Player friend said he makes women wait

[Guy69JackBlue]

I was actually thinking the other day...

The only way to form a REAL relationship with a girl is for sex to not be at the center of it.

I'm not claiming to be capable of this.

Many times, girls will think a guy is "immature" if he only wants sex... When in fact perhaps he's just realized that's all females can offer him. It's better than wasting everyone's time.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Sounds too complicated. She plays by my terms, not hers. Making her wait is still playing by her terms, even if you think you're being clever. By that margin, I may **** her now, or I may marinate her interests to make her wetter later. Sometimes I want fast food, sometimes I want smoked brisket that has been cooking for twelve hours. There is nothing more hornier than a woman who has to go all day through her job thinking about you.

 

[Chamber36]

Answer is to be sexual and escalate but to be outcome independent. If it doesnt happen thats fine too.

Though its good at times to let her show interest first. The trick is to get them to do that.

 

[bat soup]

In the end you can do what you want. Try your friend's technique and see what happens. If it works for you, great. If it leads to girls taking advantage of you and wasting your time, then stop doing it.

 

[Dash Riprock]

I thought this was interesting. I was talking with a buddy of mine today who is very good with women, and he said when you're dating a woman and they want to get physical, they will let you know. I asked him to elaborate.

He was like "Making a move on them doesn't turn them on, waiting for their emotions to get involved and having them wonder why you haven't made the move is what hooks them." I hadn't thought about it like that.

He's dating a solid 9 right now. I asked him "Doesn't it show confidence when you try to get physical with a girl quickly?" He said "No, it makes you look desperate."

Thoughts, opinions?

I disagree.
If I smell blood in the water I go for it. I NEVER have waited for the woman to make the first move. If I see the opening, I'm LeBron James taking it to the hoop for the slam. Just me, though. I'm naturally assertive and don't wait around or play mind games.

 

[Black Widow Void]

Yep. The making them wait does indeed work. To be fair, I don't speak from a player (or deliberately making them wait) standpoint. I speak from a sometimes failure to read body language and not striking as soon as the iron is hot. Consequently, I've seen the most meek and non-aggressive women go into animal mode.

As perceptive as women are, they are somehow oblivious that if I'm delaying things, it is a result of a failure to read their subtle signs (if they knew the truth, they'd surely be turned off). Instead, (I suppose that ) they perceive my lack of being instantly physically aggressive as being aloof and coy. This impression seems to turn women on and I'm glad that it does.

 

[Realthangpoon]

In the beginning, I noticed sometimes girls would kind of walk off if I kept talking. Then I read The Game and absorbed this calm inviting energy that just magically seemed to make women attracted. It's weird.

All you need to do is not fvck it up indeed. Show confidence. Don't show insecurity. Be the leader of your own realm and the decider of your fate and remain calm.

If you are unafraid to break eyecontact and in a state of mind like that, women will start gushing juices right away.

Then you can do the thing where you talk slow and pause your sentences to increase the suspense.

Add to that some bravado and sexual voraciousness and I think you are golden.

I agree with this. Paradoxically when I started doing less (less effort/less trying to impress, less talking) my results went up significantly. I’ve been on a self improvement journey for a year or 5 and I think that it just shows from the inside out. It’s not the literal results that pay off for me but I think it’s my mindset, knowing you put in the hard work and the confidence of knowing your value.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

I thought this was interesting. I was talking with a buddy of mine today who is very good with women, and he said when you're dating a woman and they want to get physical, they will let you know. I asked him to elaborate.

He was like "Making a move on them doesn't turn them on, waiting for their emotions to get involved and having them wonder why you haven't made the move is what hooks them." I hadn't thought about it like that.

He's dating a solid 9 right now. I asked him "Doesn't it show confidence when you try to get physical with a girl quickly?" He said "No, it makes you look desperate."

Thoughts, opinions?

Make them wait...... get friendzoned and the woman fvcked by the next Chad not making them wait.

"Making them wait" is what women do when they have low sexual desire for a man and think they can get away with it.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I thought this was interesting. I was talking with a buddy of mine today who is very good with women, and he said when you're dating a woman and they want to get physical, they will let you know. I asked him to elaborate.

He was like "Making a move on them doesn't turn them on, waiting for their emotions to get involved and having them wonder why you haven't made the move is what hooks them." I hadn't thought about it like that.

He's dating a solid 9 right now. I asked him "Doesn't it show confidence when you try to get physical with a girl quickly?" He said "No, it makes you look desperate."

Thoughts, opinions?

No i don't think it works , if you don't get physical quickly she will assume you are weak

The whole point of her dating you is for you to dominate her both physically and mentally not getting physical is usually a fast track into the freindzone

the only scenario i can see it working is if she knows you are getting pu$$y elsewhere

 

[The Duke]

Who is making who wait? Think about that for a while. While you are busy trying to play mind games, she may or may not be willing to drop her panties. Who is playing who? lol

Learn how to read women correctly, build tension, go for what you want. Its all about where her interest level is at that point in time.

All of these gimmicks and don juan rules are intended for women with mediocre interest anyways. You should really toss those girls to the side as soon as you figure out their interest is mediocre. This whole game becomes much easier and your results improve twofold.

A woman with very high interest will bend every one of her silly rules about putting out. Every single time. First date or fourth date, it won't matter. Been there had many tell me. Women are very fickle even to their own constitutions. Its the nature of such an emotional creature.