PLEASE UNBAN TENACITY!!

[Konada]

Every thread he enters eventually turns into a 'woe is Tenacity' thread. I have him on ignore after observing he rather complains about the entire market of women are bytches and in more recent posts citing his wants to blow off the heads of people rather than seeking real solutions. The guy has made SoSuave a part of his identity, unhealthy.

Dude was a cesspool of negativity that newbs might follow. He was an Eliot Rodgers in the making.

 

[resilient]

For my eagleheart brother, @Tenacity:

All through the night he is lying awake
Wondering how much more can he take
Watching the walls where the shadows dance
Drifting away into a trance
And his eyes are blazing with fire

Dreams burnt to ashes so many times
Highest of mountains, still he climbs
Ready to fly, cause he just can't stay
Flame burning brighter with every day
And his eyes are blazing with fire
Longing for the deepest desire

Heart of an eagle
He flies through the rainbow
Into a new world and finds the sun
Spreading his wings
Above all the sorrows
The glory of Eagleheart

Fever is burning in his veins
Determined with courage, breaking the chains
Back against the wall under blood red skies
Prepared to fight until he dies
And his eyes are blazing with fire
Longing for the deepest desire

Heart of an eagle
He flies through the rainbow
Into a new world and finds the sun
Spreading his wings
Above all the sorrows
The glory of Eagleheart

Heart of an eagle
He flies through the rainbow
Into a new world and finds the sun
Spreading his wings
Above all the sorrows
The glory of Eagleheart

 

[devilkingx2]

I think that all viewpoints are necessary on sosuave, I like the amount of disagreement we have here nowadays, it accurately reflects the truth: that there are a bunch of philosophies and all of them will fail to get you some girls and all of them will get you other girls, so you need every single perspective to mix and match every sort of game to find what works best for you.

without tenacity's perspective the site will shift towards anti-texting pro-unicorn existence, obviously not all the way just from the lack of one user, however I think every side in every debate needs to be 50/50 in a perfect forum (obviously only including situations where both sides have merits)

 

[zekko]

He's a (strangely affable) bag of wind.

Lol.

I think that all viewpoints are necessary on sosuave, I like the amount of disagreement we have here nowadays, it accurately reflects the truth: that there are a bunch of philosophies and all of them will fail to get you some girls and all of them will get you other girls, so you need every single perspective to mix and match every sort of game to find what works best for you.

I agree with this, I like seeing different points of view here. I've never agreed with the "one size fits all" philosophy of seduction - that there is only one type of man all women are attracted to. Many PUA tactics contradict themselves, which should in itself show you that there is more than one successful approach.

 

[BeExcellent]

Personally I quite like Tenacity and think his story is quite inspirational from a wealth/success/pull yourself up by the bootstraps perspective.

And we have had quite the go round in our day as well although I respect where he has come from and can appreciate why he is frustrated.

But after a while the caustic rhetoric is just that, caustic. The mods have an obligation to maintain a semblance of decorum on this venue, as it is a public forum, and already somewhat subject to preconceived notions and assumptions by the greater public. So civil discourse is the best way for the public to observe what TRP stands for, what the manosphere objectively is, why it exists, and etc.

This platform is a community but it is also bigger than any one of us, and it reflects on Alan, or whoever started it. It is not anyone's personal blog insofar as anyone's personal blog runs off the rails and begins to display malicious intent. The appearance of malicious intent doesn't do this platform or anyone here a dam bit of good.

I have no idea exactly why he got banned, although his more recent content was increasingly inflammatory, and I never report anything anyone here does unless it is an uncalled for personal attack on me (and I've only ever done that once.) There are often strong disagreements here, and that to my mind is healthy. It helps us all to see other viewpoints and perspectives and hopefully gain useful knowledge.

So my hope would be he gets to come back, but also that he understands that this isn't his personal rant and anger management therapy. He has lots to contribute when he is in a sensible frame of mind, particularly by inspiring others with his story of his journey.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Personally I'm on the side of leaving him banned.

