Please help, Girl who is hot and cold advice!

JayUK

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Hey, There is this gurl whos is 16, quite a few years younger than me, and she is really confusing me!
I see her when shes out in town in nightclubs, and speak to her, and she seems intrested, but I never really move in because she kinda seems on edge, The thing is, she always STARES at me! If looks could kill, i would be so dead!

The other day I was out in town and i saw her, i approached her an sed hey how u doin? she says 'im good' and didnt ask me how i was? So i said 'hows college going for you?' she says 'yeah not bad' and doesnt ask me anythin, I try again asking her who she is with and she says her friend, because she hasnt askred me anything 3 times in return I just said 'Awesome!' ans she mocked me saying it back to me but in a playful way?
So I walked away saying 'have a good night' And started dancing and stuff just in a group, she was getting close to this guy but she didnt catch me looking, she didnt make out with him, then I see her pointing me out to him! And my mate said she was just staring at me when He was trying to hook up with her?
So the next day i text her askin how shes doing, stuff like that, she was texting back, then I tried to move it along by asking her if shes single? and she didnt reply?!?!?! I see this as not liking me right?

The nextday I see her at the gym, I didnt go an talk to her, but again, she was staring at me! and she doesnt do it to anyone else, even when she was talking to this lad she was staring at me with him?!
I went kinda near her to try an get a conversation going, I was doing some sittups, and ....wait for it..... she pointed me out to her mom?
I mean, WHO DOES THAT!

Please help me out! Have you ever had a weirdo liek this after you? and what wud u do about it?! Should I just ask her out? or be playful and say 'hey ive heard you like me' etc! Thanks
 

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Just ask her out. Its normal that she's intimidated by you because she is 16 and you're 19.
 

JayUK

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Yeah man but even if she was intimidated, she would have txt back because ive seen her with other lads aswell, and shes been fine with them, you think maybe she was taking the piss out of me to her mom an the other guys?!

Has anyone else had someone like this?!
WHat you think the best approach is?! Be ****y an smooth like 'hey u kno u wna go out wit me' etc or just a nice 'u wna go out sometime?!'

Shes hot an I feel ive gota get into a decent convo wit her ask her out! But like I sed before, she answers questions i ask her but never says 'how are you' back to me, or 'who r u out with?' when i say 'who u out with?'
Its just 'yeh im out wit her over there' an then no response!
Please help thanks :)
 
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