Please give me some advice

[barvito]

Hi,

I really want to become more social and I think you guys could be of great assistance. i have difficulty opening up, mainly because I'm somewhat shy. I'm not shy around friends but around people i don't know as well, I kind of have a hard time talking. I'm a friendly guy and lots of people joke with me. When in conversation, i would like to become less boring. Maybe give me some stuff to say to "you're looking studly today" (joking) or "what do you like to do?". Just some questions i get asked often, so give me tips on how to answer commonly asked questions adn how to become more social.

thanks

 

[Dank Juan]

Go out and do sh­it as much as you can.
Find a Passion, hobbies, or anything you can do to occupy your time besides just being on the computer or video games like i bet you do.

 

[GaryUranga]

Go out and do sh­it as much as you can.
Find a Passion, hobbies, or anything you can do to occupy your time besides just being on the computer or video games like i bet you do.

basically, Im/was similar to you, been gettign busy and talkign to ppl and crap and its been working so far, today I was one of the speakers in a large group of like 30 ppl of only like 5 ppl who spoke, I used to frak out about things like that because I was shy, but I keep pushign it, buildign my social skills and basically livign to the standard that I want, and thats slowly paying off.

As for beign less borign and knowign htings to say, I think its all part of how relaxed you are, and thtas what you should work on first instead of things to say, the more relaxed you are the more fun you are.