A site's members are what make the site what it is. Tenacity's posts have had a tendency to attract a certain type of men, and these guys were very similar to him. Tenacity has had success in making himself what he is in terms of his career, personal appearance/physique, but he has ALWAYS complained about the women in his area. What number did he recently say he boned per year? Like 200? Hell even if I'm wrong and let's say it was 100, and he says every single one of them are h0es living the gangsta lifestyle. Again, not disagreeing with him on the gangsta lifestyle being ghetto $hit to avoid, but time and again myself and other guys here have provided him the one single solution that would solve his women problems:

MOVE

He doesn't want to. Then continues to gripe and b!tch about women with such disdain you'd think that the next day he's gonna beat the hell out of the next one he goes out with. And this is not based on my inference in reading in between the lines of what he posts, he actually describes his anger and rage of what he's feeling mentally and emotionally.

Well if you enjoy continuing to wallow in that pit of hell that is your life, fine, just dont keep coming back here to complain and b!tch about the results after guys here have given you a good option that will work.

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

Personally I'm on the side of leaving him banned.

A site's members are what make the site what it is. Tenacity's posts have had a tendency to attract a certain type of men, and these guys were very similar to him. Tenacity has had success in making himself what he is in terms of his career, personal appearance/physique, but he has ALWAYS complained about the women in his area. What number did he recently say he boned per year? Like 200? Hell even if I'm wrong and let's say it was 100, and he says every single one of them are h0es living the gangsta lifestyle. Again, not disagreeing with him on the gangsta lifestyle being ghetto $hit to avoid, but time and again myself and other guys here have provided him the one single solution that would solve his women problems:

MOVE

He doesn't want to. Then continues to gripe and b!tch about women with such disdain you'd think that the next day he's gonna beat the hell out of the next one he goes out with. And this is not based on my inference in reading in between the lines of what he posts, he actually describes his anger and rage of what he's feeling mentally and emotionally.

Well if you enjoy continuing to wallow in that pit of hell that is your life, fine, just dont keep coming back here to complain and b!tch about the results after guys here have given you a good option that will work.

Nah, I think he said that he's boned close to 200 hundred in his lifetime or at least since 2006 or something like that.

I already,stated up above why I can relate to him on one level..

But, now I agree with the part about somebody complaining about a problem over and over, but then not doing anything about it.

The part about him wanting to shoot, strangle, stab, choke, jab, box or cause damage to a bytch is something he needs to get control over, but I honestly don't believe that he would do that to anybody, but who knows.

If he ever posts again I'm going to ask him about that.

These females ain't worth getting in trouble like that either, but it does sound like he was dating quite a few bottom of the barrel hood rats types too.

Which for the life of me I cant understand and if you follow my older posts you'll see that I was very critical of the types of females that he was dating early on, but I can relate to a lot of what he says about women because that shyt is true.

I just don't think its worth my time trying to make people agree with me, there are probably about maybe three posters here who I don't like and I'm sure vice versa. Some people just don't click (as this thread has demonstrated), however I don't believe in being a sitting duck, because some of the people who post here are some serious SADISTIC asssholes who enjoy causing misery and giving people a hard time. And they will fyck with you as long as you let them(yes even when you have them on ignore), problem is I can hang with the best of them, but choose not to. My tongue has always been sharp and my mouthpiece crisp!

But, as the mods would tell you they are best put on ignore and I'm getting ready to add someone right now LOL!

 

[logicallefty]

But, as the mods would tell you they are best put on ignore and I'm getting ready to add someone right now LOL!

Yeeep. An ignore a day keeps the drama away. The ignore button works so well and while I know many of you use it, sometimes I wonder why more do not. This is one perk you get on this site for NOT being a Mod. We Mods yeah we can use it, sure, it works for us too. BUT, then we wouldn't be able to keep law and order over what we can not see, so we have to read all of it. For those who do not, live and love your freedom!

 

[Urbanyst]

I would like to see Tenacity return. He brought a unique perspective.

Some people say they didn't learn anything from him and all he did was whine. However, he made you look at situations differently and that to me is learning.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Methinks tenacity is perhaps still here........

