pretty easy to pickup chicks, and very likely of f closing on the first date. I've done it a few times with minimal effort/ time. Hardtimes, might be right about the looks thing though, that will have a lot to do your overall success. As far as getting the initial interest and replies.
 

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HardTimes said:
This is the only thing that matters, period. And by decent looking you have to be REALLY good looking.

I don't believe your story, at all.

Post a pic of yourself.

Why the hell would I post this and be lying, im not Brad Pitt, im decent looking but my bonus is that I work out and have a good build.

I talk to a lot of these woman and even the good looking ones for the most part hear about it from word of mouth from their friends and want to give it a chance. And believe it or not, not every women is into the bar scene, and the same goes for me, im 34 and it gets boring and old, this makes it more convenient.

But yes, you need to be decent looking for initial contact, and having a bull**** interesting profile are the 2 ingredients to online dating...
 

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I posted a profile on POF about a week ago.. just for ****s and giggles... Surprisingly, I've actually gotten 10 messages on there... only one problem.... they are all fatties or already have kids.
 

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there is some hot girls on there but they prob get a ton of messages...the rest got kids tryin to find someone to play daddy...good luck
 

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gungho said:
im decent looking but my bonus is that I work out and have a good build.
Thats what I have been saying, your story is bull unless you are very attractive and thats the only thing that matters when it comes to online dating.
 

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I joined it at the beginning of the summer, because I was going to be working night shifts at my work and that included weekends (i know f****** sucks) so I joined just to keep my game fresh and give it a shot anyways. So far I found that most that message you are a) dumb as s*** b) ugly c) old theres so quality ones on there, but you gotta be careful, be prepared for flakes left right and centre.
 

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I tried it and quickly deleted my profile. I only got responses and favorite requests from fat chicks on it. Average looking guys have little chance of pulling hb's through it. I have better things to do than take attitude from a fugly 3 that I wouldn't give the time of day to in real life.
 

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Kal0051 said:
or just game girls in real life. IMO online dating is worthless, girls use it as a way to feel better about themselves and half the time it won't go further than email (unless your going after desperate, low self esteem girls).
He just finished telling everyone here how he is successful on that particular site, and given good advice, and you suggest to give up a winning formula?

Worthless? He just outlined what works for him and what would work and you deem it worthless? Obviously he's done pretty good for himself, so he has found a way to not make it worthless.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
He just finished telling everyone here how he is successful on that particular site, and given good advice, and you suggest to give up a winning formula?

Worthless? He just outlined what works for him and what would work and you deem it worthless? Obviously he's done pretty good for himself, so he has found a way to not make it worthless.
either he lives in a very small town or he's very attractive. Or he's bsing. In large cities it's not a winning formula because most of the time the girls on there won't be up for meeting (other than the fatties/uglies). And yes, sometimes there are worthwhile women on there that will meet up with you but they are usually few and far between. Unless you live in a small town where the girls have less options.
 

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gungho said:
Just wanted to share my success with this free dating website..

Plentyoffish.com

I know there are many other ones but its the one i use..

1) If you are are decent looking you will have no problems here.. just fill your profile with a bunch of crap which makes you sound interesting, the beautiful part is.. they will come to you most of the time, but feel free to spam message chicks with a generic message, perhaps change a few words here and there depending on their profile.

2) Once you get the initial contact and a response.. send a few bull**** messages until you can get them to add you to msn or whatever.. that way you can game them via online chatting..

3) Spit your game on msn.. tell them how you are looking for the right connection, all the fun things you want to do with the right person blah blah blah.. work on setting up the initial meeting...

4) The meeting, I usually take em to a restaurant or for coffee or something, easy to talk that way.. now you have the opportunity to work your in person game and tactics that you can learn from this site etc...

5) Bang em..

Really its that easy, ive banged a lot of chicks from that site.. and yes you will have to filter out the cougars and pigs.. but there are the ones worth banging around.. just have to get lucky, or good timing.. Funny thing is that a lot of the ones that were worth it, messaged me first with no pics, of course i get them to send pics after initial contact and i was pleasantly surprised..

