Please help, I need some advice on this girl

[dude99]

Can u define ghost her though? Like she has snapchatted me a few times in last day or two. so just open and ignore them or don't even open them?

If you open them you open themif you don't you don't. Who cares.
Be too busy for her. Do your own thing. Go meet new women. If you hang around waiting on her this will show her you havr no options and her interest will plummet even further. Ghosting means you have nothing to do with her for a duration of time, week, month or so, giving her time to either miss you or not even notice you weren't there. If she misses you then you book the date. If she doesn't care, you next her.

 

[PapiChulo]

I think she must have rationalized her rejecting you already and you didn't help it either. I think at best you were in "maybe" category before. I would just forget about her for awhile and look for some other broad to bone in the meantime. Snubbing you on the street = disrespect. In my books disrespect always prompts "next" (for the time being at least).

 

[Nolan12345]

So I've been doing the whole ignore thing you guys suggested for like 5 days...Only thing is she hasn't said anything since then either. I think thats the longest we've ever went without talking. Should i just keep it up or what? And if she hasn't texted me or anything either for almost a week, isn't that kind of bad sign for me anyways lol?

 

[Roober]

So I've been doing the whole ignore thing you guys suggested for like 5 days...Only thing is she hasn't said anything since then either. I think thats the longest we've ever went without talking. Should i just keep it up or what? And if she hasn't texted me or anything either for almost a week, isn't that kind of bad sign for me anyways lol?

Hate to say it, but if your not texting and she is not either, she is likely not interested...

You could ping her and say something random and see if she responds, or you could say... "Hey there! let's do XXX at XXX on this day XXX" Make it something fun and action oriented

 

[Nolan12345]

Hate to say it, but if your not texting and she is not either, she is likely not interested...

You could ping her and say something random and see if she responds, or you could say... "Hey there! let's do XXX at XXX on this day XXX" Make it something fun and action oriented

thanks! That's kind of what i was thinking

 

[VladPatton]

You told her you liked her, you murdered challenge, her interest plummeted and now she looks down her nose at you because she lost all interestin you. She snubbed you in the street. What i would do is ghost her for a week. Then ask her out ONCE. give her a date and time to meet you. If she givesyou anything otherthan a solid yes, next her.

^^^^This. You talked to much shît you're not supposed to, man. You don't tell them you got a crush on them, it makes you look desperate. Secondly, you got trashed in front of her, showing you have lack of control. That's unattractive. You most likely fücked this one up, but now you know.

 

[dude99]

So I've been doing the whole ignore thing you guys suggested for like 5 days...Only thing is she hasn't said anything since then either. I think thats the longest we've ever went without talking. Should i just keep it up or what? And if she hasn't texted me or anything either for almost a week, isn't that kind of bad sign for me anyways lol?

Time to go and meet new women. Plural. Women.

She isn't coming around. She isn't contacting you. She isn't interested.

It would be more productive to put the energy into meeting new women, rather than waste time and effort on an uninterested woman.

Next

 

[Nolan12345]

mm and she just messaged me lol. right after i post this

 

[Manofrefinedtastes]

Won't she just do the same thing again tho when i try to make another move lol? Why would she change her mind

Telling a chick you like her is not making a move. It is ****ing yourself over. You haven't made a move yet.