To another point, I sometimes see members whose whining is fruitless and pointless because such individuals are literally frozen within their own constructs and are so in love with them, that they can't get out. The result is zero potential to evolve and to learn to work the system instead of being resigned to the system working them.

It's ego and self-righteousness, not the tongue-in-cheek kind that is sometimes used as a writing technique, but real ego that will not allow a man to reconsider his long-held positions. I think that being willing and able to do so is one mark of a well-rounded man.

 

[Fatal Jay]

Bring him back, I remember me and tenacity was tag team partners on those racist cop threads

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

Methinks tenacity is perhaps still here........

To another point, I sometimes see members whose whining is fruitless and pointless because such individuals are literally frozen within their own constructs and are so in love with them, that they can't get out. The result is zero potential to evolve and to learn to work the system instead of being resigned to the system working them.

It's ego and self-righteousness, not the tongue-in-cheek kind that is sometimes used as a writing technique, but real ego that will not allow a man to reconsider his long-held positions. I think that being willing and able to do so is one mark of a well-rounded man.

Seems like you're implying he has multiple accounts huh?

 

[Atom Smasher]

Could be.

 

[sazc]

I always feel like the people who accuse other people of having multiple accounts probably have dirty hands themselves, and that is where the accusations come from...

 

[Atom Smasher]

Rationally speaking, I would say that allowing for a possibility and directly accusing are two different things. Many members have in fact maintained multiple accounts, so the possibility always exists.

 

[logicallefty]

I have two accounts. That way I can like all of my own posts as much as I want.

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

I always feel like the people who accuse other people of having multiple accounts probably have dirty hands themselves, and that is where the accusations come from...

Hmm, good point, so tell us how many you got?

 

[Tenacity]

Cmon, mods he's actually a good guy.

Thanks for the shout-out buddy.

So, i got used to being the odd man out so to speak, and i think thats what made me identify with Tenacity, he's somewhat of an anomaly. I find him to be very intelligent, open, honest and articulate. No he's not perfect, sometimes he over analyses situations and fails to understand that not ALL of human behaviour can be understood via economic analytics, metrics, data, trends and so forth. But hey if that's how his mind works its because that his job and what he does for a living. Maybe thats a big part of his problem. Perhaps hes an autist of sorts.

I've made significant progress in life, coming from being homeless to where I am now, it is pretty much a miracle. I do have internal issues that I'm continuing to workout and even with those, I've made significant gains. We all talk about "fixing your inner game" on this website, but sometimes there are layers and layers and layers of "internal issues" coming from childhood, to family issues, to racial issues, to women mistrust issues, to friend betrayal issues, that make "fixing your inner game" much EASIER said than done. But notwithstanding, I'm still striving to be better.

From what I understand, I was banned because I made that rant thread which went into detail about how I wanted to do violent acts towards women. I was under the impression that I could use this board as a "personal blog/rant diary" but apparently.....you can't do that.

I for one believe there are certain people on this forum that contribute absolutely nothing, yet, they aren't banned. In addition, there are people on this board who have flat out threatened to SUE the owners of the board, and they aren't banned. But it is what it is.

My posting activity will not be as heavy as it was....but my sole purpose for posting on Sosuave in the first place was to network with other guys who were experiencing some of the same "market problems" that I was. My boy BlueAlpha comes to mind and others. That's what this board ought to be about, it ought to be about guys who share common bonds coming together to HELP each other, network with each other, etc.

I have never understood why the people who "don't like Tenacity" (and there are a LOT of them on this board), don't just put "Tenacity" on Ignore, rather than trying to ban my voice and ban my unique point of view from being expressed.

 

[BeExcellent]

Welcome back!!!

 

[Julian]

@Tenacity the reason is because you were giving off elliot rodgers vibes and thats just not cool. Obviously you have good points but no one here should be at the point of violence because of any female reasons. Wr are supposed to be dj's, unfazable smooth players. Don juans. Not some corny pissed off i hate girls type losers and you were crossing into dangerous territory with your points of view and ranting. I hope youve grown passed this an stop blaming women for your own downfalls.