It's true that I have been guilty of not spinning more plates. I've probably been taking the easier route of trying to re-start things with this half-baked chick rather than get more options (like joverby said). that's the MAIN problem and i realize that.
But the other important thing remains: I basically want to learn from this experience. I want to slot her in the right category. it's just that she has flaked on me twice, and conventional wisdom would say "don't give her a chance again so she can flake once more". Which i sort of agree with. On the other hand, i read some thread about being persistent with a girl till she says "no" or avoids you. confused!
It's just that this girl flakes and then next week when i call she hangs out with me. She also takes my calls immediately. This weekend, if we didn't have a big storm & wasn't that cold, im quite positive she would have come over. She does seem the lazy type, as has been obvious in some of the talks we have had. I'm just trying to get better at identifying "types": Does she just need pushing or is just not interested at all (i know IL is not SUPER high for sure, but i can work with a moderate IL too)
How would you guys have handled it differently from the beginning or how do you read her?
Note: My life doesn't depend on this chick. I want to bed her, esp bec i feel im so close to doing that. I Dont have one-itis from this chick. instead of simply nexting, want to learn from you DJs as to why I shd be doing that and so I can apply that in future....
