peachlover
New Member
I've liked this girl for about two years now, and about a year and a half ago, I, not being very good with women at any standards, told her how I felt. Now I'm an idiot for doing that, as we only knew each other as colleagues at school, and we didn't know each other that well at all. Her reaction was awkward and undesirable to say the least, and she stayed away from for a long while. Looking back, I'm not surprised (slaps oneself). And on top of that, I get tense when I'm around her which often leads to me doing some embarassing things.
Now however, we are on better terms, and there is much less awkwardness between us, and I think we're both comfortable (as in not tense) with talking to and being around each other. We do spend over half of class time together after all. We have not gone out together though (obviously you may be thinking...).
Now I know that the most common, clever thing most guys would probably do in this stupid situation is just to move on and forget about her, as many of my friends tell me to do. But the thing is, I truly adore this girl, and I don't wanna give up on her yet. If only I could get her to see that I'm a nice guy who's worth considering then maybe I'd have a chance. But with what has happened in the past, I dunno if I'll ever be able to get her to think better of me. That's why I need all the help I can get.
Furthermore, this year me and her are both going to university, and I only found this website, like, yesterday, so there's not much time left.
I've been reading tons of advice and articles on all sorts of things to do with getting with women on this website, and that would help me immensely with going for other women yes, but I'm not sure to what extent its gonna help me get with this girl. Partly, because I'm not sure if she truly doesn't feel awkward around me, or if she just, puts it on or something to make me feel better. I dunno. Sometimes its weird though because I find that she's looking at me, and we seem have "glance fights" sometimes. Like, the other day in class, we were looking at photos a fellow colleague took at a party, and (naturally) glancing at her, I found that she was looking straight at me with the hugest eyes, almost deliberately it seemed. No idea if it was a good sign though.
I know that she goes clubbing occassionally, likes movies and animals (she wants to be a vet). As for her personality, she's kind, clever, sweet, caring, just perfect basically.
Basically, now, I'm just not sure how to go about getting with her. Given what I've told you about the situation, if any of you guys could help me out I would really appreciate it. I love this girl so much. If you're gonna post something saying to forget her though, don't, I will forget her if by the time I'm at uni I'm not successful.
Now however, we are on better terms, and there is much less awkwardness between us, and I think we're both comfortable (as in not tense) with talking to and being around each other. We do spend over half of class time together after all. We have not gone out together though (obviously you may be thinking...).
Now I know that the most common, clever thing most guys would probably do in this stupid situation is just to move on and forget about her, as many of my friends tell me to do. But the thing is, I truly adore this girl, and I don't wanna give up on her yet. If only I could get her to see that I'm a nice guy who's worth considering then maybe I'd have a chance. But with what has happened in the past, I dunno if I'll ever be able to get her to think better of me. That's why I need all the help I can get.
Furthermore, this year me and her are both going to university, and I only found this website, like, yesterday, so there's not much time left.
I've been reading tons of advice and articles on all sorts of things to do with getting with women on this website, and that would help me immensely with going for other women yes, but I'm not sure to what extent its gonna help me get with this girl. Partly, because I'm not sure if she truly doesn't feel awkward around me, or if she just, puts it on or something to make me feel better. I dunno. Sometimes its weird though because I find that she's looking at me, and we seem have "glance fights" sometimes. Like, the other day in class, we were looking at photos a fellow colleague took at a party, and (naturally) glancing at her, I found that she was looking straight at me with the hugest eyes, almost deliberately it seemed. No idea if it was a good sign though.
I know that she goes clubbing occassionally, likes movies and animals (she wants to be a vet). As for her personality, she's kind, clever, sweet, caring, just perfect basically.
Basically, now, I'm just not sure how to go about getting with her. Given what I've told you about the situation, if any of you guys could help me out I would really appreciate it. I love this girl so much. If you're gonna post something saying to forget her though, don't, I will forget her if by the time I'm at uni I'm not successful.
