Please score me

[Mustache]

Hello guys

The is a return form my last post

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=98365&highlight=risk

I am at age of 40 now and she is 19

We met wednesday

It was in the hotel room, at 9:00 am

She was cute !!

We kissed a lot for 2 hours, but finally she said she had to work
I also touched her tighs and butt...

So I took her to the place of her job

(near her job, because she did not allow me to go to the place of her job)

Some relavant words I heard from her, while taking her to her job,
hand in hand

you are not so tall; you are a bit shy, we live too distant...

I worked in that city in the wednesday and get back thurday
morning.

She did not show up on the night. She worked up to 11pm and
( I called her job manager and could check it, no lie from her)

But I know she could go to the hotel if she wished and slept with me

I am a bit upset because I had several meetings before with older
girls and had sex on the first meeting

If you were me would consider yourself a looser ?

Please score me, guys

Mustache

 

[JC9]

From the information you have provided, it appears she just isn't that interested.

Maybe you didn't live up to the fantasy she had built up in her head about you, which is very common when you 'romance' someone on the internet for months before meeting.

We kissed a lot for 2 hours, but finally she said she had to work
I also touched her tighs and butt...

2 hours of making out with no progression? She may have been interested and wanted sex, but since you didn't progress towards it she may have lost some attraction.

you are not so tall; you are a bit shy, we live too distant...

Were those said in a joking manner when you guys were flirting back and forth, or did she just sort of make them as statements? If it was in a flirting manner she's just being coy and faking being hard to get. If they were made at statements, you are in trouble. She is verbally rationalizing her emotional feelings toward you, and they are not positive.

She did not show up on the night. She worked up to 11pm and
( I called her job manager and could check it, no lie from her)

Maybe I misread that, but did you actually call her work to confirm her shift time? If so, please smack yourself up-side the head ... a lot. That is wierd stalker behavior.

 

[Desdinova]

19 year old girls are flakey like that. You'll learn that when you date more of them.

If you were me would consider yourself a looser ?

WTF kind of attitude is that? THINK POSITIVE and people will respond positively.

Maybe I misread that, but did you actually call her work to confirm her shift time? If so, please smack yourself up-side the head ... a lot. That is wierd stalker behavior.

Agreed. One of the keys to having women attracted to you is being able to live without them. Checking up on her when you've only had one date is stalker behavior. You may never date this woman again, so what's the point of doing this? She has every right to lie to a man she doesn't know.

 

[Mustache]

Nice post JC9 and Desdinova

When she entered the room I kept her sited on the coach

Do you think I shoud have sited her on the bed as I´ve done to the
older girls I met ?

Went I touched her butt, she said I was hurring up things and I stopped. Do you think I should continue, nevertheless ?


Yes, I´ve been I stalker

Mustache

 

[Bvbidd]

Honestly.. you sound like a retarded old man.

She does not want you.

 

[Morphiex]

are you shure shes 19 ? girls tend to lie about theyr age..... if shes under 18 your in one hell of a complication, possible jail time and all that... plus yeah oki if u want to bag a 20 year old , but be shure shes 20 before you go any further.....

and yes u do seem very desperate........ and there may be a possibility that she just wants a sugar daddy.....

 

[JC9]

Went I touched her butt, she said I was hurring up things and I stopped. Do you think I should continue, nevertheless ?

That's hard to answer, as it is completely dependant on her state of arousal and desire. Did she seem really into you before the makeout session, then disinterested after? Did she just seem sort of disinterested the whole time?

But in general, when a girl says your 'hurrying things up' she doesn't mean stop completely. Just slow down, understand the female arousal process and slowly progress. 2 steps forward 1 step back as DD says, it's a good general rule of thumb on physical progression if you can't read her physical signs.

 

[Mustache]

Honestly.. you sound like a retarded old man.

She does not want you.

BVBIDD

I dont agree with you, because I and that girl kissed a lot !
I already met 35 year old girls that don´t even kissed for more than 1 minute and went way

I am just asking the veterans some advices to look for the fails

No jokes please

I think there are not many 40 yo retarded man kissing cute young
ladies, are there ?

Mustache

 

[Socialreject]

Sounds like she isn't all that attracted to you. Atleast not enough to fvck you. But her age is also a factor i think (on the LMR). On the other hand it may not mean anything at all. Could be she was just looking for you to justify why things were progressing that fast... basically looking for you to qualify her.

Ignore the "your not so tall" etc, it's just a crap test. Ignore it or make a confident/humorous comment on it. And don't call her work... OMG! By doing stuff like this you are in serious danger of being filed in the "creepy old man" department and you DON'T want to end up there!

 

[Desdinova]

Went I touched her butt, she said I was hurring up things and I stopped. Do you think I should continue, nevertheless ?

You need to have her extremely comfortable around you in order to progress quickly. Judging from your "loser" comment, you're not even that comfortable with yourself, let alone her.

You need to learn to like yourself. Once you're comfortable in your own skin, others will be comfortable around you. People tend to mirror the people that they're around. Ever become happy just from being around a happy person? Ever get into a bad mood because someone around you is in a bad mood? I'm guessing this girl's behavior was a reflection of how you feel about yourself.

Also, when you build rapport with a woman quickly (****y/funny, kino, teasing), she'll easily become comfortable with you.

 

[womenarebiatches]

Women say all kinds of bull to make you feel bad or awkward about yourself. Yet words are 6% of all communication better watch the body language. Don't take everything they say too seriously.

Experience comes through action. We have to make mistakes so we can learn from them. You want us to give you a score, is our opinion really that much important to you? You worry too much.

Whether you couldve fked her or not, there could be a 1000 reasons why you two didn't.

 

[Mustache]

That's hard to answer, as it is completely dependant on her state of arousal and desire. Did she seem really into you before the makeout session, then disinterested after? Did she just seem sort of disinterested the whole time?

When she first entered the room, she was the first one to kiss me on the mouth (still interested)
But in some moment on the couch, she lost interest

 

[Boschy]

How much did this rendevouz cost you?

 

[Last Man Standing]

She let you grope her buttocks and was grinding on you for two hours in a hotel room and you don't know if she wants you?? Of course she does - she allowed you to touch and kisss her -- the key is don't pressure her too much too fast then she'll think you just want her for sex (for what other reason does a man want a hor? )

If she gives it up to you on the first encounter, when she sees herself in the mirror in the morning she'll see her true hor image instead of a woman. Girls want to "feel" right when they do wrong! Women logic.