You can really build a good rapport with girls via msn after a few good conversations, ive had ones hooked on me before even meeting them in person.. just makes it easier once you do..

I scheduled 2 chicks in one day and banged one in the afternoon the next in the evening.. women are like men, they are horny, and you just have to get them to trust you so they think you are gonna hang around, and not think they are sluts.. you just gotta slowly break down their defences but they will... longest i ever had to wait for sex was like 3 dates.. but a bunch were first dates, most were second dates.. easy as pie.. key is try to schedule them to rent a movie at your or her place.. you know what that means lol

All your doing is picking up desperate chicks and sluts online

If you just want sex call an escort service...you won't have to bull**** a girl for 2 weeks on MSN before you get laid nor waste time taking them out to dinner
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
He just finished telling everyone here how he is successful on that particular site, and given good advice, and you suggest to give up a winning formula?

Worthless? He just outlined what works for him and what would work and you deem it worthless? Obviously he's done pretty good for himself, so he has found a way to not make it worthless.
He's 20 and still has a lot of growing up to do. He's using using his computer, online dating sites, and MSN to have sex with girls(And let's get real..the girls as we know on these dating sites are average at best) He's 20 and getting his feet wet and having fun..I don't blame him

For anybody doing this who's over the age of say 25..id say grow the **** up lol be a man and go meet a girl in the real world or atleast show a little respect to the girls and look for something serious

it's pretty lame IMO using a dating site and bull****ting people..if the girl is truly looking for something longterm and u just wanted get your **** wet i suggest have some class and leave her alone

And i should also note this goes for girls too....tons of bull**** on those sites and a whole lot of immature people.
 

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Im not 20 you dumbass im 34, i pretty much just talk to the women in their 20's from 22 to 28 etc.. and for now im having fun but my intentions are to find someone long term.

Yes you get a lot of pigs and cougars, i just filter through and anyone that has "average" as body type that means fat lol. You learn what to look for etc.

Why hate. Just because you may not have had any luck with online dating, don't blame those of us that do. Its not just looks, you have to be able to carry a conversation and game, just like you would after you break the ice from a chick you meet on the street or club.

I don't just talk via msn, it just makes it convenient, i combine phone calls, texting and webcam to built rapport. And heres a flash if you meet a chick on the street, they like talking this way too.. welcome to technology. You sound like my grandpa, well son back in the day we only met chicks on the street and would talk on the phone to all hours of the night! Here's a flash, women text more than they talk these days! women and there blackberries lol.

All it is, is an easy way to get past that initial stage of meeting. Whether you do it online, or on the street its the same ****.

And sometimes it takes a while to find quality, just keep it as an alternative tool in your belt, login daily so it keeps your profile closer to the top of the list, and see what comes. You have nothing to lose, if they come they come if they don't, then you are still where you are. You would be foolish to not try. Trust me ive met some models and **** on the site, youd be pretty surprised at the quality that is on there, although its a lot harder but it does happen on occasion.

Right now, I have about 5 different girls im talking to.. and arranging dates with this week, one for each day coming up. Im not bragging im just saying what is possible and they are all between a 7-9, if im not attracted to them i wouldn't waste my time.

Cheers!
 

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Connor99 said:
He's 20 and still has a lot of growing up to do. He's using using his computer, online dating sites, and MSN to have sex with girls(And let's get real..the girls as we know on these dating sites are average at best) He's 20 and getting his feet wet and having fun..I don't blame him

For anybody doing this who's over the age of say 25..id say grow the **** up lol be a man and go meet a girl in the real world or atleast show a little respect to the girls and look for something serious

it's pretty lame IMO using a dating site and bull****ting people..if the girl is truly looking for something longterm and u just wanted get your **** wet i suggest have some class and leave her alone

And i should also note this goes for girls too....tons of bull**** on those sites and a whole lot of immature people.
bitter about something?
 
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