Damian
Senior Don Juan
They key of getting numbers is grabbing them as soon as humanly possble. In your first approach, establish rapport, and develop a mutual interest. Then go for the number-close as soon as possible or make a date. If she's interested in you at all, you'll get a positive response. If she doesn't, then she's just a friend and you don't have to waste the energy to keep working on her.
I've found a wonderful tactic that I use all the time on girls to grab numbers. It has a great track record, so use it well!
After you've created interest, fake a time restraint. This creates a nice safety blanket for the women, and a great escape ladder you can use if you crash and burn.
-"Dammit, my friends are waiting for me."
-"I really have to get back to my buddies"
Then set a venue but establish that you would go whether or not she's coming. An easy way is to say that you're going with friends. Remember that this doesn't necessarily have to be true. You can say that you're going with dozen people, but then bring her on a 1-on-1 date. *Edit: The whole point of this step is to show that you would be going with or without her. It creates the "guy who has his own life" model and increases rapport while setting a date location. For the AFC's out there, you should try using the friends lines and once you're comfortable, move onto individualisms.*
-"Hey, Me and my buds are gonna head down to the theater this saturday."
-"Afterschool, I'm going to drive down to *restaurant* to go eat with some friends of mine."
-"I'm going to go grab some coffee after work."
Then tell her that she is welcome to come. I've found that NOT ASKING, but TELLING works with much better results.
-"You should come with."
-"Let's go together."
Then interject with a number proposal. Again, I've seen the telling tactic better than asking a question, but you can do whatever you want with this one.
-"But we need to make the plans, so gimme your number."
-"Let me have your number, and I'll give you the info."
OPTIONAL: Then set a time and location to meet if you want an immediate time-bridge. Usually this is used to create more attraction and tension. You can also use this as an opportunity to take her somewhere and jump into it.
-"Just meet me back here afterschool. I'll be a bit late, so just wait here."
Disengage the conversation. This step is pretty much self-explanatory. Anybody can get themselves out of a conversation.
-"Now, get to class, you!"
-"Now get outta here, I have things to do."
-or- use your original time restraint
-"I gotta get back to my friends, cya."
Sure, it seems like a long-winded routine, but it's a rather simple way of grabbing a number. This whole interaction shouldn't take more than 45 seconds or so. I just spread it out to show you guys each of the lines and how each part works. You can tell immediately if she is interested or not, by her choice to give you the number or not. If she gives you the number, it's go time. If she doesn't, you've already figured out by the first meeting if she's worth gaming or not and thus saving your time and energy. It may seem like a canned number close, but I've explained each part, so you can modify each line to fit your scenario. It's more like a number-close framework than a canned line. Just remember to speak with confidence and smile.
-Damian
I've found a wonderful tactic that I use all the time on girls to grab numbers. It has a great track record, so use it well!
After you've created interest, fake a time restraint. This creates a nice safety blanket for the women, and a great escape ladder you can use if you crash and burn.
-"Dammit, my friends are waiting for me."
-"I really have to get back to my buddies"
Then set a venue but establish that you would go whether or not she's coming. An easy way is to say that you're going with friends. Remember that this doesn't necessarily have to be true. You can say that you're going with dozen people, but then bring her on a 1-on-1 date. *Edit: The whole point of this step is to show that you would be going with or without her. It creates the "guy who has his own life" model and increases rapport while setting a date location. For the AFC's out there, you should try using the friends lines and once you're comfortable, move onto individualisms.*
-"Hey, Me and my buds are gonna head down to the theater this saturday."
-"Afterschool, I'm going to drive down to *restaurant* to go eat with some friends of mine."
-"I'm going to go grab some coffee after work."
Then tell her that she is welcome to come. I've found that NOT ASKING, but TELLING works with much better results.
-"You should come with."
-"Let's go together."
Then interject with a number proposal. Again, I've seen the telling tactic better than asking a question, but you can do whatever you want with this one.
-"But we need to make the plans, so gimme your number."
-"Let me have your number, and I'll give you the info."
OPTIONAL: Then set a time and location to meet if you want an immediate time-bridge. Usually this is used to create more attraction and tension. You can also use this as an opportunity to take her somewhere and jump into it.
-"Just meet me back here afterschool. I'll be a bit late, so just wait here."
Disengage the conversation. This step is pretty much self-explanatory. Anybody can get themselves out of a conversation.
-"Now, get to class, you!"
-"Now get outta here, I have things to do."
-or- use your original time restraint
-"I gotta get back to my friends, cya."
Sure, it seems like a long-winded routine, but it's a rather simple way of grabbing a number. This whole interaction shouldn't take more than 45 seconds or so. I just spread it out to show you guys each of the lines and how each part works. You can tell immediately if she is interested or not, by her choice to give you the number or not. If she gives you the number, it's go time. If she doesn't, you've already figured out by the first meeting if she's worth gaming or not and thus saving your time and energy. It may seem like a canned number close, but I've explained each part, so you can modify each line to fit your scenario. It's more like a number-close framework than a canned line. Just remember to speak with confidence and smile.
-Damian
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. After the date I'll call her up a few days down the road, ask her if she wants to come over and rent a movie (probably a week after the first date). Guaranteed make-out session, and then she's hooked.
