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Most of the guys here nailed it.Allright, just to get the lay of the land, I'm in a LTR and happened to come upon a copy of The Rational Male a few days ago and gulped it down like a cold beer after being lost in the desert.
Now, the ideas there are somewhat in line with what I've come to expect, or should I say suspect, during my life. But it still feels like a revelation to actually see it written down.
However, I have never actually acted in the way this book implies women unconsciously want, and naturally I now see things in the past in a different light.
But also, i feel like it must have affected my behaviour somehow, because today my partner texted me (from work) the following:
"There will be a dinner together with my parents tomorrow. You are going to attend."
The phrasing is a bit unusual for her, though normally I would just read this as a string of information. But now I cant help thinking there is more to it. Should I? If so, can anyone translate this for me and suggest appropriate response? (I'm a Ph.D. of sciences btw, but psychology analphabet sorry to say).
Harold
Edit: Btw, I have no problem with the actual event if anyone wonders. The food is usually awesome.
this could backfire and signal to her that this is a man who will not stay for the long haul and her sh1t tests will come hard and fast.Tell her something like "look, I don't have any preference for or against going to the dinner. However, I will not allow you to speak to me this way. I'll forgive you this time and let it slide but you wont get a second chance."
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.